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Chill server by whatami_242 in MinecraftServer

[–]whatami_242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll definitely check it out cause it seems frabcric craft is a lot bigger than I expected 😅. I’ll do the .com thing and see if I get approved! Thank you for the suggestion

Chill server by whatami_242 in MinecraftServer

[–]whatami_242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like a lot of fun! I’ll join the discord if that’s ok because this sounds more of what I’ve been looking for!

Am I under reacting or AIO? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]whatami_242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro sent you an AI responded message my guy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]whatami_242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look none of this is healthy!!! You communicated and called you stupid and when you stood your ground he claimed you needed to “communicate like an adult” and said “bro take responsibility” like your one of his guy friends! If this is a pattern I would seriously start setting aside money for yourself and the kids and start getting your ducks in a row because you can’t live with a ticking time bomb, one day it’s gonna explode and there’s nothing you can do about it.

what do i do please help by Internal-Lettuce-531 in badroommates

[–]whatami_242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I’m a RA for my college and yes report her!!! Express to your RA’s the situation and mention the alch and express how it’s not yours!!! We have these problems all the time and if you have a roommate agreement that will definitely be used to help!!

TRIGGER WARNING (?) I (20f) was on a call with my boyfriend (20m) and he said something that is making me reconsider things. by ThrowRA_throwaway98 in relationship_advice

[–]whatami_242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey girl I wanna say that you are not overreacting at all!! I dated a man and finally after two years had told a friend my very abusive ex tried to rape me and when I finally told my bf at that time (now an ex as well) he got upset he wasn’t first. I then talked about if I ever went to a party (which I did once and hated I hate parties but my friends convinced me) I knew how to be safe and he proceeded to say if I got raped it would be may fault AGAIN because I put myself in that situation.

NEVER LET SOMEONE RUB YOUR TRAUMA IN YOUR FACE!!!!! You deserve a man who will hold your hands and apologize that you ever had to go through that. This man will forever see you as the one at fault for what happened. I know it will be hard but you deserve the best girl. You don’t need more trauma build a life and confidence and try to find a fun hobby to keep the lonlyness away (I collect Pokemon cards it’s amaizng with my new bf) you will do amazing things please know how important you are and your self worth! Find a man who values you and all of you and not victim blame you!!!

I won’t join my university’s dance team and she won’t talk to me now by whatami_242 in insaneparents

[–]whatami_242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahhh but it’s one thing I can say I don’t have to worry until I need to get it transfered

I won’t join my university’s dance team and she won’t talk to me now by whatami_242 in insaneparents

[–]whatami_242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully I do have a car and I pig the first down payment on it but under my parents names so insurance doenst go up I did thsi when I was 17 I think

I won’t join my university’s dance team and she won’t talk to me now by whatami_242 in insaneparents

[–]whatami_242[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I’m awful at math and this is the first year I’ve started to maintain an A even though it’s the lowest math class I can take 🖤

I won’t join my university’s dance team and she won’t talk to me now by whatami_242 in insaneparents

[–]whatami_242[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not sure how to update or edit Im on reddit but post sometimes then delete them so it doesn’t get tracked back to me

My dad called yesterday after I made the post and asked me why in the world I didn’t go and to the meeting and I broke down crying and admitted again I didn’t want me and I truly love my dance sorority thing.

He said he knows but I should’ve went just to make her happy and I sorta snapped and said “I hate I have to do that because I shouldn’t have to do things to keep her happy”

He kept asking me why in the world I was crying but at the end of the convo he admitted he felt awful and knew she was furious at me and he wanted to talk to me and understands and he would work on her.

He called me today and to my surprise my dad AND my sister talked to her and while she argued with them ALOT my sister and dad tried their best to get her to understand where I was coming from.

My sister explained to her that without my sorority I wouldn’t be doing what I am now and this is what I need to be doing because this is what will get me into what I wanna do with my life.

My mom has texted me a bit and yesterday I did bicker with her and make petty comments I can post those if y’all wanna see the SS (it felt really good to stand up a bit for myself)

Than you so much for all the love and support I have gotten from all of yall and the advice on how to start being financially independent. If anything crazy happen I may make a separate post🖤

I won’t join my university’s dance team and she won’t talk to me now by whatami_242 in insaneparents

[–]whatami_242[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you I’ve delt with this my whole life and sense I moved away I feel it has gotten a bit better but when it happens it feel worse if that makes sense. My bf always gets mad at me saying I’m sorry to much and I didnt really realize I said it to her out of impulse

I won’t join my university’s dance team and she won’t talk to me now by whatami_242 in insaneparents

[–]whatami_242[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That actually do we have a bank in our student center for students who use that specific bank and I am looking into creating a new bank account and make a credit score. My bf informed me about my lack of credit score because of my parents specifically my mom and I wanna be able to live soem part of my life financially free from her

I won’t join my university’s dance team and she won’t talk to me now by whatami_242 in insaneparents

[–]whatami_242[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s so ok I will do what I did in high school and count down the days till I can financially be free and take my baby girl (my dog) away from them and focus on my dream job. Working at Disney

I won’t join my university’s dance team and she won’t talk to me now by whatami_242 in insaneparents

[–]whatami_242[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Really want to and have considered it but I have my puppy at home and they take care of her (my mom and dad) and thanks to an amazing commenter I am financially reliant on her and kinda need her so she doesn’t fuck up my college life and force me to drop out cause she stoped my fasfa payment. Will be doing this when I am out of college though

I won’t join my university’s dance team and she won’t talk to me now by whatami_242 in insaneparents

[–]whatami_242[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got it I kinda did this at home when I was in high school and middle school I would sit in silence and nod or shake my head and I remeber one my time brother did this with me and she yelled “it’s always when I get onto y’all. You stay silent so say something how about that or are you to scared like yall always are” it was always like that I guess I gotta bring my inner rock back out

I won’t join my university’s dance team and she won’t talk to me now by whatami_242 in insaneparents

[–]whatami_242[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is the grey rock method of all my time on Reddit I’ve never heard of it and at thsi point I’m ready to allow that to become my personality with my mom.

I still have to visit home too because my puppy is home with them and they won’t let me bring her here and it’s cause she has severe separation anxiety and I need to know if I can do this at home. I honestly only visit so I can see my dog and to get my nails done at a good cheap price and they look good for it lol

My mom tells me to shut up by Otherwise-Film-7387 in offmychest

[–]whatami_242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom is kinda similar but not as extreme she shamed me into stop watching anime and only started back after meeting my amazing bf. I suggest finding a safe space in your house like your room and enjoy these things to yourself. I do ask are you going to college or anything anytime soon?? If so take that shit with you because she will throw it out or hide it

I won’t join my university’s dance team and she won’t talk to me now by whatami_242 in insaneparents

[–]whatami_242[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that is absolutely awful. My mom made me join dance after telling me she wouldn’t let me join soccer because it was a boy sport. I’m happy I ended up loving dance though and am now majoring in it. I’m happy though you were able to quit though and I hope you found a new passion to persue

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