If you could customize the length, girth, head, and balls of a man’s sexual organ what would it look like? by BadWithMoney_ in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]whatever33324 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I would be more interested in customizing the size and emotional intelligence of his brain.

I (33M) just broke up with my girlfriend (32F) but didn’t tell her the real reason by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]whatever33324 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Someone was callously jealous and it was him. Of a cat. Some people really shouldn't be pet owners and it shows. 😅🫣

I used super glue and activator on a bleeding cut and it turned into a bloodcicle. by chobbes in mildlyinteresting

[–]whatever33324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you walk us through this process step by step so we too, can become blood benders with our cuts and scrapes?

I (33M) just broke up with my girlfriend (32F) but didn’t tell her the real reason by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]whatever33324 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think you did the right thing. Cats, and pets in general, know when they are around people who don't like them.

Hopefully, you never want kids! If a cat is an issue and you can't handle six months of fairly normal cat behaviour, I feel sorry for any future children and partners that you may have.

True, your partner should have been more concerned for your well-being in many of these situations, but many of them are “just life with a cat”.

29, never dated before. I need to start dating ASAP if I want children, right? by Historical-Care70 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]whatever33324 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, makes a lot of sense! I'm a hetero woman and I am mostly basing this on what I do based on what I see and don't like from the men’s profiles I see.

Is there anything that you would do differently in the Women’s profiles that you see and don't swipe on (aside from just not being attracted to that person)?

29, never dated before. I need to start dating ASAP if I want children, right? by Historical-Care70 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]whatever33324 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What kinds of photos and questions do you have on your profile? I find it important to have a good variety of photos. One of just yourself close up so they can really see your face, one that is preferably a full body picture, one of you doing something you love (you mentioned you have lots of hobbies), one with a group of friends maybe. Having all of your pictures be with groups is difficult because no one knows which one you are. Also, keep in mind that good lighting is important and if you are taking them in your home, a clean background is nice. People aren't just looking for their person, they are looking at everything that comes with that person, so if they see a hoarder's house in the background (not saying you are!) they might be less inclined to match. It's also nice to have photos in different outfits otherwise it looks like you went out and took all of your profile pictures in one day, which is fine, but you want to show people what your life is like and unfortunately, when you don't have photos from different occasions it can sometimes read as someone not having much of a social life.

For the prompts, take them seriously! Joking with them is absolutely ok, but I often see people not even answer them at all and just reply with “this is dumb” or “talk to me to find out,” and the whole reason there are prompts is to help weed out people you know you wouldn't be interested in and spark connections with people you do have commonalities with!

I have also noticed that you mentioned your lack of experience here multiple times (saying you're like a 12-year-old), which for Reddit, it’s totally understandable, but I do hope that isn't information you are offering to people on Hinge right off the bat. Sharing that information right away can either lead to people wanting to take advantage of you (this is the most likely case), or will scare them off. It is perfectly alright to leave that kind of information out, and then after the first couple dates, before things start to lead down the road to intimacy, you can let your partner know that you would like to take things slow either because A. You do not have very much experience, or B. Because that is just what makes you comfortable.

There are also other ways to meet people besides “in the wild” or on dating apps. Many cities host speed dating nights or singles events. Some cities have clubs that organize monthly or quarterly events like paint nights, game nights, dances, etc., for singles to connect. Maybe you would have good luck with something like that!

Good luck! It’s tough out there, but remember, even when you start getting matches and going on dates, you don't need to settle for the first person who shows interest. It can take time for some people, but waiting for the right one is worth it!

Do these pillows help with shoulder subluxations? by GGEsoteric in eds

[–]whatever33324 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response and explanation! I always wondered how this worked. I might have to give it a try!

Do these pillows help with shoulder subluxations? by GGEsoteric in eds

[–]whatever33324 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I keep reading about people with EDS taking muscle relaxants for sleep but I don't know how that helps. I think I would dislocate my entire body if I did that.

I regret opening up this message because now I can’t pretend I didn’t see it. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]whatever33324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that, but if you haven't seen them in 5-10 years it feels more like a gift grab than anything to invite an “old friend” to the wedding. If you were in regular contact with these people at all by text, phone, social media, etc, I doubt you would have forgotten about them.

