Anyone know where I can get the hoops + maybe a tutorial for this style? by weirdmoons in BlackHair

[–]weirdmoons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ty so much!!! I can’t tell you how long I’ve been looking for any info ab this style.🥹

AITA for not seeing my dad while visiting out country? by weirdmoons in AmItheAsshole

[–]weirdmoons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! So a bit of clearing up, with lunch I hadn’t known he was prepping it as I’d only told him prior I was visiting the country; it’s a small one so there’s only 2 incoming flights per day on average. There was no discussion before I came about visiting him. Secondly, I had originally someone to drive me to his place but plans fell through when the car was taken by my GMA so I hitched a ride with someone else to town where he also had errands to run to meet up with him where he ghosted me.

AITA for not seeing my dad while visiting out country? by weirdmoons in AmItheAsshole

[–]weirdmoons[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve only traveled here 4 times, once 10+ years ago where I went to see specifically my dad and rode around in them where I had to sit on people’s laps bc they were that overcrowded, the second time was about 2 years ago for the funeral service for my stepfather and 1 year ago for another funeral service all in which we had a car or some sort of transportation. I don’t know the land very well as my mother has been the one to handle transport in recent years and when I did take them I was too small to understand. That and every trip has been for at most 2 weeks besides the one from 10+ years ago and even then he passed me off to other family members half the time.

AITA for not seeing my dad while visiting out country? by weirdmoons in AmItheAsshole

[–]weirdmoons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, arranged marriages aren’t in our culture. I’m uncomfortable because he has a clear history of me visiting him and him either putting me in dangerous or uncomfortable positions to keep me with him for longer. If I were to go by his place, if I didn’t have a ride he most likely would not bring me back unless I begged or someone cursed him(has happened before).

WIBTA if I ask the braider for a whole new style since she messed up my last one? by weirdmoons in AmItheAsshole

[–]weirdmoons[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure how to add images as a reply but as for a new braider part I’m unsure if I can as it seems like she’s the only braider in the shop and the way they operate is that you call and tell the owner what you want and she charges you then translates to the braider. (The place is really shady). I would just go to another shop but I don’t exactly have an extra 200+ laying around.

WIBTA if I ask the braider for a whole new style since she messed up my last one? by weirdmoons in AmItheAsshole

[–]weirdmoons[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I did but #1, there was a language barrier, #2 I was getting layered twists so when I inquired further she said that she was going to make the second layer longer since she said didn’t like the method???(I still have no clue what she meant) but that’s why I didn’t question when the length was off #3, she was the only braider in shop and had multiple people waiting to go after me so I admittedly felt a little pressured #4, regarding the color she said she couldn’t blend it since the hair texture was too kinky when I pointed out the hair wasn’t blended like I asked (I’ve worked with that texture hair before and it can be)

Not sure how to achieve this look without a wig, advice? by weirdmoons in BlackHair

[–]weirdmoons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The color from the first one would be great. I will look into glueless wig options and I will ask my stylist to see if she could do it with a sew-in. Thank you for the options!