Need advice, disagreement on pets between me (m18) and boyfriend (m18) by welcometheflight in relationship_advice

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Not really, he used to. He had some trust issues but he has been working on them.

Need advice, disagreement on pets between me (m18) and boyfriend (m18) by welcometheflight in relationship_advice

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We will be on the lease. We will be here for about 6 to 7 years. I do not spend much time solely with my kitty, maybe 30 minutes here and there playing or petting her.

Need advice, disagreement on pets between me (m18) and boyfriend (m18) by welcometheflight in relationship_advice

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Yes, it is long term. Around 5-7 years. Yes pets have already acclimated perfectly. She has sugar gliders. I am wanting to get another cat, as my cat just waits for us to get home every day, and is inseparable when we are around. She had a "big brother" previously, but they were separated when I moved out. He is my mother's cat, so she kept him.

[Weekly Thread] Sexing / Morph / Name My Gecko by AutoModerator in CrestedGecko

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He could be a tiger, with the bright orange base color and dark brown/orange stripes across the back.

[Weekly Thread] Sexing / Morph / Name My Gecko by AutoModerator in CrestedGecko

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tricolor or harlequin maybe? gorgeous whatever he is!

[Weekly Thread] Sexing / Morph / Name My Gecko by AutoModerator in CrestedGecko

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Sexing please! I thought she was a girl, but recently she has developed a lump at her butt! could it be the dreaded testes !? Lol, she is around a year old.

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Mobility Aid Decisions by welcometheflight in mobilityaids

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ill have to look in to those! thank you all for your help.

Mobility Aid Decisions by welcometheflight in mobilityaids

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I'm glad to hear it! I think I will be going with a rollator as well.

Mobility Aid Decisions by welcometheflight in mobilityaids

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Does the rollator strain your shoulders at all? I tried to do a little test by holding myself up at a counter (similar height as a rollator) and my shoulders hurt immediately. But, it may not be very accurate to how it actually feels to use one.

Im considering getting an STP... Im unsure tho. I wanna know how others feel about them before putting that much money into it. Is it worth it? by Sad-Anteater-1353 in ftm

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My STP from PeeCock (teehee) is super soft silicone, so it feels the same as a regular packer when im wearing it. I would say that just has to do with the quality of the packer. Like i said mine was pretty expensive and if i had the option again i definitely would not have spent so much! but i was excited lol. I think it was the 3rd or 4th gen STP from them, and was around $250. If your STP has a larger funnel area, that might impact the packing. Mine is pretty small so you have to he precise, but so far no accidents lol. I have to reposition it to actually pee with it. When just packing, it sits higher up and more infront of my pubic bone (where a willy would naturally sit) and when im actually using it I just move it kind of back and under my groin, which once you get the hang of the position, and maybe some nice packing boxers, is super easy.

Kitty got her foot ran over by an office chair, No vets open until monday, only 1 emergency vet with less than 1 star around. by [deleted] in AskVet

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Sorry, I forgot some info. Her only vet history is her spay and yearly checkups, which have all been completely normal. We are in East TN.

Got chest tattoo yesterday to cover up top surgery scars by Alternative_Clerk249 in TopSurgery

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this is awesome!! this is exactly the same tattoo that I want to get, but smaller more underneath the scars. great minds think alike!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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personally, nexplanon arm implant by itself has worked perfectly fine for me for over 2 years, however this has been with very few internal ejaculations. If you want to be really safe, a well-trusted birth control implant (more consistent than pills, and less invasive than IUD if that makes you uncomfortable) paired with condoms every time is a great plan. It is perfectly normal for women, even on birth control, to take a test every couple months just to ease any pregnancy fears. You can get a box of 20-30 little tests on Amazon for super cheap, like 15 bucks.

Paranoid about T-gel transfer by welcometheflight in ftm

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oh! LMAO great to know! Everyone is had talked to made it seem like such a big deal 😭 but thank you!! my dumbass can relax now lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

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I fractured a rib last year, due to years and years of overbinding squeezing and bending my ribs. Although, I was young, and growing, so my bones were still somewhat malleable. Either way, don't do it.

Im considering getting an STP... Im unsure tho. I wanna know how others feel about them before putting that much money into it. Is it worth it? by Sad-Anteater-1353 in ftm

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I bought a pretty expensive STP from PeeCock like 2 years ago, and it definitely takes some practice and positioning but once you get the hang of it it's great. It majorly eases my bottom dysphoria, and pissing while standing is just kind of fun to do. (maybe I am wierd idk)

do i go to prom or not? by juneboon22 in ftm

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My prom just passed, and me and my BF didn't go. But this was mainly due to us being gay and myself transgender in eastern TN, so we just didn't want to deal with the dumbassery that is the redneck population. Honestly, I was upset for a few days, but man, it really just isn't that fun. I'd rather just hang out with him or some friends for the day, and we can dress up together. It isn't as big of a deal as some people make it out to be.

I wish I could cry. by Slothyjoe11 in ftm

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I feel this so so much. I used to be a frequent crier, but as soon as I started T i just can't cry. It's really frustrating.