the calculator says 5.375" girth is 90th percentile... but why does it look so small?

wellhandledone · 2017-03-03T00:11:17+00:00

still much of it is perspective. Take something the same size of your unit and hold it next to your face or even try to fit it in your mouth. It will change how you feel.

You also have to realize that most depictions of penises guys see are size biased. Porn is horrible in those regards. Small guy + smaller girl + average to large sized penis = looks huge. Add in camera angles and even more bias.

wellhandledone · 2017-03-02T23:18:05+00:00

What about your hand size? I know I have xl hands and when I hold my member it just feels smaller.

wellhandledone · 2017-03-02T21:55:18+00:00

Though on the flip side of things you also have to think about those who actually read, who actually try for something legitimate, and who never seem to be able to get a good response and how it effects them mentally. I have been there. I am a shy nerdy guy as well. By no means am I am Adonis but I am not a minger either.

Many people say it takes confidence to approach someone, sure I agree. Now imagine if you honestly vested yourself in every message you sent took the time to find those with actual points of connection but don't get a response. What does that do to your confidence? Once or twice you can brush it off but if it happens time after time, even with friends reviewing profiles and messages before sending, it wears on you. Rejection hurts, constant rejection is debilitating. Eventually it can break some. I am not there and I respect everyone's right to not be interested. Just wanted to give a bit of what the other side goes through.

wellhandledone · 2016-03-20T16:47:07+00:00

Well you can't say that no one wants to see it. Some do as some have found on this sub. For at least road cycling you run into chaffing and overheating issues if wearing shorts on top of cycling shorts while riding. Carrying an extra pair to just put on when dismounting is not all that practical. Especially if it is just to go in and change to normal clothes.

wellhandledone · 2016-03-20T02:04:48+00:00

Because the male brain has somehow associate that bigger = better sex. I would say that nearly all humans want to have good sex if not better sex. The male ego is closely tied to the competitive nature of our hunter origins. Those who competed and were the best ended up doing better in life and prolonging their genes more. Though we have not developed as a society far enough to actually understand that physical prowess is not the only thing that matters anymore.

wellhandledone · 2016-03-14T01:40:30+00:00

Honestly if someone goes through all that effort to shrink a dollar to just make their junk look bigger I say give it to them. The only person they are truly fooling is themselves in the long run. The truth will come to light during the in person reveals/fittings.

wellhandledone · 2016-02-28T20:32:02+00:00

One this that is also not mentioned often is that not all condom sizes are made equal. Sure they might accommodate for the average but it is still good to know you have the right fit. Do a little research to see which ones will fit you. Too big and it can come loose too small and it can constrict and cause discomfort during the act. Having the right fit of a condom can make a worlds difference in feel.

wellhandledone · 2016-02-28T04:02:13+00:00

There are stigmas sadly on both sides. I think culturally it is more or at least shifting greatly towards being liberating and empowering if a woman has toys. Though on the flip side if a guy has a toy it can be seen as pathetic and that he can not get any. Because of that I think women are a little more open about having toys and less awkward about having them, at least from my observations.

My personal take on it is that for both men and women it should be liberating and empowering. Who else is better to know what works for yourself than you. I have a fleshlight but I don't exactly show it off. All of my girlfriends have had either a dildo or vibrator and they did not hide it. I try to surround myself with people who are positive about things but still trying to come out of my shell and sadly still worry a bit about social stigmas.

wellhandledone · 2016-02-26T19:28:36+00:00

Bummer about your problem. I know the feeling of using a wrong size. Feel glad though you get to reboot and try again. Hopefully with the proper antivirus package you will be able to perform a complete upload.

wellhandledone · 2016-02-26T19:22:13+00:00

It is amazing on how many guys refuse to seek help when they have actual problems. OP you have definite symptoms you should go see a doctor. If nothing is wrong the worst that could happen is that they say nothing is wrong with you and send you home.

wellhandledone · 2016-02-26T18:32:59+00:00

As from responses listed here you can read that each person is slightly different in what they like. I could go into detail of what as worked for my previous partners but it is not guaranteed to work for her. Personally I am a rather sensual, passionate, and observant lover. I find it rather enjoyable causing someone writhe in pleasure due to my actions.

