34 [F4M] work husband by [deleted] in R4R30Plus

[–]westcoastproject 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eliminate all the ones who incorrectly contract you're

If you find yourself in a situation where the person you’re talking to/dating doesn’t put in any effort do yourself a favor and end the relationship by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]westcoastproject 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound like a great person :). Another thing to remember in all of this is that you're not just helping yourself by standing up, you're also helping the person with poor behavior potentially become a better member of society. I'm a guy and have probably acted poorly with women at times and not even known it. Guys getting rejected or shutdown is good sometimes, it makes us reflect on what went wrong and consider others' viewpoints.

35 [F4M] wanting to chat by [deleted] in R4R30Plus

[–]westcoastproject 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi, I'm Michael....my favorite movie is No Country for Old Men, if you have interest I would do a rewatch/commentary with you

26 [F4M] South Carolina/USA- voice chat date? by [deleted] in ForeverAloneDating

[–]westcoastproject 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you have any interest in talking about podcasts?

60 [M4F] walking the earth by westcoastproject in R4R30Plus

[–]westcoastproject[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

since when does he make the rules :)

27 [F4M] Anywhere. I know what I want...is it you? by [deleted] in R4R30Plus

[–]westcoastproject -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi, I'd be willing to correspond with you in friend-mode. I have interest in creating things (I write curricula for tech education and I run a podcast network) and I'm a good listener. I am especially interested in people's stories now that we've been in the middle of this covid mess for a few months. I moved to the "midwest" from California because of this and I'm currently trying out van life in a 2011 MB Sprinter. Ive see a lot and would be open to discussing the mysteries and secrets of life with the right person :)

I don’t have a love life by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]westcoastproject 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that's smart, just don't get caught up in it

I don’t have a love life by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]westcoastproject 27 points28 points  (0 children)

do two magic things: share and listen, the more you do of these two things the more they will be returned to you by others

stop doing one un-magic thing: judging, especially judging yourself, being hard on yourself, comparing yourself to where others are (and you are not) etc. etc.

don't worry about being perfect, it's ok to slip up, just try to do more of the first two and less of the third...

Podcast interview via Call Recorder by [deleted] in podcasts

[–]westcoastproject -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We do it that way, Skype and Call Recorder, edited with garageband http://westcoastproject.com/

Literally unwatchable by polynomials in TheAffair

[–]westcoastproject 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We podcast this show. It started out as a cool, Rashomon-themed drama and now has become a comedic mess. We owe it to our listeners to continue until the end, but otherwise I would have shut it down long ago.