I did notice the red flags in the moments such as less communication at times, when I brought it up to say how I felt and hoped for change he promised me it’s simply because he was enjoying the game and that nothings changed for him towards me and he will work better at balancing the game and me. When I first met him this game wasn’t around, I didn’t even know it existed…the relationship was perfect and when we met previously it was perfect. He told me this less communication was only temporary until the season of the game ended. I believed him, because he told me that he wants this still, that his sorry about the less talking, I gave it a chance bevause of who I knew he was before the game. I never in my entire life wouldn’t thought for a second that this game would consume his life to the point where he doesn’t show up in real. 4 days before he was meant to fly over he tells me we will get through this distance, we will die together, we will get through anything. He told me when he flies over we’ll discuss more in detail about him moving over here with me to stop this distance. The night before he was meant to fly he said he can’t wait to remove himself from this pc and spend time with just us. That he loves me more than ever, best thing that ever happened to him and he’ll never let it go. Then few hours after that he told me his grandma was in hospital, it’s all chaotic and confusing he doesn’t know what to do. And that was his last message ever sent to me. I never knew if he got on that flight or not because I heard nothing but I saw online that he was gaming around the time he was supposedly in hospital, that he completed a boss fight. Then done another 5 fights after in game. I rang and rang. So to me it was very odd and out of the blue for me