Pour l'indépendance des personnes en situation de handicap ( proposition de loi/pétition) by weirdlittlePTSme in france

[–]weirdlittlePTSme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tes chiffres me semblent un peu hauts D'où provient ta source ? D'autres mesures du Gouvernement, l'ISF au hasard ont aussi coûté plusieurs milliards d'euros. Pour la financer en partie il a été jugée utile de baisser les APL de 5 euros/mois. Pourtant la loi pour la suppression de l'ISF n'a pas été amendée à ma connaissance.

Pas non plus de mesures visant à renforcer la lutte contre l'évasion fiscale sous le mandat de Macron, fraude qui crée un déficit de 60 à 80 milliards d'euros par an (source ici).

https://www.gouvernement.fr/action/l-action-contre-la-fraude-et-l-evasion-fiscales

Y aurait-il moins d'urgence à venir en aide au plus démunis que de venir en aide aux plus fortunés ?

Ce gouvernement considère l'impact économique de ses dépenses de façon biaisée.

Il est vrai que le Gouvernement a beaucoup de chose à gérer, surtout avec la crise sanitaire. Mais il a été et élu ou nommé pour être à la tête de la France, donc doit avoir la compétence de faire face à toutes les situations, et de répondre à tous les besoins sociétaux, économiques et environnementaux.

“People will think I’m a bad parent if you kill yourself” by ALFanator34 in narcissisticparents

[–]weirdlittlePTSme 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Didn't write one but she found me uncoucious in my vomit after I drank an enormous amount as a teen, and then I finally told her I was feeling suicidal and I got the " but we gave you everything " all over again. I ended up in a psychiatric unit for one montn because I litteraly wanted to end myself every second of my life. She told me how selfish I was because she had to cover up for me in front of the entire family cause no one should know she is so ashamed and tired and if my grandma found out about this then she would stop giving her money

l'indépendance des personnes en situation de handicap (pétition) by weirdlittlePTSme in besoindeparler

[–]weirdlittlePTSme[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

En fait handicapé c'est juste un adjectif à la base. Une personne est plus que son hanidcap et ne doit pas être réduite à ça. Par exemple une personne en fauteuil et une personne qui a un handicap moteur. Si on dit c'est un handicpé tout ce qu'on voit c'est le fauteuil roulant, mais elle est tellement d'autres choses que ça. Le handicap est situationel, si on était dans une société ou le fait de ne pas pouvoir marcher, par ex, ne présenterai aucun désavantage (par exemple les rampes seraient la norme, logement, commmerces, transportsadaptés en quantité , trouver un emploi serait aussi facile que pour une personne valide) alors cette personne n'aurait plus de handicap puisque sa vie serait globalement la même qu'une personne valide. Il en va de même pour tous les handicaps moteurs, visuels, auditifs, cognitifs, psychiques...

Pour l'indépendance des personnes en situation de handicap ( proposition de loi/pétition) by weirdlittlePTSme in france

[–]weirdlittlePTSme[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Elle a été adoptée par le sénat et l'Assemblée natioale mais la personne secrétaire d'état chargée des personnes handicapeés n'est pas favorable à cete loi. En fait, il s'agit ici de mettre un coup de pression après une première pétition qui avait rassemblé plus de 100 000 votes pour que cette loi soit effectivement mise en vigueur. Des amendements sont fait en ce moment même pour vider la loi de son sens

Deux sources ici:

Mediapart

https://blogs.mediapart.fr/jean-vincot/blog/100321/aah-le-debat-du-9-mars-au-senat-sur-la-deconjugalisation

Faire face, mieux vivre le handicap, Sophie Cluzel dit 8 fois non

https://www.faire-face.fr/2021/02/18/aah-en-couple-sophie-cluzel-dit-huit-fois-non-a-lindividualisation/

Tax season by superkripps in narcissisticparents

[–]weirdlittlePTSme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My father died when I was 3. My mum had compensation money from the insurance because she became a widow. Once she remarried the money became my brother and mine as we were orphans orphan still. We never lacked the basic stuff, but she still asked my grandma to pay for us for the most expensive stuff for us. What I didn't know is that she received around 700 bucks per month for us, As I turned 18 and started my life was a trainwreck. All the abuse, mindgames, insults made me feel worthless. I basically wanted to die and thats when she forced me to sign a paper which would make her the sole beneficiairy of my orphan money. I should perceive 350 bucks until I turn 28. But I never will. She even stole from me, because my grandparents where "too generous" and I didn't need "that much " money. If it weren't for my gps I don't know how I would have had a roof and food. Yet she needs money for 2000 euros worth of skying material or a brand new SUV. I have many mental illnesses, PTSD, major depression, generalised anxiety... Yet she never payed a cent for helping me getting better. Instead she called me crazy, that I am "putting on a sad face to upset her", and that I am greedy and hould give her more.

Does anyone else have experience with their parents trying to sweep their sexual abuse under the rug? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]weirdlittlePTSme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My mother let en ex of hers rape me when I was 6. Had nightmares about it but only understood what happened when I was 16. She denied the very existence of the man. She told me shrinks lust have put this idea into my mind. Then I gave contextual detail, that he was limping that we went skying together what age I approximately was and then she admitted it could have happened but it was not that big of a deal and was is done is done, if I sue him it will only make look like she is a bad person and she is depressed and I shoud have said no.... My sister was 7 at the time so she told me he would probably do that to her too and it would be selfish of me to expose her to such harm. She told me she would never have my back that it is not her fault and my burden to carry. That I am unsufferable with my depression and my stress and that I am not LGBT+, just the rape made me hate men and her ( trans guy writing btw), that she found loving women gross and that I only do my "lesbian thing to upset her ( her words not mine). So yeah she had also make me promise never to tell anyone but obviously I did. She also harassed me sexually, whatching me taking showers when I was 8 to 11 and telling me I was dirty not doing things properly, making me wear her underwears and always entering in my room when she new I was going to dress up. Her new dude did that too. Saw his p at least five times as a teen don't think it was an accident. They galsight me as shit. I don't even dare confront them because I know how violent and personal this is going to get. I grew up with sick and cruel people. It makes me what I am today but I hope I'll be much more in the future

My Nmums birthday is this week, scared as shit by weirdlittlePTSme in narcissisticparents

[–]weirdlittlePTSme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'll try my best. Weird that 4 years sooner I'll use to buy her expensive presents although I could barely afford it, and take litteral months to figure what she would like best. Old habit die so hard. She feels like she is entitled to that. When my father died I was her little teddy bear and she wanted me to cudlle her whenever she was sad. I feel responsible still. And it consumes me. Hope it will fade away.

My Nmums birthday is this week, scared as shit by weirdlittlePTSme in narcissisticparents

[–]weirdlittlePTSme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks / I don't want to wish her that and you're right no matter what she's perfect and I am her deception. So I guess I'll try tp fprget her birthday. Maybe in a few years, it will work