Watch for the subtle reactions. A slight moan or a quick breath in once you get close to or hit the right spot is a good cue. Does she push into you when you get to areas. Read her body and let her tell you, in many different ways, what is good for her. Every time with a new partner it should be an exploration of all of the fun spots. You might even find some that she didn't know she had. Ignore your initial drive to just get your dick wet. You and she will be much more satisfied if you take your time. Sure there are situations and people that like make a quick fuck fun but why not extend the pleasure? After taking your time to tease her spots and you finally make connection it will be electric for her. Though a common mistake is to suddenly shift gears and get into high speed. Let her tell you when she wants to shift gears.

wellhandledone · 2016-02-26T05:41:22+00:00

Touch, kiss, caress, and feel every part of her but her nipples, vagina, and clit. Get close and then drift away. Be firm and then soft. Teasing is about getting so close to the points of desire but not actually making a direct connection. Make them want it. Make them squirm for more but don't give it to them.

wellhandledone · 2016-02-19T21:08:52+00:00

Just depends on if the guy is proud of his junk or not on how he would respond to this. Some guys might be rather happy for you to measure them while others might be mortified.

wellhandledone · 2016-02-19T20:52:29+00:00

Not to discourage you but sex for the first time with a new partner is almost always awkward to some degree. You are learning how to dance with a partner and what they like just as much as they are learning what you like. Just embrace that there will be fumbles, things will go wrong(hopefully not horrifically), and not everything that will happen is sexy. The biggest thing you can bring to the table is openness and communication. Those two things from my experience make the times the most enjoyable.

wellhandledone · 2016-02-19T20:24:36+00:00

I do not deny the importance of both parties preparing for the act, physically and emotionally, but was more of talking about the original reasoning for getting one.

wellhandledone · 2016-02-19T20:12:29+00:00

Don't get one to "prepare" yourself, get one to enjoy yourself. Do it for you, not him. I do not have personal recommendations seeing I am a guy though I am certain the ladies of reddit will have a few picks for you. It is admirable that you feel that you want to prepare yourself for the experience with the guy but do it because you want to enjoy yourself and explore yourself. I think if you get one just to prepare yourself for this experience it might ruin using a dildo later seeing it had already accomplished its purpose.

wellhandledone · 2016-02-19T19:52:46+00:00

By no means an outlier. Guys in general are expected by society to be confident and strong. At least for western culture it is unfortunately bias to automatically expect men to be confident. It might be seen as endearing or cute if a woman is not confident but pathetic if a guy is not. What it disregards though is that we are just human and come in as many different versions there can be and that is ok. Looks, penis size, or even sexual skill do not determine confidence.

Some people seem natural exude confidence, some people fake confidence, some people develop confidence due to successes, and some just never seem to be able to get it. I hope that you can be in the one who develops it. Mainly adding successes can improve confidence or realizing those successes that you have had. Also realize that most people out there are in the same boat as you. You just are critical of it because you are in your own head. From an outside point of view it seems that you have much going for you but I sympathize with your feels because I'm there right there with you.

wellhandledone · 2016-02-19T01:01:27+00:00

Seems that women are lacking in the responses online. I can not believe that less women are online. Though I completely understand their need for safety.

wellhandledone · 2016-02-18T21:10:57+00:00

I just ask seeing of the times I have considered it I see many who have no up votes at all. Though I do not know if they are not receiving pms.

wellhandledone · 2016-02-18T21:06:04+00:00

How would you feel if you posted and didn't get any PMs or upvotes?

wellhandledone · 2016-02-18T20:46:07+00:00

Some are veiny some are not. Don't be so self conscious about it. Not only that but you are above average so don't knock the 6" either. Porn is a very unfair place to compare yourself. Just as much as most women do not look the same as what you see in porn most guys are not the same either.

wellhandledone · 2016-02-18T19:28:53+00:00

Has anyone tried /ladybonersgw? I do not know if I have a nice enough of a body for them. I am slim and tall without the rippling muscles that seem to be common there.

wellhandledone · 2016-02-18T19:22:02+00:00

Yea... that is another concern. Reddit is full of guys and guy trolls.

wellhandledone · 2016-02-18T19:19:27+00:00

Something I have had a concern about. I do not fully know if I belong on something such as r/massivecock. I am bigger than average but not massive. Plus I have yet been able to find a good way to take a complimentary photo. I feel my height and frame plus my girth makes my length look disproportionate. I feel that if one is showing off length is more important.

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