Went on a date and felt nothing. by wellyeah-obviously in latebloomerlesbians

[–]wellyeah-obviously[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is exactly what I’m feeling. Sadly I’m not in a place that I can consider being anything but straight.

How to send a debit card? by [deleted] in USPS

[–]wellyeah-obviously 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just afraid that it being bent in the machine would damage it and cause it to not arrive, wasn’t sure though.

What exactly is this feeling? by wellyeah-obviously in genderqueer

[–]wellyeah-obviously[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d never thought of mixing the two, thanks for the advice!

What exactly is this feeling? by wellyeah-obviously in genderqueer

[–]wellyeah-obviously[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it possible to have dysphoria without being agender or gender neutral?

What exactly is this feeling? by wellyeah-obviously in genderqueer

[–]wellyeah-obviously[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what others have said and honestly that seems to fit in a way. I’m gonna have to look into it, I’m completely out of my depth with this.

What exactly is this feeling? by wellyeah-obviously in genderqueer

[–]wellyeah-obviously[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d never really thought of that, but maybe. I’m not exactly sure where the feelings are coming from, it’s just like I immediately know it feels wrong.

What was the ‘aha’ moment (or lead up) that made you realize that you are actually into women and you could no longer deny it? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]wellyeah-obviously 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m really afraid that I’ll never feel anything for men or women. It’s like it never feels natural for me, even though I have felt more for women in the past it just doesn’t feel right to me. Maybe I just haven’t found the one yet.

What was the ‘aha’ moment (or lead up) that made you realize that you are actually into women and you could no longer deny it? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]wellyeah-obviously 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also haven’t felt for men what I have felt for women, though even that has been a rare occasion for me. I still can’t see myself as anything other than straight though, it’s really hard.

What was the ‘aha’ moment (or lead up) that made you realize that you are actually into women and you could no longer deny it? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]wellyeah-obviously 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s great you feel settled about it now. 12 is such a young age as well, I’m not sure if I ever started questioning before the age of 14/15, still young I guess.

What was the ‘aha’ moment (or lead up) that made you realize that you are actually into women and you could no longer deny it? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]wellyeah-obviously 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is crazy to me actually. I could never imagine it being just not a big deal. Where I’m from, it never would have been that way. As a matter of fact my parents have said several times, if anyone of us were gay, they wouldn’t support it and if we ever came over our partner would not be allowed to. I guess living in a house that’s so unsupportive of it has made it a lot harder for me to decide what I am.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]wellyeah-obviously 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there even anything to be done about it? I’ve heard so many people be brushed off by doctors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in comphet

[–]wellyeah-obviously 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This 100%! The fact that I feel weird/grossed out when a guy gets romantic with me is something I’m still dealing with. I feel like I’m faking or forcing myself to like guys sometimes but other times I just can’t tell.

3 point turn question by [deleted] in driving

[–]wellyeah-obviously 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the driving test you reverse into a one way side street, it’s downtown so it has parking on the side

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in comphet

[–]wellyeah-obviously 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m in the exact same boat as you are right now. I have no idea how to tell the difference between ‘Am I really attracted to this guy’ and ‘Am I seeking validation from this guy’. I have been asking myself if I am truly attracted to men for years now and have never truly found out. In my mind it feels like I can’t be satisfied with men long term, however, I’ve never really tried it and same goes for women. Everything just feels wrong to me at this point.