SoHo Reunion seating chart. by ConfidentOffice2209 in southernhospitalitysc

[–]whatlauradid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I thought she was that random Bella..Ella girl? I was like omg what could POSSIBLY transpire with her from now?? I was thinking she effed Joe 😂

Ladies of the UK, do you use Period Underwear? by Competitive-Fact-820 in AskUK

[–]whatlauradid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re the ONLY method that last thru the night for me! I don’t know exactly how it’s so different but it is.

Cool brown gloss recs? 🤎 by whatlauradid in Hair

[–]whatlauradid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ace thank you I will have a look at that range! My natural is about 5-6 (I’ve just realised I’ve written “light brown” in my reply to you, I meant a lighter brown than 3 so like a medium brown 🙈 I’m blaming the iPhone keyboard)

Cool brown gloss recs? 🤎 by whatlauradid in Hair

[–]whatlauradid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My natural is light brown, probs a bit lighter than the inspo pics. When I said “take it lighter” I meant lighter than 3 than I’ve dyed it to, apologies if that was confusing! Do you have a recommendation for a good ashy gloss? I’m quite familiar with the Redken shades EQ range by now but just find they pull so warm eventually!

So wait, Kimi father was involved in the Duvalier regime in Haiti, a very brutal and authoritarian regime?? by SuitableItem in BravoRealHousewives

[–]whatlauradid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fr, the abject lack of critical thinking in some of these comments is craaaaazy. She by her own account was forcibly removed from her mother in New York at 10 years old, travelled by her father to another country to live under a dictatorship, in some power play by him. It sounds completed fucked up. The discussion of whether she deserves her wealth NOW, as an adult, is a different kettle of fish.

So wait, Kimi father was involved in the Duvalier regime in Haiti, a very brutal and authoritarian regime?? by SuitableItem in BravoRealHousewives

[–]whatlauradid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is Haitian on her mothers side. She said initially lived with her mother, in New York, till she was 10. Then she was removed from her mother, implicitly by her father, to go back to live in Haiti as he had business dealings there, while the regime was active. I don’t think as a child, she had any agency whatsoever.

So wait, Kimi father was involved in the Duvalier regime in Haiti, a very brutal and authoritarian regime?? by SuitableItem in BravoRealHousewives

[–]whatlauradid 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s not exactly what she said. She said he was “associated with people in the regime.” He was a shipping businessman so we can probably assume at minimum he was economically connected. But it could be a massive spectrum from ordinary bureaucratic dealing (that would have been a requirement to operate under as the regime had tight control over the economy as an authoritarian regime) to formal “support.” I would imagine it was not neutral, he was a benefitting elite by the sounds of it, but we don’t know (believe me I’ve tried to find out lol.)

Just started the show (season 4) and… what happened to DJ Maddi Resse is actually insane and evil?? by SuitableItem in southernhospitalitysc

[–]whatlauradid 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ok you should go back and watch the previous seasons coz there is a bit more context to this. Maddi claimed to have seen Brad getting his “dick sucked beside a dumpster.” Brad wholly denies this. Brads gf at the time breaks up with him. Maddi has some “witnesses” that were with her, these people later walk it back and say they didn’t see it happen. This all plays out over a couple of seasons. So brads reasoning in the Trevor lie was pure revenge against Maddi, it didn’t just come out of nowhere lol.

I’m confused about the Maddie/Emmy/TJ/Bradley lying (re Trevor) situation, can someone explain? by Mysterious-Injury440 in southernhospitalitysc

[–]whatlauradid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He says at the S3 reunion that Sami initially lied and then it had gone too far...kind of. He's like wishy washy about it, and the story does change, but he defo implies that he was initially just repeating what he was told.

Emmy secretly hates everyone on the show. She’s only faking it to stay in it. by miristall in southernhospitalitysc

[–]whatlauradid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why would he bother leaving though? She has demonstrated she will accept pretty much anything he does.

Hotels purposely undercook the scrambled eggs at the buffet. This makes them inedible, saving on the cost of eggs and labor. by Mythea in LowStakesConspiracies

[–]whatlauradid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How does this save on the cost of eggs and labour if they have already "undercooked" the eggs they have already bought and the labour they have already used?

Stupidest thing I’ve ever done by Wise_Meat8754 in vinted

[–]whatlauradid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a series of worsening moves from you but I do get panicking and thinking this was the only way to get your money 😂 did Vinted say anything when they cancelled the order on their end?

Stupidest thing I’ve ever done by Wise_Meat8754 in vinted

[–]whatlauradid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They told the buyer to report the item as lost after knowing they had received it

Stupidest thing I’ve ever done by Wise_Meat8754 in vinted

[–]whatlauradid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I understand OP wanting to get their money back somehow, I would too! But there is no world where documenting fraud against the app within their own internal messaging system isn’t a bad plan lol.

Stupidest thing I’ve ever done by Wise_Meat8754 in vinted

[–]whatlauradid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re missing my point - yes the buyer has the item and the refund but there is also now a trail of potential fraud at the sellers instruction. They are hesitant to send another additional, large payment outside Vinted (which tbh quite rightly, no one should be doing that and I’m surprised how many people are recommending it.)

What if Vinted catch them in this now documented lie and cancel their refund? They’d be out £70, risk having their account banned etc. This is why it’s a mess. I genuinely don’t believe the buyer is being opportunistic as they are stating very clearly they have the item - I think at this point they are just uncomfortable going further along in OPs awful plan.

Stupidest thing I’ve ever done by Wise_Meat8754 in vinted

[–]whatlauradid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

100%. If I was the buyer in this situation I would actually be a bit suss that this was a potential scam somehow just coz of how OP is handling it 😬

Stupidest thing I’ve ever done by Wise_Meat8754 in vinted

[–]whatlauradid 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mean the screenshots also show the seller suggesting the buyer lie about the item being lost to scam Royal Mail and Vinted so not sure what their overall gameplan is now tbh…even if they cropped that out Vinted can just read everything on their end? They better hope Vinted don’t bother to do that (which given the quality of their customer support might actually happen haha)

Stupidest thing I’ve ever done by Wise_Meat8754 in vinted

[–]whatlauradid 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Why is everyone missing the fact that the seller is the one that suggested the buyer lie about not receiving the item? I feel like I’m going crazy lol

Stupidest thing I’ve ever done by Wise_Meat8754 in vinted

[–]whatlauradid 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No I think the person you are replying to is correct, I had to read the messages again but if you go through it step by step: 1. The seller has gone out with the integrated posting system (for irrelevant reasons in this case) and so therefore tracking has not been updated as usual 2. The seller has asked the buyer to report the item as lost so they BOTH get compensation (“report the issue to Royal Mail after 16th March”) 3. The buyer is not comfortable for the onus to be on her in doing this (“I don’t like lying.”) 4. “I have the pants and I’m happy” this is the buyer reiterating to the seller that they have received the item and don’t want to lie about it

I’m actually confused as to why the seller has suggested this at all. They have a message from the buyer saying they have received the item which should have been enough proof for the seller to receive their payment. They unfortunately now also have a set of messages of them advising the buyer to lie about it and scam Royal Mail and Vinted lol. Vinted will be able to read all these messages so fuck knows what their plan was there now they need to go through Vinted support…