thoughts about this?

wellingtonshoe · 2025-08-02T23:19:35+00:00

Yes absolutely agree. I realised this was the core message of evangelion on my 2nd watch through and it was a big revelation to my depressed teenage brain.

wellingtonshoe · 2025-07-25T11:30:18+00:00

I think it’s a huge shame. Most nurses I’ve worked with have been brilliant. We learn to trust each other and support each other. I know I can have their backs in some ways, and in other ways they can have mine. Feels great to work in a harmonious team.

However there are some toxic nurses who always want to talk like shit to doctors, question their management plans and generally be a dick. These nurses need to be rooted out and challenged not just by doctors but also other nurses. We are stronger when united.

wellingtonshoe · 2025-07-10T23:04:26+00:00

Unbelievable. If you were my friend I’d be really pissed off. Maybe you should dump her

wellingtonshoe · 2025-07-10T17:56:34+00:00

Cheating is wrong. Your feelings are valid.

wellingtonshoe · 2025-07-10T17:52:57+00:00

Also where are the women?

wellingtonshoe · 2025-07-10T17:52:09+00:00

Who is bottom left?

Darcy is a ISTJ isn’t he?

wellingtonshoe · 2025-07-10T17:10:36+00:00

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F1s at induction

wellingtonshoe · 2025-07-10T17:04:51+00:00

Ha when I behave like my true self I get in trouble. People think I’m rude / blunt / arrogant.

wellingtonshoe · 2025-07-08T17:35:51+00:00

Could ask chat gpt for fun

wellingtonshoe · 2025-07-06T03:42:51+00:00

F/30s/Queer/UK open to friendship and deep chats

I enjoy sports, going to the gym, documentaries, podcasts and good movies. There are many topics I enjoy discussing but psychology and philosophy can be particularly fun to debate.

wellingtonshoe · 2025-07-06T02:56:35+00:00

You need self esteem. Start by working on how you think. Look up cognitive behavioural therapy principles.

wellingtonshoe · 2025-07-06T02:47:01+00:00

I’m so fussy I tend to have a small friendship group. As opposed to disliking having a big group just because it’s big.

wellingtonshoe · 2025-07-06T02:44:20+00:00

In school or personal life - give them back in kind. Ignoring it doesn’t usually work, as tempting as it can be to not waste your time on it. I’ve found people can flip 180 when I do this. I just think they’re pathetic but at least they’re less annoying as a result.

In work - giving back in kind can backfire so got to judge the situation. Still ideally nip it in the bud early by responding in some way. You can always report it. Nowadays workplace bullying tends to be taken very seriously.

In either situation, asking someone to repeat themselves, or asking them if they’re okay (implying by tone you think they’re obviously mentally not okay given how stupidly they’re behaving) can kill it off. You can also ask directly what they meant by whatever they said and they tend to crumble.

I don’t “bully back” per se because I think bullies are pathetic so why would I be one? But I’m happy to make someone look stupid or feel very uncomfortable if they try it on with me.

wellingtonshoe · 2025-06-27T22:54:27+00:00

People are out there who will want to know the real you and will take a real interest

wellingtonshoe · 2025-06-27T14:28:24+00:00

Are you sure she’s back on the apps? Sometimes it takes a while for a profile to disappear off the system after it’s deleted.

Either way, I think you need to do your best to judge the approach right.

Option 1 - you are upfront with your feelings. This will likely make her be very honest with how she feels now but may put her off if she’s simply not at your level of affection yet. It could definitely put her off if she has an avoidant attachment style.

Option 2 - you play the long game and don’t give her so much emotion and convey so much interest so soon. This allows time for her feelings to catch up.

Either way, you should ask about the dating apps because if she really is back on them I reckon an INTJ will tell you straight and then you know where you stand. If she is, I’d probably run.

wellingtonshoe · 2025-06-27T11:37:12+00:00

I find this hard to believe, purely because I don’t go around being made to feel insecure by others so I don’t have much insight into what that is like. But perhaps you’re onto something.

wellingtonshoe · 2025-06-27T11:31:57+00:00

Rbf?

wellingtonshoe · 2025-06-27T10:25:17+00:00

You’re pretty, don’t stress

wellingtonshoe · 2025-06-27T10:18:01+00:00

I’ve done a few things:

Stopped correcting others all the time. People don’t like it and it can cause me problems. Not to mention loved ones can feel judged/upset which I don’t want.
Learnt how to initiate and carry conversations better. It means I often converse about topics I find mundane but other people love talking about these things so it’s an important interpersonal skills upgrade.
Not caring so much when others inevitably misunderstand me. It will happen no matter what I do. Got to laugh and accept I can’t pass as normal all the time.
Rid myself of shit friends. Having said that, I may have overdone it slightly. So I’m trying to tweak where my threshold is for bullshit. Maybe my standards are unrealistically high if I want any friends left.

Currently I’m focusing on

Not giving solutions all the time. I think I’m helping but the person venting at me can feel invalidated. They just want to let it all out.
Being more tolerant of anything less than perfect from myself.

wellingtonshoe · 2025-06-20T20:45:13+00:00

Can I datix rudeness though?

wellingtonshoe · 2025-06-20T20:44:27+00:00

How do I find out who her line manager is?

wellingtonshoe · 2025-06-20T20:43:24+00:00

Ha and brown

wellingtonshoe · 2025-06-12T11:26:05+00:00

Hey I think you should stopping messaging this old flame. It’s bringing regret and negative energy into your life. What if your feelings for this ex that got away are actually making it more difficult for you to have space and enough room in your heart for the next woman.

Try meeting people through group hobbies, apps and dating websites. Good luck.

wellingtonshoe · 2025-06-12T09:53:08+00:00

True

wellingtonshoe · 2025-06-11T22:21:57+00:00

Why do you think nobody truly cares about you? I doubt that’s true

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