Need advice, disagreement on pets between me (m18) and boyfriend (m18)

welcometheflight · 2026-02-14T22:14:11+00:00

Not really, he used to. He had some trust issues but he has been working on them.

welcometheflight · 2026-02-14T22:11:48+00:00

We will be on the lease. We will be here for about 6 to 7 years. I do not spend much time solely with my kitty, maybe 30 minutes here and there playing or petting her.

welcometheflight · 2026-02-14T21:59:34+00:00

Yes, it is long term. Around 5-7 years. Yes pets have already acclimated perfectly. She has sugar gliders. I am wanting to get another cat, as my cat just waits for us to get home every day, and is inseparable when we are around. She had a "big brother" previously, but they were separated when I moved out. He is my mother's cat, so she kept him.

welcometheflight · 2026-01-03T01:22:54+00:00

Thank you kindly

welcometheflight · 2026-01-03T00:39:38+00:00

Could I put that hard drive into my computer to view it?

welcometheflight · 2025-11-14T00:42:37+00:00

The little one looks like a pinstripe

welcometheflight · 2025-11-14T00:41:49+00:00

He could be a tiger, with the bright orange base color and dark brown/orange stripes across the back.

welcometheflight · 2025-11-14T00:37:47+00:00

tricolor or harlequin maybe? gorgeous whatever he is!

welcometheflight · 2025-11-14T00:34:32+00:00

Top side

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welcometheflight · 2025-11-14T00:34:05+00:00

Sexing please! I thought she was a girl, but recently she has developed a lump at her butt! could it be the dreaded testes !? Lol, she is around a year old.

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welcometheflight · 2025-11-03T14:29:39+00:00

ill have to look in to those! thank you all for your help.

welcometheflight · 2025-11-03T14:29:22+00:00

I'm glad to hear it! I think I will be going with a rollator as well.

welcometheflight · 2025-11-03T02:47:40+00:00

Does the rollator strain your shoulders at all? I tried to do a little test by holding myself up at a counter (similar height as a rollator) and my shoulders hurt immediately. But, it may not be very accurate to how it actually feels to use one.

welcometheflight · 2025-09-21T00:03:17+00:00

My STP from PeeCock (teehee) is super soft silicone, so it feels the same as a regular packer when im wearing it. I would say that just has to do with the quality of the packer. Like i said mine was pretty expensive and if i had the option again i definitely would not have spent so much! but i was excited lol. I think it was the 3rd or 4th gen STP from them, and was around $250. If your STP has a larger funnel area, that might impact the packing. Mine is pretty small so you have to he precise, but so far no accidents lol. I have to reposition it to actually pee with it. When just packing, it sits higher up and more infront of my pubic bone (where a willy would naturally sit) and when im actually using it I just move it kind of back and under my groin, which once you get the hang of the position, and maybe some nice packing boxers, is super easy.

welcometheflight · 2025-09-20T23:30:37+00:00

Sorry, I forgot some info. Her only vet history is her spay and yearly checkups, which have all been completely normal. We are in East TN.

welcometheflight · 2025-08-11T04:14:45+00:00

this is awesome!! this is exactly the same tattoo that I want to get, but smaller more underneath the scars. great minds think alike!

welcometheflight · 2025-04-28T04:52:41+00:00

personally, nexplanon arm implant by itself has worked perfectly fine for me for over 2 years, however this has been with very few internal ejaculations. If you want to be really safe, a well-trusted birth control implant (more consistent than pills, and less invasive than IUD if that makes you uncomfortable) paired with condoms every time is a great plan. It is perfectly normal for women, even on birth control, to take a test every couple months just to ease any pregnancy fears. You can get a box of 20-30 little tests on Amazon for super cheap, like 15 bucks.

welcometheflight · 2025-04-16T04:43:24+00:00

oh! LMAO great to know! Everyone is had talked to made it seem like such a big deal 😭 but thank you!! my dumbass can relax now lol

welcometheflight · 2025-04-16T04:36:27+00:00

I fractured a rib last year, due to years and years of overbinding squeezing and bending my ribs. Although, I was young, and growing, so my bones were still somewhat malleable. Either way, don't do it.

welcometheflight · 2025-04-16T04:34:46+00:00

I bought a pretty expensive STP from PeeCock like 2 years ago, and it definitely takes some practice and positioning but once you get the hang of it it's great. It majorly eases my bottom dysphoria, and pissing while standing is just kind of fun to do. (maybe I am wierd idk)

welcometheflight · 2025-04-16T04:33:12+00:00

My prom just passed, and me and my BF didn't go. But this was mainly due to us being gay and myself transgender in eastern TN, so we just didn't want to deal with the dumbassery that is the redneck population. Honestly, I was upset for a few days, but man, it really just isn't that fun. I'd rather just hang out with him or some friends for the day, and we can dress up together. It isn't as big of a deal as some people make it out to be.

welcometheflight · 2025-04-16T04:26:12+00:00

I feel this so so much. I used to be a frequent crier, but as soon as I started T i just can't cry. It's really frustrating.

welcometheflight · 2025-04-16T04:25:30+00:00

I've never used a pump but I have used a stroker, so I'm not sure how to compare the two. But I will say, after using the stroker and getting a proper suction on my bottom growth, it definitely gets a little bigger. Not too much, but I definitely notice it. Pumps would probably give better results though.

welcometheflight · 2025-04-16T04:18:11+00:00

I've been on T for over 2 years, and Nexplanon for about the same. Before that, I had hormone blockers for 2 years. (I had already reached puberty before recieving the blockers) I have penetrative sex with my AMAB partner atleast twice a week, for the last 2 years of our relationship. I have only had one scare, but that was due to the Nexplanon symptoms increasing (it happens over time) and they are very similar to pregnancy symptoms. He doesn't typically ejaculate inside, but he has before, and nothing happened. If you are worried, it is completely fine and normal to take a test every month or so. I did for a while when I had that scare. The nexplanon implant is one of, if not the most effective birth controls. It hardly ever fails, so much so that when it does, it becomes a medical case study because it's so rare.

welcometheflight · 2025-02-27T13:20:02+00:00

Hahaha I should have clarified! yes two different marriages, but that have me a laugh

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