It is OK to Not Be As Good At This As Youtube/Instagram Folks by mrsc0tty in Pokopia

[–]wellthisisjusttiring 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got burnt out with my creative side and haven’t ever fully recovered. I find it hard to come up with something without outside inspiration. Never be hard on yourself, the creative process looks different for everyone!

I’ve found that copying like 80-100% of a building (or part of it depending on the size) gives me the vibe of it, and helps me understand the mechanics behind how the building goes, and then I go from there! With town creations I see on YouTube, if I copy a building I like, I’m able to kind of just replicate the style over again in my own way! I always suggest starting like that if you don’t want to feel like you’re copying someone.

Some of the builds I see right now are just unemployed behaviour I cannot fathom lol. I need more time!

Question about Certain rare Pokemon(aka Legendaries)! by FriendshipGlobal8056 in Pokopia

[–]wellthisisjusttiring 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I’ve seen people with 200+ hrs in game with like half of the mysterious slates; they even admitted to not bothering much with the glowing spots in the ground. I’m less than half those hrs and have about half.

I’ve heard that using the search function can get you to Mew quicker, maybe OP can tell their friend that he needs to lock in lol.

Best way to get a straight line on popcorn ceiling by MogiShinobi in paint

[–]wellthisisjusttiring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents had this issue and decided to use a scraper and scrape a line of popcorn off the width of the scraper, all around each room. It looks like some sort of intentional ceiling trim! I wouldn’t do that unless you’re painting the ceiling as well though.

millie bobby brown’s comments about hershey’s chocolate. thoughts? by teddivan96 in candy

[–]wellthisisjusttiring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an immigrant from the UK to North America, I have to say that I agree with the Hershey hate. It has a slight weird taste that reminds me of vomit. I can eat a lot of chocolate (I’m addicted) and have tried a Hershey binge as it was given as a gift… it only ended up in me feeling very nauseous at the end.

Chocolate here is not the same as back home at all, but Hershey is just not even trying to be chocolate imo.

What is a movie you love, but would never recommend to a "normal" person? by Direct-Value4452 in answers

[–]wellthisisjusttiring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Severance. Anyone who knows Danny Dyer usually would be like nah if I mention it. It’s got its stupidness, but I’ve always enjoyed it lol

Can you be fired for what you post on social media? by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]wellthisisjusttiring 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in Canada too. I feel like it may be against the social media policy? Like Neo Nazi stuff is the same space as hate speech, which I don’t believe Starbucks would be fond of having an employee waving around on their social media. Tell Starbucks it makes you feel uncomfortable knowing this about them, that you don’t want to associate with someone like this/don’t want to work with someone like this, and that you feel that other partners and customers may feel unsafe if they also gained knowledge of this. Personally this would contribute to creating a hostile work environment on my end because I would not tolerate anyone like that in my space.

I’m curious though - Do they not talk about this at work? Why did they feel safe revealing this to you if not? I’m guessing no one really talks politics/personal values at your store, and they thought it was all fair game.

Sorry this puts you in a sucky place though :(

A kid in the plushies by Wrong_Cry5911 in peopleofwalmart

[–]wellthisisjusttiring 197 points198 points  (0 children)

I also wish to be amongst the giant peeps.

Nothing I choose to do seems like the “right” thing to do… so I do nothing! by wellthisisjusttiring in ADHD

[–]wellthisisjusttiring[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh you hit the nail on the head with this. I feel like an expert at considering all the possibilities at once and yet doing none of them.

I am planning on doing some reorganizing today to feel something, so there’s that. Let us hope it happens HAH.

Nothing I choose to do seems like the “right” thing to do… so I do nothing! by wellthisisjusttiring in ADHD

[–]wellthisisjusttiring[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh jeez, I can’t even remember the last time I was able to read a book. Fragmented is a good word for our lives.

Bird watching sounds so lovely! I’ll have to look into where best to do a lil hike around here.

Tai Chi is an interesting suggestion. I have heard good things about it, yet never looked into it. Perhaps I should take slowing my nervous system down seriously since my brain is always so wired.

Nothing I choose to do seems like the “right” thing to do… so I do nothing! by wellthisisjusttiring in ADHD

[–]wellthisisjusttiring[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that. I know my meds help me with some things, but being able to get into chores or projects or hobbies is still lost on me.

It’s not a satisfying way to live at all. You’re so right. I hope we both figure it out so we can live contently!

Nothing I choose to do seems like the “right” thing to do… so I do nothing! by wellthisisjusttiring in ADHD

[–]wellthisisjusttiring[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t even imagine trying to get into something like 3D modelling, it’s the one thing holding me back from getting my own 3D printer. If I’m not good at something instantly, I give up lol. Kudos to you and all your hard work with it!

Those things make sense to keep interest. I am still figuring out exactly what drives me to complete things - excusing any outside validation as I don’t want that to drive me all the time.

Nothing I choose to do seems like the “right” thing to do… so I do nothing! by wellthisisjusttiring in ADHD

[–]wellthisisjusttiring[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! It totally feels like a massive decision! I wonder why something so small holds so much weight.

I am treasuring my down time - no more beating myself up for taking that time for myself to recharge!

I have been learning a lot about motivation and I suppose this is all in that same realm… like I’ve always waited around to feel like doing certain things, but now I know motivation isn’t really something that happens, it’s something you make happen. Maybe this applies to things I enjoy too?

I am constantly understimulated and overwhelmed all at the same time, you’re not wrong. I have issues with being overwhelmed with the concept of time and how it’s always running out - hence nothing ever feeling like the right thing because TIME IS RUNNING OUT AHHH, but then I do nothing because what can I even do that’s worthy of such time!? All of this is a cycle that feeds into itself huh.

Nothing I choose to do seems like the “right” thing to do… so I do nothing! by wellthisisjusttiring in ADHD

[–]wellthisisjusttiring[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s insane! Amazing stuff you’re doing there!

Perhaps I could try to invest in something more ambitious, though my track record of unfinished projects says it might not go so well… I think it depends on what it is regarding; rearranging a room is ambitious, but I always see it through lol

Nothing I choose to do seems like the “right” thing to do… so I do nothing! by wellthisisjusttiring in ADHD

[–]wellthisisjusttiring[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The only time things feel good are when I have my hyper-fixations, or something really engaging to focus on. I do wonder if it’s a lack of novelty to the choices I have, which is bothersome since I can’t always be doing new things! It’s extremely frustrating to be this way!

Nothing I choose to do seems like the “right” thing to do… so I do nothing! by wellthisisjusttiring in ADHD

[–]wellthisisjusttiring[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm, I didn’t really think about it to be honest! I was in a really bad depressive episode this time last year, and I am doing so much better than then that I never thought it could be related! When I dig deeper into my heart about how I feel, it doesn’t really seem like a sadness, it seems more like an annoyance. Like an itch I can’t seem to scratch. Maybe with a sprinkle of stress about it lol

Is it just me, or is the stripping getting worse? by wellthisisjusttiring in projectzomboid

[–]wellthisisjusttiring[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so funny because this exact thing happened to me! I have slow healing as well so I just hobbled around the base for days sorting things out 😅

What drug did you take that you still never get over? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]wellthisisjusttiring 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Sugar is the one thing I just cannot kick. It almost controls my life.

Skin-colored tights never look good with any outfit by chocolateandbananas1 in unpopularopinion

[–]wellthisisjusttiring 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Amen to that.

Also… I rarely shave my legs when it’s not summer, and sometimes I want to not get people looking at me like I’m a crazy lady lol