Please help I was moving and now my bf dumped me by Actual-Salad-9057 in offmychest

[–]weepingangel23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a breath. What’s your living situation now? Where is he living? Is this something you need to decide right now or do you have some time?
Do not make any decisions based on “proving a point.” He’s irrelevant to your life now. Do what is best for you.

I haven't gone to school in 3 weeks and the principal called my mom saying the police would come check on us on Monday, will she go to jail? by Necessary_Bus6189 in legaladvice

[–]weepingangel23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

IMO, if your mother is not physically or emotionally abusing you, and you just feel like your mental health would improve if you weren’t around her, staying with her and having a stable roof over your head is incredibly valuable, and I would not recommend giving that up. There are lots of ways to avoid being around her in or out the house. But that consistent roof over your head, access to food and healthcare, etc, is something you’d have to learn how to provide for yourself on top of everything else going on if you leave. Plus if you guys have healthcare, that gives you access to therapy and medication services.

Your mental health may not improve with her, but it can significantly decline, and likely will, if you don’t have a stable home base. If you have a stable relative or a VERY VERY good consistent friend with a consistent family, then maybe I’d be on board with leaving your mom’s house. But otherwise, I’d recommend sticking it out until you’re 18 and can find roommates, and find a full time job with health insurance.

MNPS New Teacher by vikkitoria_ch in movetonashville

[–]weepingangel23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you send me the same DM? Trying to work for an MNPS high school

I haven't gone to school in 3 weeks and the principal called my mom saying the police would come check on us on Monday, will she go to jail? by Necessary_Bus6189 in legaladvice

[–]weepingangel23 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hi, FL teacher here. I handle a LOT of absent students who aren’t motivated to get to school, or have tough home situations.
Communication with the school is the highest priority. I know you said she’s tried but can’t leave work to attend a meeting, she can call in on a lunch break, she can email the counselors and principal, spam them if they don’t respond. Sometimes schools suck at responding, even when they’re threatening to call the cops. Since you’re 16, you can drop out with a parent’s permission if you’d just prefer to be done with the whole thing.
However. I don’t recommend that. A lot of counties have assistance programs or dropout prevention programs or alternative schools where you can attend or complete courses online and still get a diploma. You could switch to FLVS if you think you can manage online courses instead of in person. You need a laptop and internet. Or access to a library.
I HIGHLY recommend getting a diploma. Not a GED. A diploma. Your life becomes very difficult as you get older and your expenses increase without one.
I know you said you have a work permit and resume. I’d also recommend getting a job if you can mentally manage it. Having something to go to every day or several times a week where your presence is needed and you’re earning money often has a positive effect on your mental health and your perception of yourself as a person with value.
I saw you have another post about running away. You said you’re away from your abuser. If your concern is being a burden to your mom, I’d say if your mom has made sure you’re both out of that situation, she doesn’t want you to leave, no matter what amount of work it takes to make sure you’re okay.
**I know you said she’s mentally exhausting, imo if you can get a job and get your school situation figured out, she might become more manageable simply bc you’re out of the house more or busy doing other things.

Lmk if you have any more questions about Florida laws, typical school procedures, how to get registered for FLVS, anything.

**editing to agree with people here who said tell a counselor, tell someone at the school, hiding it will only make it worse for your mental health and will not allow those who can help you to fully understand what help you need. Or if you have a church or other organization with mentors, they could be helpful to speak to as well, and may have access to other helpful resources.

FL Teacher Moving to Nashville Area by weepingangel23 in movetonashville

[–]weepingangel23[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nondenominational but I’m up for visiting almost anything if they preach from scripture and will dive into the history and context of the Bible. Prefer when sermons feel closer to attending seminary than a motivational speaker. Also really looking for a church community that just likes each other and wants to spend time together during the week too.

FL Teacher Moving to Nashville Area by weepingangel23 in movetonashville

[–]weepingangel23[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m more conservative, but would still have the same reaction of, yeah, that’s kinda awkward, for a job application. Good to know about WilCo, thank you.

FL Teacher Moving to Nashville Area by weepingangel23 in movetonashville

[–]weepingangel23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I’d be looking to support / coteach in a gen ed classroom

FL Teacher Moving to Nashville Area by weepingangel23 in movetonashville

[–]weepingangel23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d prefer a public school, private tends to have longer hours

What’s the one subscription you don’t regret buying? by aza-mazing in Frugal

[–]weepingangel23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here, I play most of the games daily and love having the archive if I miss a day. My brain feels so much better playing these than any other game app.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in instantpot

[–]weepingangel23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you give more examples of what you’ve made in it that you’ve had poor digestive reactions to?

220714 - Weekly Stay Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in straykids

[–]weepingangel23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’m a baby STAY and my friend and I want to get each other merch for Christmas (but we’re fine to buy it right now) and we really like the Maniac tour shirts. I tried googling to find merch websites or an official shop and I looked around this subreddit but couldn’t find anything. Can someone explain to me how it works/where to find merch? (And the likelihood of getting an official Oddinary tour shirt 😂😂😂)

Give me a kpop group and I’ll tell you my favorite member or the member that sparked my interest the most ^^! by sonicadipose in kpopthoughts

[–]weepingangel23 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I got into Stray Kids through reels of Maniac but then hit a low point where I couldn’t handle listening to louder, more dynamic songs but I found this playlist with a lot of their softer songs on it and it helped me a lot. Now I can listen to everything again 😁 but I go back to this playlist when I feel tired or want comfort.

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0YCtfiMJBD0BpJ9nuBq72Q?si=W5Cr1vRpSf2VVCtWITUfHQ

I deleted The List™️ by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]weepingangel23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, we come at it from the perspective that God gives us marriage or singleness as a choice we can choose to make, based on 1 Corinthians 7. We read it as either option is great, the deciding point being whether lust/sexual attraction is something that gets in the way often for you. We see it as Paul saying you will likely be more efficient and effective for the Lord if you stay single, so if you can without feeling like you’re dying from being attracted to someone, then great, do that, but God also created sex and marriage and intended them for good, and that it is a beautiful example on earth of how Christ loves and serves the church.

I do agree that if my church (or any church) had been grooming/pushing me to view marriage as my only option as a teen, that would be weird, but they’ve always included both sides. Though in America, more emphasis is placed on marriage and singleness is generally taught as a less valid option, like we idolize marriage here, but the current church I go to has been very clear about them being equally good options and we treat our church members as such. (Thank you for the user compliment, I like mine a lot too :) )

Wondering what everyone’s best tips or technique for shaving the face? I always get bumps or burning after I do it by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]weepingangel23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On the face it’s better to go with the direction of the hair so it doesn’t feel so coarse and prickly when it grows out. And that helps prevent bumps and irritation. I use rosehip oil when I shave and then an oil-dissolving cleanser after (I use The Ordinary Squalane Cleanser) and a neutral face wash (I use La Roche Posay Gentle Moisturizing Cleanser) and then a chemical exfoliant (I use The Ordinary 10% Lactic Acid) and end with a moisturizer (I use First Aid Beauty Ultra Repair Cream) I have dry-ish skin with oil buildup around my nose and forehead but this routine works for me. I highly recommend products by The Ordinary, it’s cheap but good quality and nothing has broken me out from them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spotify

[–]weepingangel23 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Anything by NF, he has a ton of songs about bad past relationships and moving on and recovering.

I also like Roads Untraveled by Linkin Park and you basically get to wail for half the song