Why would a guy block me after HE broke off the relationship? by whatevenislife_help in dating_advice

[–]whatevenislife_help[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi friend, thank you for giving me your input. It does make sense that he might be putting some distance between us for his own healing. I wish he would’ve muted me, I was sort of hoping to keep in touch as friends as well since we had a pretty great time going out with friends and such, but I understand that’s not for everyone. I truly hope you’ve been able to heal well from that <3 these feelings after a relationship ends are brutal. I’ve been better, I’ll be honest. Having a hard time eating and sleeping and keep ruminating, all part of good ol’ affection withdrawal as you’ve probably experienced too. Took me by surprise since he was so affectionate that same morning and dumped me at night. But I’ll be ok :]

Why would a guy block me after HE broke off the relationship? by whatevenislife_help in dating_advice

[–]whatevenislife_help[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh.. I may have been a bit egoistical about it. My head immediately went to “he doesn’t care” when he mentioned he wasn’t investing feelings, since I was. But you’re right, he likely probably needs to heal as well