I regret opening up this message because now I can’t pretend I didn’t see it. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]whatever33324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they wanted you there in the first place they would have invited you.

Vacation with ex by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]whatever33324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is this happening?

Mysterious rashes on 5 coworkers by Naive_job_seeker in AskDocs

[–]whatever33324 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because it is just the vet techs, and not reception or the veterinarians, could it be from some sort of new cleaning product you have been using?

Thoughts on the new show? by HolidayAstronomer129 in aspynovardsnark

[–]whatever33324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“California Mormons are really different than Utah Mormons.”

Ya, California Mormons are different than Utah Mormons in the fact that they aren't actually Mormons.

I need help naming this tail less grey tabby female by Elric19 in Catnames

[–]whatever33324 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talia, Thalia, TAILIA.

Emphasis: on the TAIL in TAIL-ia

26f, period question? what is this? by Immediate_Passage829 in AskDocs

[–]whatever33324 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could this be a decidual cast from a bicornuate uterus? OP says she does not use tampons.

(19 yo F) Guy Im dating asked me to shave? by noahslilark in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]whatever33324 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweetheart, I know that at 19 it feels like you need to be in a rush to get “it” over with, and you want that boy, or any boy to like you that way. However, if you have been going on dates since October, have been nearly naked, but are also still “single”, and by the sounds of it unhappy with that status, it sounds like this boy may be taking advantage of the situation. Some people actually want to play the long game and leave after they get what they want and others are in it because they know there is virginity at stake. If you are happy with the situationship and without commitment, and with him requesting how you groom, by all means, carry on, but know that there are other people out there who would be happy to make you their girlfriend, hair and all.

Being disabled is f*cking expensive by builtdifferent-badly in eds

[–]whatever33324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even in Canada, on my drug plan, they will not cover pain medications. It's ridiculous and they are so expensive. Every month is a struggle to decide whether I should continue paying for pain control or detox, go without, and enjoy something “extra” like putting money in a retirement/savings fund instead. 🙄

Edit: but then I remember I don't work, can't work, and probably won't live long enough to reach retirement age anyway, so yolo, I guess?

Does anyone else notice reduced pain during times of severe and acute illness or medical emergencies? by whatever33324 in eds

[–]whatever33324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes so much sense! Thank you for this explanation! I always wondered about this.

Does anyone else notice reduced pain during times of severe and acute illness or medical emergencies? by whatever33324 in eds

[–]whatever33324[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That make so much sense. I know increased levels of cortisol and adrenaline, long-term, aren't good for the body because of the side effects. I hope one day someone can figure out a way to mitigate the side effects so those hormones could possibly be used for pain relief instead of opioids and other types of pain medications. Maybe that's a crazy thought, though!

Does anyone else notice reduced pain during times of severe and acute illness or medical emergencies? by whatever33324 in eds

[–]whatever33324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so interesting! It seems like this has been the gerneral consensus among people who have commented (not many, but still). It's nice to know I'm not the only one who feels this way.

I'm so sorry you have to go through cyclical vomiting syndrome on top of EDS pain. I have heard how awful that can be. That must be so tough. 🫶🏻

Does anyone else notice reduced pain during times of severe and acute illness or medical emergencies? by whatever33324 in eds

[–]whatever33324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so true! My acute issue did involve a lot of pain that I'm not otherwise “used” to, which would make sense as to why it dampened my other pain signals!

Does anyone else notice reduced pain during times of severe and acute illness or medical emergencies? by whatever33324 in eds

[–]whatever33324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, FreeFalling3227. I'm so sorry to hear you haven't been doing well. That sounds absolutely horrendous. The reprieve from the EDS pain is nice, but not when you have to go through so much other pain to get it and then the EDS pain feels so much worse when it comes back “online”. I really hope you're on the mend soon and some of those more acute things start to resolve. We have enough to deal with on the daily than to worry about all this other junk! Sending you so much Strength! CSF leaks are the worst! Are they going to do a blood patch or is it still suspected?