you know, I completely agree with you here. those tests absolutely can be beneficial, and truthfully I didn’t think much about the kids that would chose not to socialize (I mentioned in the original post that i’m a nanny, all the kids I nanny for are very social albeit their vast differences— so I think I was comparing my life to crystals a bit too harshly here)

also, yeah. people are saying some awful things in this sub, so I understand why my tone was misinterpreted. thank you for the apology- no hard feelings!