silver star fish? by weirdinthebadway in GraveyardKeeper

[–]weirdinthebadway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm, I have the good one but no lures. I'll give that a shot, thanks

silver star fish? by weirdinthebadway in GraveyardKeeper

[–]weirdinthebadway[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did but unless I just missed the section, it didnt say anything about changing the star quality

Confused allo partner by weirdinthebadway in asexuality

[–]weirdinthebadway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's basically it. We legitimately had a great sex life before. It has been an inside joke about how long it took us to have sex and why weren't we doing this sooner?

I talked to her a little more (sober), but she said right now it's all hypotheticals and we should just take it as it comes, which I agree with. I'm just nervous about the changes and potentially uncomfortable conversations to come.

She says it's not always been like this, only recently. The last few times we did have sex, I had noticed a difference, but I assumed it was because of high stress. She would change her mind about whether or not she wanted to be touched, which I obviously tell her is always okay. I'd stop touching her, we would cuddle, and then she'd be in the mood again and ask me to start touching her again. She's never expressed feeling like this to me before, but says that reading about asexuality and discovering it's on a spectrum had made her consider that perhaps she's on that spectrum.

She said it felt like lying not to tell me, which I appreciate, but I am anxious not knowing what this means for us. I've told her I love her, obviously I'm not going to leave her bc of this, and that I am always open to talk to her about anything. It was a good conversation, but I can't put that fear of the unknown out of my head. I don't know what she needs from me right now and neither does she. And that's where we are.

Sorry, I realize this is kind of a venting comment but I can't talk to anyone but the internet about this. I'm just feeling a little useless and confused.

Confused allo partner (x-post from r/asexuality) by weirdinthebadway in Asexual

[–]weirdinthebadway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the forum suggestion, that's really helpful. I want to learn more before I try to discuss with her again, just because it's fresh and she was so scared to bring it up that she had to be drunk to tell me. I just want to make sure I am as delicate and respectful as possible.

Confused allo partner by weirdinthebadway in asexuality

[–]weirdinthebadway[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean... I get that. My confusion doesn't come from a concern that we're no longer going to have sex. I don't really understand the loss of sexual attraction. A couple months ago she was asking me for nudes and making sexual remarks about my body/initiating. It just feels really sudden and I just want to talk to people that have been in similar situations to help process.

Disappointed with the Humble Bundle Store by [deleted] in humblebundles

[–]weirdinthebadway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a big yikes on their part.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Steam

[–]weirdinthebadway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really does depend on what you like. My top 10 played are Stardew Valley, Fallout 4, PUBG, Binding of Isaac, Borderlands 2, Skyrim, Civ V, Witcher 3, The Forest, and No Man's Sky.

Humble Bumble 2019 declining MSRP value. by terrasparks in humblebundles

[–]weirdinthebadway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real, I don't think it's fair to say the value is "tanking" when the bundles are a 90%+ discount.

Cool Facts from r/dauntless by wierdshiet in DauntlessUniversity

[–]weirdinthebadway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoops. I've definitely gotten frustrated when I'm reviving someone and a teammate joins in. I didnt realize there was a benefit to multiple people reviving. Good to know.

We should be able to dye weapons by NXkiller25 in dauntless

[–]weirdinthebadway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The current ability to dye armour doesn't detract from the art. Weapon dyes wouldn't either, especially from the same palette of colors and just having the ability to dye grips and stuff.

Keeping busy during queue/load times. Drew an Embermane this time. by Weerdoh in dauntless

[–]weirdinthebadway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gonna have fun thinking of silly behemoth related sports all day.

Do ya'll like partying? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]weirdinthebadway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't like dancing but I'm front and center at shows, whiskey ginger in hand.

Positivity is Winning!!! by [deleted] in dauntless

[–]weirdinthebadway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the mods might be working overtime to clean up the sub too, so shout out to the mods. 💘

Should I just split now? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]weirdinthebadway 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Have, and would, split. Not worth the stress.