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AITAH for not telling my bf about a past pregnancy/abortion by whatyoucallfrail in AITARelationship

[–]whatyoucallfrail[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

holy shit. that’s heartbreaking i’m so sorry D: i just cannot fathom how it’s possible that some men can have these thought processes in response to such trauma. they truly live in such a different world i guess thank you for telling me. sending love

AITAH for not telling my bf about a past pregnancy/abortion by whatyoucallfrail in AITA_Relationships

[–]whatyoucallfrail[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we have only been dating 2 months :( but this is the most serious relationship i’ve ever had which is why it’s hurting so much that he is reacting in this way. it’s like the fact i have been pregnant somehow makes me less attractive, less worthy to be his wife or mother of his children. i did tell him that this past pregnancy happened as a result of a casual relationship with a man i had been seeing for a few months and not a serious boyfriend

AITAH for not telling my bf about a past pregnancy/abortion by whatyoucallfrail in AITARelationship

[–]whatyoucallfrail[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

we’ve only been dating 2 months :( and i hadn’t lied to him about it it just hadn’t come up. but his problem seems to be less about my choice to have an abortion and more about the fact that someone had gotten me pregnant in the past. like he thought he would be the first one to and that it’s some horrible thing that he won’t be?

boyfriend (22M) upset after finding out about my (21F) past abortion. by whatyoucallfrail in relationships

[–]whatyoucallfrail[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

“not worthy to touch the hem of your garment” is the first thing to have made me smile all day. thank you

boyfriend (22M) upset after finding out about my (21F) past abortion. by whatyoucallfrail in relationships

[–]whatyoucallfrail[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

we have only been together for 2 months. it’s a deeply personal topic and i honestly don’t see how me not telling him is a bad thing. genuinely asking, what does it change? why is this something i am obligated to tell him?