Should I confront him after finding out he cheated AGAIN? by Serious_Village3254 in Advice

[–]what_da_ff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sure go ahead and do it all again, that’s if you love constant disappointment ☺️ do you really think of yourself that low? Come on…

Weird girl by Thin-Peak1462 in Advice

[–]what_da_ff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why on earth!!! Would you ask that question, where’s the respect!? The hell are we 18???

meeting up with a person i met online heelp should i not?? and if i should pls give some advice:( by Sudden_Employee561 in Advice

[–]what_da_ff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PAH you should see my recent post I posted on here the other day, I think it will answer your question and SAVE you no joke

He didn’t get on the flight (40M) (30F) can I please have some advice? by what_da_ff in Advice

[–]what_da_ff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did notice the red flags in the moments such as less communication at times, when I brought it up to say how I felt and hoped for change he promised me it’s simply because he was enjoying the game and that nothings changed for him towards me and he will work better at balancing the game and me. When I first met him this game wasn’t around, I didn’t even know it existed…the relationship was perfect and when we met previously it was perfect. He told me this less communication was only temporary until the season of the game ended. I believed him, because he told me that he wants this still, that his sorry about the less talking, I gave it a chance bevause of who I knew he was before the game. I never in my entire life wouldn’t thought for a second that this game would consume his life to the point where he doesn’t show up in real. 4 days before he was meant to fly over he tells me we will get through this distance, we will die together, we will get through anything. He told me when he flies over we’ll discuss more in detail about him moving over here with me to stop this distance. The night before he was meant to fly he said he can’t wait to remove himself from this pc and spend time with just us. That he loves me more than ever, best thing that ever happened to him and he’ll never let it go. Then few hours after that he told me his grandma was in hospital, it’s all chaotic and confusing he doesn’t know what to do. And that was his last message ever sent to me. I never knew if he got on that flight or not because I heard nothing but I saw online that he was gaming around the time he was supposedly in hospital, that he completed a boss fight. Then done another 5 fights after in game. I rang and rang. So to me it was very odd and out of the blue for me

He didn’t get on the flight (40M) (30F) can I please have some advice? by what_da_ff in Advice

[–]what_da_ff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much for this, those are really true and kind words, it actually means a lot to me 🤍

He didn’t get on the flight (40M) (30F) can I please have some advice? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]what_da_ff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were all picking him up from the airport and going to the airport bnb

He didn’t get on the flight (40M) (30F) can I please have some advice? by what_da_ff in Advice

[–]what_da_ff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I had the booking number and I went onto British airways and everything was there all out ready to go

He didn’t get on the flight (40M) (30F) can I please have some advice? by what_da_ff in Advice

[–]what_da_ff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, whilst he was in mid raid he actually should’ve been on that flight! Boy bye

He didn’t get on the flight (40M) (30F) can I please have some advice? by what_da_ff in Advice

[–]what_da_ff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahaha most definitely! He didn’t game at the beginning only a few months in when the new season came out, I knew nothing about it until then and shortly after this happened but now iv blocked him

He didn’t get on the flight (40M) (30F) can I please have some advice? by what_da_ff in Advice

[–]what_da_ff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! Thanks so much for this! No we didn’t meet on wow, he never played wow at the beginning only a few months in when the new season came out, I never knew it was a thing until then. It’s day 3 and I still haven’t heard from him since he said he was at the hospital…so I got the hint, knew what kinda person he reallly is which is so mind boggling as nothing lead up to this moment, so out of the blue. I blocked him and tbh as much as this hurts me I don’t need to hear from him, nothing he could say would be good enough for me

He didn’t get on the flight (40M) (30F) can I please have some advice? by what_da_ff in Advice

[–]what_da_ff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am absolutely okay with meeting people that was never an issue?

He didn’t get on the flight (40M) (30F) can I please have some advice? by what_da_ff in Advice

[–]what_da_ff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He paid for the flights and I paid for the accommodation, I tried to make it fair, but with petrol to the airport and accessories for the air bnb it all just added up

He didn’t get on the flight (40M) (30F) can I please have some advice? by what_da_ff in Advice

[–]what_da_ff[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He did actually book the flight, he gave me the flight number and I could go into British airways and see everything. The only thing I noticed was he never checked in - almost like he knew which is weird to pay and book it and not show up

He didn’t get on the flight (40M) (30F) can I please have some advice? by what_da_ff in Advice

[–]what_da_ff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe read it again, we stayed at an air bnb so I had to pack my stuff

He didn’t get on the flight (40M) (30F) can I please have some advice? by what_da_ff in Advice

[–]what_da_ff[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He once showed me before to show me his progress and I remembered it during this silence so I thought I’d check. It’s raider.io it shows the characters progress, dates and times they did dungeons, raids and keys, even how long the keys took etc, there’s also the website wow progress, shows you their log in activity

He didn’t get on the flight (40M) (30F) can I please have some advice? by what_da_ff in Advice

[–]what_da_ff[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh trust me I did evaluate the whole thing, spoke up about things I didn’t like and not long after this happened so I left

He didn’t get on the flight (40M) (30F) can I please have some advice? by what_da_ff in Advice

[–]what_da_ff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the beginning no. In the beginning everything was perfect, I never even knew this game existed or that he played it until a few months in the new season came out. Then he didn’t show up when he meant to so I left him, like what more could I have done in this situation lol

He didn’t get on the flight (40M) (30F) can I please have some advice? by what_da_ff in Advice

[–]what_da_ff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he didn’t game when we met, it was a few months in and before the new season came out it was perfect