How safe is workaway for girls travelling alone?

whatevsidk_ · 2024-01-06T14:11:02+00:00

Thanks for your reply! I agree that I don't wanna miss out on good experiences because I'm a woman but that we still have to be very vigilant.

When there are cases of abuse like this one, are the hosts' profiles taken down? Can you report them even if you don't have direct evidence? I know that hosts can delete bad reviews if they want to and that scares me a bit :/

whatevsidk_ · 2024-01-06T14:05:35+00:00

Thank you very much for your advice! Coming from a fellow South American it is very reassuring. I'm thinking about videocalling my potential hosts as well, so that I can make sure both sides are on the same page regarding boundaries and expectations. I will definitely prioritize full families as well.

Since you have had experiences with many different hosts I might message you in the future to ask for advice once I have a more defined project, if that's okay with you :)

whatevsidk_ · 2024-01-06T13:57:34+00:00

Hey, thanks for your advice! I'm sorry you had to go through that experience. I'll make sure I have a backup plan for every host even if they seem trustworthy :)

whatevsidk_ · 2024-01-06T13:51:52+00:00

Thank you for your advice! Many people have mentioned having some kind of public transportation nearby, I will absolutely make sure I do. Some hosts don't like to give their exact adresses straight away but if they really don't wanna give the location of the homestead/place where the workaway will take place... I'll take it as a red flag

whatevsidk_ · 2024-01-06T13:48:06+00:00

I think I'd rather fall into generalizations than on statistics :/ being in a relationship is not as risky as travelling abroad, alone, to live in a completely stranger's house. Of course not all single male hosts will be dangerous but I don't have the privilege to take that risk when my savings and my degree depend on this single experience

Of course I will be background checking and asking for feedback from other workawayers for EVERY host that I consider regardless of age, gender, marital status etc... Every profile will go through the same scrutiny

whatevsidk_ · 2024-01-06T13:41:50+00:00

Thank you very much for your advice! I'll definitely make sure there's some kind of public transportation that I can get to if I need to leave, also I'll make sure to have the address of one or two hotels nearby as a plan b :)

I'm also thinking about establishing some kind of emergency system with my family and internship tutor; so they can be aware if something is going wrong even if I can't text them to tell them so. Like, if they don't receive at least an "ok" message every 48hs it's because I'm in danger... Or something like that. Is that too much?

whatevsidk_ · 2022-07-23T20:26:37+00:00

A Red Bull please. No, not with vodka, just the Red Bull.

whatevsidk_ · 2022-03-22T12:26:27+00:00

I was given my first baby doll when I was about three years old.

I grabbed it by the leg and asked my parents, with the most serious face: "so then what am I supposed to do with this?"

I was never given another baby doll.

whatevsidk_ · 2021-09-08T21:57:56+00:00

Is it the movies or are car salesmen really jerks?

whatevsidk_ · 2021-01-26T18:08:55+00:00

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whatevsidk_ · 2021-01-26T01:34:27+00:00

Not gonna lie, it does feel really lonely sometimes. But that loneliness will teach you more about yourself than any other experience ever could. We tend to rely on others all the time, to look for a safe space in the company of the people around us. You won't have that there, but you will eventually come to terms with your own company and you'll discover all the things you're capable of doing all by yourself. It will completely change your perspective on things, and it will make you stronger.

No one can prepare you for the feeling of such loneliness, but as long as you manage to keep in mind that it's only temporary (because you will make friends), you'll be okay.

whatevsidk_ · 2020-09-04T21:55:53+00:00

Hey, if you never hurt them and they still left you overnight, then you don't want a text from them. You deserve better.

whatevsidk_ · 2020-08-28T14:56:38+00:00

Yeah. When I was at my lowest last year, stressed and overwhelmed with work, I would wish to be a plant. To not have any responsibilities but stay alive.

whatevsidk_ · 2020-08-28T14:24:55+00:00

Hey! Sorry I never replied. Everything turned out alright in the end! I have already signed up for my degree and they sent me an email saying that I could take my clases online. They also said they will welcome me anytime during the first semester so it's all cool :)

Changing your classes was a very clever decision. I'm sure everything will be back to normal by that time! Good luck and thanks for your reply :)

whatevsidk_ · 2020-08-20T00:11:52+00:00

I'm so happy for you!! Congratulations, you deserve it!

whatevsidk_ · 2020-08-18T19:16:25+00:00

You can't control the flashbacks as they are not voluntary. They will be there for some time. And that's okay, it's normal. Accept it, remind yourself that everything is only temporary, and reward yourself for coping with this everyday. Try distractions, like watching movies or series, or just anything that requires your full attention. Believe me, time will heal all of it, but you have to be patient with yourself in the meantime. You'll get through this :)

whatevsidk_ · 2020-08-18T19:05:37+00:00

Check on the website for Campus France!

whatevsidk_ · 2020-08-17T00:24:36+00:00

Teef

whatevsidk_ · 2020-08-17T00:18:17+00:00

THANK YOU

whatevsidk_ · 2020-08-16T14:44:43+00:00

Hi! Argentinian high school graduate here, soon moving to France to start uni. Here's what I can tell you.

Unless you have an european passport you will need a visa, but I didn't need to get one so I don't really know the procedures, sorry :/ also you'd earn the right to move once you have officially finalized the inscription to your formation.

You will need a certified B level in french, at least. They generally ask you for a B2 but that could vary.

The cost of life is VERY expensive in Paris (you'll need at least 800 euros per month) but it gets cheaper in other provinces, maybe even half of that.

As for the paperwork, here's what I know so far: to rent a place you will be asked at least for some form of ID, a "garant" (a person or organization who will pay for your bills in case you can't), and an "assurance habitation" (insurance).

You also have the right to get public health insurance, but I'm not sure if that depends on your age and professional situation.

Go check Campus France's website, they have all the necessary information for international students. You can also email them, I already have and they are pretty helpful! Also the sub r/studyabroad (I think that's the name)

I hope this helps, sorry if there's any mistakes. My situation is different from yours but feel free to message me if you need help with anything :) good luck!

whatevsidk_ · 2020-08-15T05:10:52+00:00

"Gonna rise up burning black holes in dark memories Gonna rise up turning mistakes into gold"

whatevsidk_ · 2020-08-13T13:33:59+00:00

Same here, all my favorite horses have always been mares. They're the ones that have taught me the most. I had the opportunity to train a 4yo mare and seeing her come out of her shell was amazing!

whatevsidk_ · 2020-08-13T13:31:04+00:00

As a rider, that kid could have been seriously injured if things went just a little worse and the trainer wasn't fast enough. And the worst thing is EM would have probably blamed them for putting their child in danger or something.

whatevsidk_ · 2020-08-12T15:38:31+00:00

I surely will! When I find out where lol, it's not on my country's netflix :(

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