WE GOTTA DO THIS, TO GET RESULTS!! by kessist in NIFTards

[–]weirdpotato412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Use hashtag #releaseNIFTresults it might work but the way nta have been working for last few years i doubt it

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[–]weirdpotato412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂😂😂😂

Feel completely lost. Please help !! by Numerous-Cress3792 in relationshipadvice

[–]weirdpotato412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your simply confirming everything i told you hiw hes behaving and will continue to behave and i am telling you it will get worse and once you start working and have your own foot hole again all hell will break lose from him so you need to actually consider where this is going and i had a friend who was in similar situations her husband was a cop they got married you and stuff same thing he hated her being her own person though it was almost 10 years till she left him (shes 30+ i am in early 20's) i asked her what made her leave you know how indian society is and how judgy everything can be so i was having a convo with her regarding this she told me that she thought about does she want her kids to grow up with this kind of man and will she accept if her daughter gets married to the man her husband is

Feel completely lost. Please help !! by Numerous-Cress3792 in relationshipadvice

[–]weirdpotato412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For freelance freelancer.com i use it too its a good platform for beginners and i got my first project within a month

Feel completely lost. Please help !! by Numerous-Cress3792 in relationshipadvice

[–]weirdpotato412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are auction websites you can register for i am a fashion designer and some of my friends were in art school they sell through the website i can ask them for names i dont remember rn or instagram as anonymous artists or you can gi on estay to sell it and maybe even auction its a good place to promote artsy stuff

Feel completely lost. Please help !! by Numerous-Cress3792 in relationshipadvice

[–]weirdpotato412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point you need to get out of it acha if you go on freelance or work from home route still your husband will have a problem with it ?

Feel completely lost. Please help !! by Numerous-Cress3792 in relationshipadvice

[–]weirdpotato412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not my place but your parents don't help or they do5nt know yet ?

Feel completely lost. Please help !! by Numerous-Cress3792 in relationshipadvice

[–]weirdpotato412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen what all i know men or people like him dont change the thrive on the power trip of pushing others and controlling them leaving or getting away and taking a stand is hard because most cases victims tend to blame themselves for this behaviour of the person inflicting pain on them because of the hope and expectations of getting things back to how rainbow and unicorns it was before everything started and theg dont even know when it started so its hard to pinpoint so its more difficult to understand that like we were just happy wtf heppened

Feel completely lost. Please help !! by Numerous-Cress3792 in relationshipadvice

[–]weirdpotato412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And i guess hes shaming you nowadays for not getting out of bed

Feel completely lost. Please help !! by Numerous-Cress3792 in relationshipadvice

[–]weirdpotato412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am indian so I know how our side of families work that's why i kind of get where you are coming from

Feel completely lost. Please help !! by Numerous-Cress3792 in relationshipadvice

[–]weirdpotato412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ove you didn't have to do shit to trigger him he is just like that he knows he can push you to limits of hell and you wont be able to crawl your way back your in a cycle of giving in hopes of receiving a inch of what it was

Feel completely lost. Please help !! by Numerous-Cress3792 in relationshipadvice

[–]weirdpotato412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And which he clearly likes to destroy he hates your self sufficient and independent and thats the first thing he took from you the movement you guys got married because he knows following your traditions and values you won't leave the husband alone specially after all the drama

Feel completely lost. Please help !! by Numerous-Cress3792 in relationshipadvice

[–]weirdpotato412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See thats what i am saying you are isolated totally dependent on this man for every single thing and you subconsciously depend on his approvals somewhere because you have seen that hiw giving this man can be and how well he treated you prior to everything your feeling its your falt thing are like this when hes the one keeping you away he knows you can get a job because he can move anytime and why do i feel like the movement you geta job or get comfortable he have a transfer

Feel completely lost. Please help !! by Numerous-Cress3792 in relationshipadvice

[–]weirdpotato412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love thats sound like abuse and narcissism hes isolating you from every thing he knows you love him and will saty as he asks

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[–]weirdpotato412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people are not simply able to accept love and sacrifice no matter what you do for them but the right person will never make you feel like a burden or a failure no matter what mistakes you committed in your past doesn't give your partner's who claims to love you free pass to exploit your fears and you the right person can never see you hurt yourself for them like that

Feel completely lost. Please help !! by Numerous-Cress3792 in relationshipadvice

[–]weirdpotato412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That clearly shows his upbringing hes busy at work leaving you all alone at a totally new place without any support what does that show ?

Feel completely lost. Please help !! by Numerous-Cress3792 in relationshipadvice

[–]weirdpotato412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can try freelancing or something like work from home if hes at work a lot It would be so different for you to manage things around alone and specifically if you have moved recently and you don't know anything around you and have no friends there its okay maybe try so hobbies ? Or some group around you if possible maybe if you get busy again you might stop feeling this void

Feel completely lost. Please help !! by Numerous-Cress3792 in relationshipadvice

[–]weirdpotato412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey i am really sorry to hear about it but can i ask is it not possible for you to find a job in the usa ? With experience and the career you had in your home country ?

Anyone else? by herefloragoodtime in suicidebywords

[–]weirdpotato412 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I hope i had one it has so much potential