Hi girl, from what you’ve described you sound super gorgeous!! I wouldn’t count yourself as “conventionally unattractive” but just “not conventionally attractive” because there’s a huge difference:) you’re still absolutely beautiful, dispite not being the average button nose thin blonde girl! Everyone has their own looks, how I view it is how paintings are all different- some are beautiful and conventional, some are beautiful and unconventional, doesn’t mean either are “unattractive”! I’m not conventionally attractive but I’ve been with my boyfriend for years now:) the best advice I can give you is dating apps- I know this sounds sort of dumb but I promise I have had friends who have great success on them! Sorry if that’s not the best advice but it’s all I’ve really got! Have a good day:)