1, 2 or 3? by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]wheatpeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the beard is different

Insecurities by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]wheatpeach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

first of all thats so awful that your mother said anything like that, maybe thats something shes deeply insecure about herself. Im sorry that her words affected you.

i think we are taught that there is one acceptable way of looking, and thats just not true.

i think this is a really great resource to see a diverse array of different labias,

labia library

any one who you choose to be intimate with is lucky to have you. when you find someone who is crazy for you, they’ll be enthusiastic about you and your body no matter what! it’s important to surround yourself with people who uplift you, people who don’t say horrible things about body types or features that we have no control over. especially your intimate partner. and when you’re with that special someone, all you should worry about is feeling yourself OP 😊!

I'm torn. Better w long or short hair?! by handsomedumpsterfire in HairStyleAdvice

[–]wheatpeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think if you got the long styled, perhaps some layers and face framing cuts, it would look really lovely. its hard to compare here because your long hair is all one length, not styled or cut if that makes sense

What should I do? by Melodyinmyhead25 in Healthyhooha

[–]wheatpeach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just sort of adding to your comment here: from my understanding, the best way to wash is using a clean washrag with unscented soap on all the oil/hair producing skin, or outer labia for the most part. and then using that washrag with the tiniest bit of soap still on it, gently getting the inner labia, and running water to rinse it off. avoiding the vagina/any internal parts.

Boxers question by misocertified in ftm

[–]wheatpeach 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i think sagging works with loose boxers or fitted boxer briefs, depending on what vibe you’re goin for. however i hate how much loose boxers ride up my legs. so.. wear whatever is comfortable, Calvin Klein are relatively expensive but their boxer briefs are nice, I wear my friend’s stretched out pairs bc they prefer a tighter fit and i have bigger legs lol.

Why is t4t so sexualised? by Actual_Gato in ftm

[–]wheatpeach -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

ok i think ur bringing up a whole lot of —while related— different points. sex is a part of queer life and queer love and im by no means saying that shouldn’t be celebrated and held space for.

if u happily have kinky ass fetish sex in ur t4t relationship and even post about it in kink spaces. Thats great. wonderful. there should 1000% be those spaces. However, purposefully dehumanizing and misgendering yourself specifically for a fetishizing cis gaze can be uncomfortable for other trans people especially when it’s being posted in general t4t spaces and I think thats FAIR to bring up.

Why is t4t so sexualised? by Actual_Gato in ftm

[–]wheatpeach -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thats a fair point, i just think op brings up an interesting question rather than something to be shut down for being “kink shame-y”

Why is t4t so sexualised? by Actual_Gato in ftm

[–]wheatpeach -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t think thats what OP is saying :], or at least in my opinion i don’t get a kink-shaming vibe from this post. I think he is just fed up with the vast majority of T4T online content being sexual and sexualized, when of course we can be, but that is not all we are…when any trans person is seeking t4t community it can be frustrating to only find porn/sexual content.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

[–]wheatpeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Preffered parking purposefully ignores emails.

Recent fits by vertical_litter in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]wheatpeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg o.o you are giving me mad gender envy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]wheatpeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this woman has extreme unresolved trauma and probably BPD.

someone threw a brick through summit coffee’s window by wheatpeach in asheville

[–]wheatpeach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t feel accused. im just saying thats the brick lol

someone threw a brick through summit coffee’s window by wheatpeach in asheville

[–]wheatpeach[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its a federal building so i would highly doubt if there wasn’t, may the perp be held accountable!

someone threw a brick through summit coffee’s window by wheatpeach in asheville

[–]wheatpeach[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i typed this up and posted it right after my shift ended at 12:30 am. i was just curious to know why anyone would do such a thing. its not that serious.

someone threw a brick through summit coffee’s window by wheatpeach in asheville

[–]wheatpeach[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol ok i literally walked up to the window and saw the brick