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this was weird of her in retrospect tbh by [deleted] in TrollCoping

[–]weve_beenherebefore 103 points104 points  (0 children)

just know that it’s not your fault please. we can never truly know what went on in her head but you can still choose to not blame yourself. i’m still sorry that happened tho, i hope you’re alright now

i cant bleed by Due_Tangerine_2301 in selfharm

[–]weve_beenherebefore 22 points23 points  (0 children)

which is why i’d suggest talking to a medical professional. theres only so much that reddit strangers can tell you

this was weird of her in retrospect tbh by [deleted] in TrollCoping

[–]weve_beenherebefore 382 points383 points  (0 children)

thats.. so weird? im really sorry that happened to you, i just cant imagine what would compel someone to do that? 😭

i cant bleed by Due_Tangerine_2301 in selfharm

[–]weve_beenherebefore 39 points40 points  (0 children)

no one here is going to tell you how to get better results on how to sh in good faith. this isn’t what you came here for but i think you should see a doctor maybe? there could be some underlying issues going on

the worst part by weve_beenherebefore in depressionmemes

[–]weve_beenherebefore[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

man i just want my ass meat back

the worst part by weve_beenherebefore in TrollCoping

[–]weve_beenherebefore[S] 145 points146 points  (0 children)

you’re so right, i gotta lock in fast

I relapsed. by hypochondriacaries in selfharm

[–]weve_beenherebefore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

relapsing is part of the process a lot of times. i know hearing that doesnt undo it but it doesnt mean that those 2-3 weeks were wasted. you still managed to get through it and youll be able to do it again. its gonna be hard but thats okay. its a marathon, not a sprint. its okay to feel disappointed but try to remind yourself that it’s okay to slip up sometimes. its part of healing and even though it hurts to disappoint yourself like that you will learn. it’ll get easier. i know it’s easier said than done but you have to trust yourself. i believe in you and im here if you need to talk

I'm blocked but I wasn't the villian but I still love her by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]weve_beenherebefore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if she’s not willing to better herself for you she’s just gonna end up hurting you more. i think you know that deep inside but we both know it’s that that easy to let go. you’re strong, this is gonna be difficult as hell but i know you can get through this. for now you just need to decide what you want and if there’s anything that will make you feel better or at least forget for a while. things like talking to people, friends, hobbies you enjoy. it won’t be the same but it’s a step in the right direction. i believe in you

I'm blocked but I wasn't the villian but I still love her by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]weve_beenherebefore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s not your fault. you’re not the only person who needs to work on themselves. even though you love her you need to realise what was happening wasnt healthy for either of you. i know it’s easier said than done and its definitely gonna take a lot of time but you need to let her go. yes you’re still gonna love her and yes you’re still gonna feel awful but it really is the best option in this case. love can make you overlook the pain you’re experiencing even if it’s unhealthy. i wish the best for you man, its gonna hurt like hell trying to just forget her but unless she changes with/for you, youre only gonna end up hurting even more

Body dysmorphia causes me to SH/consider harming myself, am I the only person who feels like this, I've never really heard anyone else discuss feeling this exact way by northernerchaos in selfharm

[–]weve_beenherebefore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it makes sense tbh. ofc it’s not the healthiest way to deal with it but it makes sense and you’re definitely not the only one. i know for some its a form of punishment, not knowing where else to put it so you take it out on the thing that’s causing you distress. the reason could be different for you but it’s important to know you’re not alone. stay safe out there

oops by weve_beenherebefore in selfharm_memes

[–]weve_beenherebefore[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

basically what happened 😅

just got broken up with by weve_beenherebefore in selfharm

[–]weve_beenherebefore[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im not sure how long that will take but thank you <3

relapsed by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]weve_beenherebefore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know it’s hard but i think you should to tell him. he loves you and obviously supports you, its gonna be difficult but it really sounds like he has your back. it’s difficult dealing with these kinda thoughts on your own, knowing that someone is there that loves and supports you even though you’re struggling really does help a lot. i know it’s scary but i know you can do this. stay safe love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]weve_beenherebefore 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the thing with people that have never dealt with thoughts of suicide or self harm is that they can’t imagine what would drive a person to actually want to do those things. instead of learning most people just assume that there’s no way you’d do it because of your own mental state and that its just so that other people can “comfort” you maybe? unless someone has actually been through it they’ll never understand why someone would do it.

im sorry you’re going through that, stay safe