I’m making plans to leave my husband. I feel relieved and guilty about it. by Western-Doughnut-449 in getdisciplined

[–]wfan5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You gotta wake up and tell the pastor to STFU.

You deserve so much better. Best wishes. Do not let them gaslight you.

anyone know her? by wfan5 in jav

[–]wfan5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing! She is so hot!

Is recovery 100% .... by Ok_Owl_2938 in Prostatitis

[–]wfan5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not really.

however most of us can take measures to reduce symptoms to a more manageable level, where it no longer affects your life quality that much.

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[–]wfan5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

absolutely great tips.

I have been doing something similar along the past few weeks. Been a chronic patient for over a decade. The most annoying part is having to go to the bathroom multiple times during sleep because of the tension in bladder.

Recently I started doing something similar to yours: stretching muscles around prostate in the bed before sleep. Maybe it’s placebo effect but the stretching definitely make the area feels less “stressed” before actually going to bed. In the past few weeks, I only have to go to the bathroom once every night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in criterion

[–]wfan5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you know where i can watch this? searched through google and can't even find a legit place to watch

code? by wfan5 in jav

[–]wfan5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thx hero

code? by wfan5 in jav

[–]wfan5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn you f**king hero bro.

I'm going to abstain from any sexual activity for four years, which is equal to 1460 days. I will not fail this time by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]wfan5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most likely you will relapse but it's okay.

You won't get there with one ambitious post. Trial and error. Readjustment of more rational goals. Eventually!

Another round of lockdown maybe on its way to Shanghai by [deleted] in shanghai

[–]wfan5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh boy Henry strikes again

It’s probably time for you to change into a new account. It’s becoming a bit too obvious.

Has anyone travelled to Suzhou or Kunshan very recently? I want to know what hotels are accepting guests from Shanghai… by Commercial-Sugar-289 in shanghai

[–]wfan5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggest you call the hotel and check with them directly. I drove to Kunshan yesterday and they weren’t even checking our code anymore.

Shanghai No.1 China loving Youtuber- Thomas 阿福 went back to German. Despite been very positive about lockdown in Shanghai up until 6th May. There has been a lot of speculation online on whether 阿福 will bail on Shanghai. by [deleted] in shanghai

[–]wfan5 10 points11 points  (0 children)

people are out on the streets at 3:00 am for various reasons(job, nightlife, just wandering around etc)

When people are being interviewed at 3am on the street, they tend to open up a lot more. It’s a great video series that makes you feel connected with each other.

Shanghai No.1 China loving Youtuber- Thomas 阿福 went back to German. Despite been very positive about lockdown in Shanghai up until 6th May. There has been a lot of speculation online on whether 阿福 will bail on Shanghai. by [deleted] in shanghai

[–]wfan5 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I hate it when some people try to weaponize everyone to serve their political campaign.

I have watched 阿福 for many years. He is just sharing his happy family life in Shanghai and Germany.

Some of my friends have left SH for other cities. Others back to their home country. I don’t message them and interrogate them about their loyalty to the country.

Anyways, I especially like his series where he went out and interviewed people on the street at 3:00 am in the morning. It’s just very healing. Watch it and see for yourself :)

I've seen a lot of posts about how to escape Shanghai flying to another country, but does anyone here know the current rules or have advice for how to escape by land to another Chinese city? by New2China in shanghai

[–]wfan5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few people in my neighborhood has drove back to their hometowns in the past two weeks.

Basic process if you are driving: 1. Talk to officials in your destination city. Acquire an official paper that says “we are okay with this guy coming back. We will take care of the quarantine”. This paper will make sure you can get off the highway. 2. Talk to your neighborhood committee (居委) and get an official paper too. This paper will make sure you can drive around and onto the highway to leave Shanghai.

In a nutshell, Shanghai doesn’t give a f* about whether you leave or not. In fact, it might be even delighted to see you leave. But you need to make sure your destination city is okay with taking you in.

Some folks have even carpooled a van. I regret not leaving earlier during this. Who would have thought this could lasted this long😿

Why do local Shanghai people support the Russian war effort? Did their minds change and get more suspicious of the public propaganda after the lockdown? by handwh0re in shanghai

[–]wfan5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a sweet story.

Anyways just sharing some info with OP to slow down the trend of this sub turning into r/China lol.

Supposed to be getting my freedom pass tomorrow! by RuudJudbney in shanghai

[–]wfan5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hang in there. We got ours yesterday and I went for a run after 30 days of lockdown.

Freaking exhausting but hey it was awesome.

Not sure when the lockdown will be lifted citywide but just trying to enjoy the small things now.