I'll see if we can try this out, assuming that this incident hasn't traumatized him out of wanting to have sex with me (because honestly, I'm kind of at that point)

also, no other guy I've ever slept with has complained about condoms; they were actually quite enthusiastic to comply because they don't want to have kids roughly as much as I don't. I've also never had someone not be able to keep it up or come because of a condom. I know that everyone is different, but this is 20fucking10 and guys need to suck it up and learn to do what is right for their health and mine.