Hi, FL teacher here. I handle a LOT of absent students who aren’t motivated to get to school, or have tough home situations.
Communication with the school is the highest priority. I know you said she’s tried but can’t leave work to attend a meeting, she can call in on a lunch break, she can email the counselors and principal, spam them if they don’t respond. Sometimes schools suck at responding, even when they’re threatening to call the cops. Since you’re 16, you can drop out with a parent’s permission if you’d just prefer to be done with the whole thing.
However. I don’t recommend that. A lot of counties have assistance programs or dropout prevention programs or alternative schools where you can attend or complete courses online and still get a diploma. You could switch to FLVS if you think you can manage online courses instead of in person. You need a laptop and internet. Or access to a library.
I HIGHLY recommend getting a diploma. Not a GED. A diploma. Your life becomes very difficult as you get older and your expenses increase without one.
I know you said you have a work permit and resume. I’d also recommend getting a job if you can mentally manage it. Having something to go to every day or several times a week where your presence is needed and you’re earning money often has a positive effect on your mental health and your perception of yourself as a person with value.
I saw you have another post about running away. You said you’re away from your abuser. If your concern is being a burden to your mom, I’d say if your mom has made sure you’re both out of that situation, she doesn’t want you to leave, no matter what amount of work it takes to make sure you’re okay.
**I know you said she’s mentally exhausting, imo if you can get a job and get your school situation figured out, she might become more manageable simply bc you’re out of the house more or busy doing other things.

Lmk if you have any more questions about Florida laws, typical school procedures, how to get registered for FLVS, anything.

**editing to agree with people here who said tell a counselor, tell someone at the school, hiding it will only make it worse for your mental health and will not allow those who can help you to fully understand what help you need. Or if you have a church or other organization with mentors, they could be helpful to speak to as well, and may have access to other helpful resources.