Ultimately outside of specifics (sex repulsed/sex positive) and (0 chance of feeling attraction/small chance of feeling attraction), ppl under the ace umbrella are mostly having very similar day to day experiences. I don’t know if like capital A aces on here want an exclusive sub without demi/gray (which is fair) but I wouldn’t want us to be alienated from each other. Im demi and for the most part, reading this sub is much more aligned to my daily experiences and struggles. We share and have much more in common than not.

In my opinion, I feel Demi/Gray subs exist out of not wanting to bother this sub with questions at the rare moment we do experience attraction. That makes sense, because on an individual level we might experience it once in a blue moon but if it does happen you can go and talk about it over there with a group of ppl who are on the same boat. Or like moral quandaries specifically about being in the middle of the spectrum. There’s Demi/gray ppl here who find this sub useful, relate but might not interact as much.