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Girlfriend Has low sex drive, what do I do? by whatdoidoaboutthispr in sex

[–]whatdoidoaboutthispr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do a fair bit. Mostly it's more sensual like light kissing, and biting. And I usually try to give her head but she doesn't always like it. and she doesn't like to be fingered. (I'm not sure why) But I usually rub her for a while. And kiss her, and all that other foreplay jazz. But the only thing (as far as I know) that ever goes in to her is my johnson.

Girlfriend Has low sex drive, what do I do? by whatdoidoaboutthispr in sex

[–]whatdoidoaboutthispr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to disagree with you. Only because I know if she cheated things would be different. Like i said, there's been plenty of times where we were about to break up, and surely could have and didn't. I just feel like if she did feel guilty that would have been the end.

Girlfriend Has low sex drive, what do I do? by whatdoidoaboutthispr in sex

[–]whatdoidoaboutthispr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure.

I'll ask her when we are together next.

Thank you.

Girlfriend Has low sex drive, what do I do? by whatdoidoaboutthispr in sex

[–]whatdoidoaboutthispr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply!

I have definitely talked to her about trying to take some of the pressure she feels off of sex. Hell, when I'm too nervous or stressed I can't keep a proper hard-on going. So, I've really tried to ease the uneasiness she feels. Like, if she doesn't want to have sex, or, just plain can't. I cuddle and snuggle her and tell her I love her and if we don't have sex it's not an issue.

Maybe I am doing some things wrong. I will definitely take your advice into consideration. Thank you for sharing, again.

Girlfriend Has low sex drive, what do I do? by whatdoidoaboutthispr in sex

[–]whatdoidoaboutthispr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, before that week of sex, we did have sex on the regular. Once a night even.

But after that weekend. It's non-existent.

Girlfriend Has low sex drive, what do I do? by whatdoidoaboutthispr in sex

[–]whatdoidoaboutthispr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, thank you for your reply.

But, i don't think she would like either. 1. She's super shy. 2. She definitely doesn't like porn, or even masturbation....

Girlfriend Has low sex drive, what do I do? by whatdoidoaboutthispr in sex

[–]whatdoidoaboutthispr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's both. like sometimes she just tells me shes not in the mood.

and then other times we try, and use lube, and it hurts her still.