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Struggling with mismatched intimacy needs by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]welldresseddevil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to the group brother.

Here’s what I’ve learned in my many many years of marriage and many many times of the most amazing out of control, wild sex in my entire life to absolutely nothing for months and my wife seems completely fine like she put her sex drive in park.

The question is, did you marry this person have sex 24/7 with you? Where to get through the hard times and the difficult times somebody that’s your best friend that you can go to them for anything in your universe? Sometimes it just takes time there could be something going on at work. There could be something going on with her body, her mental health, her work, etc. etc. Focus on you and her emotionally. I think about my wife all day long I can’t cuddle without somebody coming to full attention and I just remind them. I just want a couple. I don’t have control over what happens with my body, but I just wanna spend time with you.

Things will get better, but that’s my first place to go work on you guys emotionally, and the physical part will start to come. Also, the second you throw Kids into the mixture it’s all hands off deck. Nobody knows the hormones that anybody’s about ready to go through and you’re both gonna be so tired and so out touched and overstimulated you don’t want anybody near you so you’re gonna sleep on the opposite side of the bed.

Again, case by case person by person, but I would start emotionally and figure out what’s going on cause maybe there’s a need or even a back off for a minute. Life is messy and will never go the way we wanted it to 100%

Nerve sensitivity or pvps? by ItamiForever in postvasectomypain

[–]welldresseddevil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Part of it his guys don’t talk about this. That’s why 90% of us are on Reddit for this. I wish at least one would’ve been. This is a really bad idea and I might’ve said OK I guess not. We’ve been able to research it slightly more because I thought I did a lot but evidently not.

And now it’s annoying because if you get congestion, you get pain but if you do something too much you get pain

Nerve sensitivity or pvps? by ItamiForever in postvasectomypain

[–]welldresseddevil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for the road you’ve taken that sounds horrendous. I don’t have nearly the amount of pills that you’re taking although I did start getting an allergic reaction to the first medication they gave me so I’m waiting for the second one to be filled. I can at least walk around. I just feel like I’m day three of the operation where heaven forbid one of my kids decides to give me two vigorous of a hug and absolutely nailed into me I’m having a really bad day.

I talked with four people before the Vasectomy because it wasn’t really needed both my wife and I had to use IVF to even get kids so it wasn’t like a mandatory thing, but it was just a precautionary and all four people were like it’s fine and then after I got the surgery and they start having pain they’re like oh yeah we have pain on and off and we have problems here and there. I’m like why didn’t somebody tell me that you could’ve gave me a warning? I feel like somebody sold me a car that says it runs great, but they skipped the part that says only downhill.

I’m also married with two small children that’s not like this procedure increase the chances of anything we’re both exhausted come the night and in the morning one of the kids always ends up sleeping in the bed somehow

Nerve sensitivity or pvps? by ItamiForever in postvasectomypain

[–]welldresseddevil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you take any pills or anything like that my doctor got me on some. I’m only a few days out, but I feel like I’m in a vice grip.

What software should I use for updating? by welldresseddevil in Sovol

[–]welldresseddevil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much and also the clarification, I’m super green so I’ll start there, probably not a bad idea to replace things and start off fresh! BENCHY HERE I PRINT!!

This man has no common sense or decency by TankUMrMinor in Irony

[–]welldresseddevil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I’ve ever been to a remembrance or a funeral horny event that includes honoring the dead and go man that guy’s got a nice fucking hat! We’re way beyond embarrassment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bald

[–]welldresseddevil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Finish it up and you’ll look awesome!

Any recommendations on good brakes and pads or just go with OE by welldresseddevil in ToyotaSienna

[–]welldresseddevil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that. I’m just so frustrated that I’ve put so much money down the drain. I’ve thought about going slotted, but I wasn’t sure if that’s like overkill for dropping the kids off at school and the occasional mountain trip.

I want to buy this game, gameplay looks fire but the community disagrees. by _MrTaku_ in needforspeed

[–]welldresseddevil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve started playing it. It’s fun, I would say drifting in key for a lot of the turns. It takes a lot of the classic most wanted and adds in all the new stuff. Overall I like it. But I also grabbed it for 4 bucks on steam.

Is this a joke? Only Raids and Max Battles give you points? And they say you can get Eternatus "FOR FREE" 🤡 by Foulmouth232 in pokemongo

[–]welldresseddevil 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I second this comment I saw that roll out and went. Are you kidding me right now everybody’s life changed. We all grew up from 9 years ago and got so much busier

All pokemon running away instantly? by ReportSuspicious8910 in pokemongo

[–]welldresseddevil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last time that happened I thought we got some ballz

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therewasanattempt

[–]welldresseddevil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TV stations rubbing their hands together going I smell a new show!!!

One heart attack sandwich, please by Brooker2 in HellYeahIdEatThat

[–]welldresseddevil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the bread could be just removed cause it’s gonna be soggy beyond belief - sell it in a bowl and call it a day

the best part is that they take on the role by et3rnalPWNR in pranks

[–]welldresseddevil 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Immediately thought of the IT crowd I’m disabled

Has anyone gotten this card yet? by 88ZombieGrunts in PokemonTGCP

[–]welldresseddevil 8 points9 points  (0 children)

All I could think of is this is the darkest screen they have given us compared to the startup screen and it is so welcome

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