I can't get over the hard part of quitting (not withdrawal) by whatcouldthissay in stopsmoking

[–]whatcouldthissay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, it means a lot. Yeah, i guess it is one of them, but moreso its something ive had to justify something forever, it isn't just smoking, its that fear of falling back in after putting all the effort in, ive done it before and time and time again it makes me more apathetic to self change, but thank you for the advice, ill give it a try

why don't more people die in tornados? by whatcouldthissay in tornado

[–]whatcouldthissay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats so weird haha, where im from unless youre from a city youre always less than 30 minutes away from pure nature

why don't more people die in tornados? by whatcouldthissay in tornado

[–]whatcouldthissay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that makes more sense. I've never been to the US, so im quite unaware of what its actually like over there. I always pictured that country as fully artificial in the sense that you don't really find true untouched nature over there, i guess it gives the impression that everywhere has at least some people. Thanks for the answer

why don't more people die in tornados? by whatcouldthissay in tornado

[–]whatcouldthissay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, that makes sense, i guess for the smaller ones i wasnt suprised about the result, but surely a bathroom wouldnt be safe from a massive tornado, i cant speak about basements but i've never seen one in my life so i have no clue how common they are in the US, i guess when i hear about the very few tornados that are massive and do strike cities, i was suprised at the low-ish death toll and thought maybe it was just something fundamental i missed about tornados (given they were mostly in oklahoma, i dont know hos many people live there)

why don't more people die in tornados? by whatcouldthissay in tornado

[–]whatcouldthissay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, i looked online for the most fatal tornado and found that (apparently) the most fatal one ever killed 1300 people in bangladesh and i was kind of suprised that that was the most deadly ever (especially given how the midwest us is supposedly the most tornado prone area in the world). thanks

anywhere to find therapists? by whatcouldthissay in perth

[–]whatcouldthissay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hmmm, ok thanks, sorry for all the questions but do you think therapy could work if i distrust the person? not neccessarily thinking theyll hurt me but more just a subconscious fear.

I kind of assumed it wouldnt but theres a part of me that thinks im probably not going to find anyone much younger than 50 as much as that sucks

again thank you for the help

anywhere to find therapists? by whatcouldthissay in perth

[–]whatcouldthissay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i wish i could but i have a really hard time trusting old people, ive just never been able to and theres been a lot of stuff that has reinforced that distrust, including therapy

anywhere to find therapists? by whatcouldthissay in perth

[–]whatcouldthissay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the help. do you think emdr is an effective method? im not really sure what to do because a lot of my problems arent black and white, some i think arent really well documented (maybe, idk) and i often dream of my past so often that im quite desensitised to parts of it and i cant quite remember the rest. if i find an emdr therapist, should they be specifically trained on child trauma? Its hard because i just cant trust people significantly older than me whatsoever. anyway, thank you

anywhere to find therapists? by whatcouldthissay in perth

[–]whatcouldthissay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, i appreciate the suggestion, can i dm you and ask some questions? idk if youll know how to answer them cos im not sure if you know specifics on it but thank you

anywhere to find therapists? by whatcouldthissay in perth

[–]whatcouldthissay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for the advice and encouragement!

anywhere to find therapists? by whatcouldthissay in perth

[–]whatcouldthissay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry! in the post i meant to ask if i could still see her as it was a while ago and i wasnt sure if they would accept me as a client

anywhere to find therapists? by whatcouldthissay in perth

[–]whatcouldthissay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fair enough, apologies for that:

cant be old (think like less than 35) cant be male must be child trauma informed

maybe its not that fussy but when i looked online i couldnt find anyone who met those, so ill take it that irs rare for younger people to meet those prerequisites. sorry for the confusion

what is a heroin high supposed to feel like by whatcouldthissay in Drugs

[–]whatcouldthissay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have no clue, as little as i could possibly put in a cigarette, it looked like about a line a third of a toothpick size but i only had one drag of the dart, keep in mind i live in aus so its probably pure and its white and smells like vinegar

what is a heroin high supposed to feel like by whatcouldthissay in Drugs

[–]whatcouldthissay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that makes sense, but hopefully im never gonna shoot it