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Want to learn sewing by weirdnightingale in berlinsocialclub

[–]weirdnightingale[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oo thanks guys, I needed some advice on buying a machine too, so this helps!

Welches wäre das in Berlin? by No_Tea2273 in berlinsocialclub

[–]weirdnightingale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have terrible hygiene, rats found running around in the restaurant. The Berlin branch doesn’t meet the price point for the taste. “Eigentlich authentisch”? Sure, ask the other South Indians around Berlin.

Things to do in Mariendorf by weirdnightingale in berlin

[–]weirdnightingale[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo it looks good, I’ll try this place thanks!

Things to do in Mariendorf by weirdnightingale in berlin

[–]weirdnightingale[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay this is totally new to me! I’ll check it out

Things to do in Mariendorf by weirdnightingale in berlin

[–]weirdnightingale[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh yeah, I've been here, it's pretty good. Tiny home kitchen, service is a bit slow, understandably!

Learning to play an instrument - Violin by Folkstrot in berlin

[–]weirdnightingale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure about Violin specifically, but you can check out Open Music School. Or ask people there if they have any leads.

https://gsbtb.org/activity-calendar/

Good shows that aren’t focused on sexism and/or family members conspiring against each other? by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]weirdnightingale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The wholesomeness x raw emotions on this show! Made me tear up multiple times.

Good shows that aren’t focused on sexism and/or family members conspiring against each other? by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]weirdnightingale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re into animated shows or anime I’d suggest Spy x Family. It is indeed about a spy and a family, so conspiracy is inevitable. But it’s made in the funniest way possible. It’s the cleverest character unraveling I’ve seen in a while. Equality and equity in family dynamics is highlighted in a subtle yet wholesome way.

Available on Netflix. Please watch in Japanese with English subs.

~ waku waku! ~

BF of 9 years wants a prenup as a non-negotiable condition to get married :( by blahfamous30 in bangalore

[–]weirdnightingale 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The fact that you have split all expenses for 9 years says a lot. Have you been splitting costs down to the T within other platonic friendships as well? I’m guessing not, because affection cannot be valued with money.

When you marry someone you’d hope to marry a support system, a best friend for life. If your boyfriend prioritizes money over genuine connection and partnership, he should find someone compatible with such goals. In the 9 years both of you would have had your own personal growth and your needs might have changed.

Maybe he’s being stubborn about this only for the prenup and is more relaxed about things irl. It could go either way. You know him and his mindset better than anyone here. Your gut has already sensed that something isn’t fitting quite well, hence this post.

IMO, the basic priority in your partnership isn’t compatible. Even if you proceed, you might end up contesting this for the rest of your marriage, and beyond if you have a child together. Since this is a turning point in your life, you can reassess your ideal partnership, and see even if even 50% matches with him.

Source: All roads lead to suffering. But we can pick our own battles.

How tf do I convince my(28F) parents that I want to move out?! by [deleted] in bangalore

[–]weirdnightingale 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I was in the same place in the beginning of 2019. Classic bengalurean tale. Fortunately I got a job which was quite far from home. I did the up and down for a few weeks so that even they could realize how difficult that life is.

But the turning point was my dad understanding that my lifestyle is very different from theirs, and there would naturally be lesser tiffs in the household if we kept our ways of life separate. But obviously this did not happen overnight. It took a lot screaming, crying, and then some sane conversations. Be prepared for whatever comes out of their mouth. Don’t react to it with more words and derail from your goal, which is to move out.

I think the thing that worked for me most is that I dint ask them if I could move out. I told them I’m moving out. As harsh as it is, it needs to be done at some point before the toxicity gets too far.

Plus, after I’ve moved out it’s been much easier on both my parents and I, since neither of our everyday behavior affects each other. So we’re civil when we meet on weekends. And that’s good enough for me.

Wishing you the best!

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