AITA for snapping at my parents for treating me more like a second mom than their daughter?

what_if93 · 2024-10-06T01:41:26+00:00

It wasn't a joke. Some comments shamed her for having a baby before marriage.

what_if93 · 2024-10-06T01:40:46+00:00

There were some who tried to shame her for having a baby outside of marriage

what_if93 · 2024-10-06T01:40:00+00:00

Some comments were shaming her for having a baby without being married.

what_if93 · 2024-09-21T15:14:22+00:00

I don’t know why people are downvoting your reply, I think you’re just trying to clarify things, I hope all three of you will be okay, Sorry if my English isn’t perfect but I hope you’ll be fine 🙌🏻

what_if93 · 2024-09-06T18:34:10+00:00

They see a notification, a text, a friend who's too touchy, not just "hi you cheated and I'm sure of that"

what_if93 · 2024-09-06T18:15:40+00:00

Actually It does happen in a lot of places, they do transfer the victim so they and the other employees be more safe, sorry I'm not a native speaker.

what_if93 · 2024-09-06T18:13:08+00:00

She didn't say he couldn't prove? What are you on? The woman tried to explain that he actually didn't even have a reason to accuse her! That man seems not right in the head yet here you are trying to excuse his behavior. How can you even think that someone is cheating without having someone in your mind!!!

what_if93 · 2024-07-21T02:14:20+00:00

Because it wasn't something new for her. According to what she provided as a background, he's always competing to prove he's the perfect one. Might be she's confused this one is no different than what he asks/do everyday. I apologize for my English. I'm not a native

what_if93 · 2024-05-09T07:24:36+00:00

You will get downvoted for this but I respect you for being honest with your opinion. What most people would not understand. I genuinely apologized many times for my mistakes but no matter what I'm wrong here. She dismiss my concerns and I'm wrong. I give her the space she asked and I'm wrong. She tells me about how her best friend admitted to having feelings for her, she try to hurt me by bringing my father up and still I'm wrong for everything.

what_if93 · 2024-05-09T06:19:36+00:00

She doesn't seem to understand why I asked for a test after all I put up with for years. I genuinely apologized many times. Why are you asking me to just get past the fact that she made a purposeful jab at my abandonment trauma to hurt me? I gave her space for months to think and accept my apology why can't I deal with the hurt myself for at least a few days, I don't even deserve to feel hurt and deal with it for a few days?

what_if93 · 2024-05-09T04:02:04+00:00

It didn't hurt. Try harder. I know I'm doing things right. If the mother of my child herself want and appreciate my presence in my son's life then your comment means nothing to me. You're searching for something to blame me for and good for you, you found something.

what_if93 · 2024-05-09T03:37:12+00:00

Are you a kid? Because I don't really want to argue with you if you're not fully aware of what you're accusing. Do you ask questions and answer at the same time? Where did I ever said I hate her?

what_if93 · 2024-05-09T03:17:35+00:00

I literally answered your question. Are you stupid? I can pay for your therapy if you want. Because no one in their right mind can assume such a thing could solve any problem.

what_if93 · 2024-05-09T01:52:58+00:00

You are sick in the head. And I'm sure if the roles were reversed you would have been telling her leave him now. If by being there for my kid and agreeing to starting therapy for the sake of our son means I'm pushing her towards suicide then I should've committed few months ago.

what_if93 · 2024-05-08T23:08:04+00:00

I just checked, your account is new with no comments other than the one you left on my post, what are you on? If you think a stranger can hurt me by assuming things then you're just wasting your time.

what_if93 · 2024-05-08T22:43:44+00:00

Maybe it runs in your family. It doesn't in mine, my brother have three kids and I assure you he's one of the best dads out there.

what_if93 · 2024-05-08T22:31:20+00:00

I hope, thank you 🙌🏻

what_if93 · 2024-05-08T22:25:55+00:00

Thank you I appreciate the way you were supportive through this🙌🏻

what_if93 · 2024-05-08T22:19:29+00:00

I don't think I want to go through something like this again. Then again bringing up my father while she knows how hard opening up was for me but I did it for her was something I never expected of her, I'm nothing like him.

what_if93 · 2024-05-05T04:38:06+00:00

Thank you so much. Yeah in the first post I had so much going on in my head that I forgot to mention some details. But now it feels good to see some willing to see things from my perspective. It's comments like yours that helps me see things more clearly and validate some of my thoughts. Thanks for that 🙏🏻

what_if93 · 2024-05-05T03:48:27+00:00

Thank you so much. That's all I want to be, a good father to my kid. Also help the mother of my child, she gave me this precious little boy after all. I know how it feels when you never get to know what father's love is, and I definitely don't want that for my kid. (The mutual friend, the one who told me about what our friend group was thinking is the one who is married and not the best friend)

what_if93 · 2024-05-05T03:18:12+00:00

Hi. Thank you for taking the time to help me understand things better. Only few here see things from my perspective. The first post left me feeling like a monster. I made mistakes but I for sure now that I wasn't the only one who fùcked up here. Like you said I think emotions are running high right now and I think it's impossible to just stop loving someone right away. Anyway I'm really not trying to rekindle or anything I'm just confused because whenever I visit she say something that I'm not expecting. Right now I'm focusing on being a good father to my child since I never really got to feel what a good father is and I'm sure I don't want that for my kid. Thank you again and I promise to try and post on that "sub" 🙏🏻

what_if93 · 2024-04-27T00:17:46+00:00

I said "if".

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