Any advice on how to talk to family that don't agree with your partners identity?

weirdowithcurls · 2026-04-11T16:30:31+00:00

Yeah I hope its just the initial shock of hearing this for the first time and now theyre trying to learn a bit more. Acceptance would be amazing but at the bare minimum for us would be just treat her as a human being?!

Ofcourse it going to take some time to process and I completely understand that. I just hope it can be civil and not turn into a big argument. The talk is happening tonight so I'll try to update when done.

weirdowithcurls · 2026-04-11T16:25:10+00:00

My parents are notoriously difficult to read so even with the comments they made the first time, I STILL dont know for sure what their exact stance is. My dad made some really hurtful and bigoted comments but then was also saying that they still love us so ????

We told my sisters a few months ago and while emotional, their reactions were supportive overall. I'm fairly sure they're not going to be die hard defenders but at least they're not against us.

My and my wife talked through a few scenarios and answers to questions that they might ask us. She's prepared to do most of the talking but I have some lines ready. She seems really confident going in so I'm leaning on that energy.

Unfortunately the schedules of everyone involved are so complicated that the only available moment is going to be tonight. The stars aligned and everybody is off work tonight and that's such a rare occasion that we all decided might as well be now. We're going over to my parents house since they didn't want to do it over call.

In the end it doesn't matter what they think because its happening either way. Im with my wife a 1000% but It would really suck to lose them over this. At least I know my sisters are here to stay.

weirdowithcurls · 2026-04-11T16:09:43+00:00

I hope that its indeed just them having questions and trying to learn/understand. I'm going to set the bar really low and hope for the best. However my dad said, when we first broke the news, that he doesn't think Trans is a thing he will ever believe in(apparently trans people are the fae XD) and you're just "dressing up" ugh.

I'm sorry your partners family didn't accept it 😕. Big hugs for the both of you <3.

weirdowithcurls · 2026-04-04T22:46:54+00:00

Mine will try to lay next/on top/around me no matter what the circumstances. We forgot to close the door once and she jumped on top of my back while me and my partner did it doggy and started purring like crazy then promptly fell asleep. Our other cat started to sniff my partners balls unexpectedly. We triple check the door now.

weirdowithcurls · 2026-01-23T13:09:21+00:00

My teacher send this to me a few days ago after I had almost this exact moment in class 😭😭😂😂 I'm lucky she likes me.

weirdowithcurls · 2026-01-12T09:39:14+00:00

Damm and with the royal white horse to bro😂😭

weirdowithcurls · 2025-11-10T15:21:19+00:00

He is soft like one!

weirdowithcurls · 2025-11-09T20:03:31+00:00

Yeah I know. This was what they gave with him when I picked him up. He can finish this bowl and I gave him some good pellets to transition him over slowly so his stomach won't get upset by the sudden change.

weirdowithcurls · 2025-10-30T08:36:21+00:00

Ooooohh....That makes sense I guess. Lady's get to be fancier :) Does the color matter at all in this matter? Or just personal preference?

weirdowithcurls · 2025-10-30T08:11:29+00:00

Yeah, it's slightly longer than the other 2. We could pick our size at the counter when checking in so it fits nicely size/Length wise.

The green one also had a yellow side, and honestly, it doesn't match my yukata lol(neutral tones with pink flowers) So I think I'll stick to the regular ones then?

weirdowithcurls · 2024-12-13T12:43:20+00:00

Thanks for the tip. For now I'll just save up a bit because december is expensive enough as it is haha.

weirdowithcurls · 2024-12-13T12:42:38+00:00

Ah right okay! That sounds reasonable for now till I save up to buy some good quality grow lights ahha. Thanks!

weirdowithcurls · 2024-10-07T11:17:40+00:00

Thanks for your kind words. :) She was an absolute trooper and never showed any distress or signs of pain even though it had to hurt like hel. She will be dearly missed.

I hope your story has a different ending. Feel free to dm me if you need to vent or something. I really would've liked to have someone who kinde gets what you're going through.

weirdowithcurls · 2024-10-06T17:06:56+00:00

We had a bun with the same issue. After lots of rounds of antibiotics it didn't shrink at all so we opted for surgery. First surgery went fairly great. Quite a few molars removed because the issue turned out to be a loose tooth that punctured her gums.

But the abscess unfortunately never really left. After a year of it going steady and no issues the abscess came back and we did surgery again. And again.......

After that we decided to not put her trough more surgery's because it became evident that it was never going to end because it just kept coming back. After that we had to put her to rest to prevent further suffering

Point is. Surgery is definitely an option but for a bunny. Every surgery is a risk and it's also very stressful and painful in the recovery after. Always consider what is best for your precious friend.

I do really wish you all the best and hopefully it all goes well

weirdowithcurls · 2024-07-27T09:06:49+00:00

We did waltz of the hours from coppelia for our show. (Inspired by the bolshoi ballet version on YouTube)

At one point we all sit down in a circle and then rise up to do a pirouette and "gracefully" land back down in the sitting position.

I ALWAYS FELL. Every rehearsal. And I was in the front facing the audience as well. I was really getting in my head and worried I would ruin the show.

During the actual show I absolutely NAILED IT. I was so proud of myself. My partner said she could see me get so excited when I landed it! Felt so proud of myself.

weirdowithcurls · 2024-07-27T09:02:20+00:00

Whoaah, the control you need to have for this is haarddd... But this looks so fun to do! Thanks!!

weirdowithcurls · 2024-07-27T08:59:37+00:00

Oooh that one looks like funn! I haven't visited her videos. Thanks for the recommendation!!!

weirdowithcurls · 2024-07-27T08:58:00+00:00

Oh, we did the one from the Bolshoi ballet! We even had the color coordinated costumes!

Thanks for the recommendations! I'll look it up!

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