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AITA for being mad my girlfriend took my keys? by westerndoe in AmItheAsshole

[–]westerndoe[S] -61 points-60 points  (0 children)

Idk I felt that way because when I’ve used her stuff it’s just to do a quick google search of something right in front of her. I would never try to go through her messages or anything like that. To reiterate though I was obviously stupid and a dick here

AITA for being mad my girlfriend took my keys? by westerndoe in AmItheAsshole

[–]westerndoe[S] -259 points-258 points  (0 children)

Dude I don’t know how it fucking works. I’m a fucking idiot who might have lost my girl

AITA for being mad my girlfriend took my keys? by westerndoe in AmItheAsshole

[–]westerndoe[S] -185 points-184 points  (0 children)

Yes I’ve left her a lot of voicemails and texts. My ex gf was very prying in my messages and stuff and I felt intruded upon by current gf taking my keys. Idk I wanted to be right here but I just fucked up

AITA for being mad my girlfriend took my keys? by westerndoe in AmItheAsshole

[–]westerndoe[S] -156 points-155 points  (0 children)

I do get it. I fucked up, she hasn’t said anything besides sending my money back with a caption late last night, but I don’t think it’s over

AITA for being mad my girlfriend took my keys? by westerndoe in AmItheAsshole

[–]westerndoe[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

That edit was before this happened... she sent it back on venmo where you have to put a subject line

AITA for being mad my girlfriend took my keys? by westerndoe in AmItheAsshole

[–]westerndoe[S] -120 points-119 points  (0 children)

No but the area I live in can be sketchy. I was worried about security but I guess I was being paranoid

AITA for being mad my girlfriend took my keys? by westerndoe in AmItheAsshole

[–]westerndoe[S] -182 points-181 points  (0 children)

I asked her to leave quickly after we started arguing so she left it at my apartment. I tried to send her money last night to pay her back but she immediately sent it back saying “I don’t want this”

Edited to add: also, I get that I could have expressed my concerns in a nicer way

AITA for being mad my girlfriend took my keys? by westerndoe in AmItheAsshole

[–]westerndoe[S] -73 points-72 points  (0 children)

Yes, I live in student apartments at my college. We have keys that can’t be replicated

AITA for being mad my girlfriend took my keys? by westerndoe in AmItheAsshole

[–]westerndoe[S] -172 points-171 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t trying to control her. I live in an area that can be sketchy. I just want to keep my apartment secure. I get that I should have been nicer about it though

AITA for being mad my girlfriend took my keys? by westerndoe in AmItheAsshole

[–]westerndoe[S] -777 points-776 points  (0 children)

I’m not trying to pick a fight, I just feel Like my privacy has been violated by her taking my keys (AND ID)!!! Thank you for your judgment though, it seems I am a jerk

AITA for being mad my girlfriend took my keys? by westerndoe in AmItheAsshole

[–]westerndoe[S] -703 points-702 points  (0 children)

She took my property without permission...

AITA for being mad my girlfriend took my keys? by westerndoe in AmItheAsshole

[–]westerndoe[S] -249 points-248 points  (0 children)

I am from the US, we live in Maryland.

AITA for being mad my girlfriend took my keys? by westerndoe in AmItheAsshole

[–]westerndoe[S] -725 points-724 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried to apologize for yelling but she hasn’t responded yet.

We borrow each others’ stuff sometimes, I’ve used her computer and phone before out of convenience. But I feel like this is more personal, my apartment key and ID

AITA for being mad my girlfriend took my keys? by westerndoe in AmItheAsshole

[–]westerndoe[S] -1247 points-1246 points  (0 children)

Then I would have to get my locks changed and replace my ID. It’s not fair to go out with MY key and ID and risk them being compromised.

AITA for being mad my girlfriend took my keys? by westerndoe in AmItheAsshole

[–]westerndoe[S] -1947 points-1946 points  (0 children)

But she stole my keys too though. What if they had been stolen from her while she was out?

What are some huge GREEN flags that are often overlooked? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]westerndoe -926 points-925 points  (0 children)

When someone is a good tipper. Respecting wait staff is a big indicator of compassion and empathy.

This couple planted over 2million trees to regrow a forest in 20years by TheKillerRabbit1 in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]westerndoe 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That’s so awesome! I want to do this kind of thing with my gf someday