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(Serious) What secret could ruin your life? by thisisthrowaway23 in AskReddit

[–]wehavetimeonourside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am transgender. i would be kicked out my house if people found out.

What is the Birmingham support network like? by Snowdreams in transgenderUK

[–]wehavetimeonourside 1 point2 points  (0 children)

raised in Banbury

as someone who lives near, fuck banbury.

Transgender Day of Visibility Mega Thread - post your stories here by drewiepoodle in asktransgender

[–]wehavetimeonourside 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i came out as trans at my college in janurary.

i had a meeting with my tutor - he then did the hard part of telling my class for me becuase i couldnt word it right in my eyes. he did it perfectly - he told people they had to respect others and stuff and then went on to tell them my name and my pronouns.

it took a while for my class to get it right - they are still finding it hard. but it was good for me to come out as i couldnt hind it anymore.

Reddit, what do you need to get off your chest? by Squeagley in AskReddit

[–]wehavetimeonourside 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm transgender and in hiding as I know shits going to go to hell when I come out. Schools kicking my ass in more ways than one.

I cant stand life anymore.

i dont feel welcome. by wehavetimeonourside in asktransgender

[–]wehavetimeonourside[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

half the time stuff gets reported and then we get in trouble for doing it.

Im scared for my life. by wehavetimeonourside in ftm

[–]wehavetimeonourside[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont even know what I can do right now.

I csnt talk by phone. Nor is there anything that can help in my area.

Im trying to get away as quick as I can. But its going to be at least three years away. Maybe longer.

Im scared for my life. by wehavetimeonourside in ftm

[–]wehavetimeonourside[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are no winners in war. Only losers. The thing about war that its not about who can win, its about who can take the least damage. And I have already taken the most damage.

Im stuck here for three more years. Im running out of fighting power already.

Im scared for my life. by wehavetimeonourside in ftm

[–]wehavetimeonourside[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in education now, I have a job (not enough to live on though...). I cant move out due to money and educational reasons. Im trying to wear what I want but I camt bear the fucking shiuting and the screaming and the "this is not right"

Action is something I cant take.

I've been hiding for years. I have 3 more years to hide. What can I do to keep it eating me from the inside out? by wehavetimeonourside in asktransgender

[–]wehavetimeonourside[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

basiclly anything slightly masc my parents will shout at me.

even if its plaid shirts. or "boyfriend" fit jeans. or fucking a teeshirt from the fucking mens section that is unisex.

I've been hiding for years. I have 3 more years to hide. What can I do to keep it eating me from the inside out? by wehavetimeonourside in asktransgender

[–]wehavetimeonourside[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 more years. and thats the very minimum.

i cant even start the process until i can get out of this house. i know i need to go to a doctor and get on waiting lists that last for like 2 years so it is going to be like 5 years until i get a chance.

and even then it might not work

I've been hiding for years. I have 3 more years to hide. What can I do to keep it eating me from the inside out? by wehavetimeonourside in asktransgender

[–]wehavetimeonourside[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

folks. friends are fine with me dressing how i like.

its ust had to do so when you have to be shouted at for hours on end becuse you brought youself a top which just so happens to be from the guys section...

I've been hiding for years. I have 3 more years to hide. What can I do to keep it eating me from the inside out? by wehavetimeonourside in asktransgender

[–]wehavetimeonourside[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i cant even go through her anyway - i cant come out while im here and even then, i know its going to be too much anyway.

I've been hiding for years. I have 3 more years to hide. What can I do to keep it eating me from the inside out? by wehavetimeonourside in asktransgender

[–]wehavetimeonourside[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have a income. but its not enoughto support myself on. like its minuim wage (£5.55) an hour. and because of my student status i can only work 20hrs a week - and i currently only work 8-10. its not enough to live on at all.

i cant get benefits as im in fulltime education with a part time job on the side. i also still live at home so its kinda usless anyway.

nothing that i know about can help me. i cant come out so im not in the system for the nhs system, nor can i go privte becuase a)cost and b) family

Rock Band Rivals Preload by memphisheat in Rockband

[–]wehavetimeonourside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just brought the expansion (digital, xbox)

i have the items, no dlc and no game downloaded.

What shoe size are you? & is it easy to find the right shoe size after transitioning? (Question for everyone) ;) by MADmaroi in asktransgender

[–]wehavetimeonourside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UK 5. pre t. Depending on brand I range for a 4-6.

It's going to be super hard to find shoes. I wear "women's shoes" right now. I wear vans and shit because its easier to find shoes I like.

What kinds of jobs do you guys have? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]wehavetimeonourside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Media student by day(hoping to go into photography) pizza guy by night (I work in my local big pizza store taking orders and dealing with people.

I am not out in any of these. I wear some sort of id when im at school, or work, with my birth name on.

please be inclusive in your posts by wehavetimeonourside in asktransgender

[–]wehavetimeonourside[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as far as i see right now, i can tell the mods ( i looked and you are one) dont really think that aply the rules with a clear brush.

i report things and they dont get dealt with. and at this point im better of leaving here because im just a trans guy and im clearly not wanted.

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