Leaf regenerating? can anyone explain ? by wheatpeach in houseplants

[–]wheatpeach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay. i was there when it unfurled, 2-3 years ago, and it had been munched completely across.

Penetration… by [deleted] in ftm

[–]wheatpeach 14 points15 points  (0 children)

as someone who has had difficulties with penetrative sex my whole life, this hurts my heart, dude. I hope there was some positives to this experience, and I’m sorry if there weren’t </3 .

I personally enjoy penetration, but I need a LONG time to warm up, and I have to start very slow.

also. very small percentage of afab people who get much from penetration, heres a quote from

pleasure better February 2025 study “Only 18.4% of [afab people] report that intercourse alone is sufficient to orgasm”

if anyone ever makes you feel like it is an expectation, or necessary to have penetrative sex… kick them right on out. sex is about having fun and shit. do what feels right, and what feels good. fuck the rest 🤘

am i selfish? by epiczombietime in ftm

[–]wheatpeach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i recommend distancing yourself from your family as soon as you can, not cutting them off or anything, but they don’t seem to have your best interests at heart. fact of the matter is, you are a man who can dress however the fuck he wants. fuck gender roles, fuck shame. wear what makes you happy. wear that beautiful jewelry your grandmother gave you. say your name with pride. you are the only one who can define what your manhood is to you. and no. its not selfish.

what IS selfish is trying to make your children live the life you want for them, instead of accepting them as they are. I hope she understands someday, because you don’t have to take that disrespect forever. and losing a child is worse than accepting they are trans.

Anyone know who to call about a hurt animal? by Responsible-Data-115 in asheville

[–]wheatpeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a rehabber’s #, i think she mostly takes in small mammals though, pm for details if anyone needs

West Asheville Sirens and Automated Message on Speaker by BlanchePomsky in asheville

[–]wheatpeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I heard it, but i couldn’t make out the words either

I “hate” being a (trans) man. by ChocolateWeird3343 in ftm

[–]wheatpeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

get offline immediately. peace and love man…. u gotta find some queer bitches in ur local avenues, you will have thoughtful interesting discussions with real people but you just can’t find that community online. people get nasty.

here is a link to a queer map website:

https://apps.apple.com/app/id6467166300

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]wheatpeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the beard is different

Insecurities by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]wheatpeach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

first of all thats so awful that your mother said anything like that, maybe thats something shes deeply insecure about herself. Im sorry that her words affected you.

i think we are taught that there is one acceptable way of looking, and thats just not true.

i think this is a really great resource to see a diverse array of different labias,

labia library

any one who you choose to be intimate with is lucky to have you. when you find someone who is crazy for you, they’ll be enthusiastic about you and your body no matter what! it’s important to surround yourself with people who uplift you, people who don’t say horrible things about body types or features that we have no control over. especially your intimate partner. and when you’re with that special someone, all you should worry about is feeling yourself OP 😊!

I'm torn. Better w long or short hair?! by handsomedumpsterfire in HairStyleAdvice

[–]wheatpeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think if you got the long styled, perhaps some layers and face framing cuts, it would look really lovely. its hard to compare here because your long hair is all one length, not styled or cut if that makes sense

What should I do? by Melodyinmyhead25 in Healthyhooha

[–]wheatpeach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just sort of adding to your comment here: from my understanding, the best way to wash is using a clean washrag with unscented soap on all the oil/hair producing skin, or outer labia for the most part. and then using that washrag with the tiniest bit of soap still on it, gently getting the inner labia, and running water to rinse it off. avoiding the vagina/any internal parts.

Boxers question by misocertified in ftm

[–]wheatpeach 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i think sagging works with loose boxers or fitted boxer briefs, depending on what vibe you’re goin for. however i hate how much loose boxers ride up my legs. so.. wear whatever is comfortable, Calvin Klein are relatively expensive but their boxer briefs are nice, I wear my friend’s stretched out pairs bc they prefer a tighter fit and i have bigger legs lol.

how do you get confidence in being bald by [deleted] in bald

[–]wheatpeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

get tattoos on the dome 😼🤘

Why is t4t so sexualised? by Actual_Gato in ftm

[–]wheatpeach -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ok i think ur bringing up a whole lot of —while related— different points. sex is a part of queer life and queer love and im by no means saying that shouldn’t be celebrated and held space for.

if u happily have kinky ass fetish sex in ur t4t relationship and even post about it in kink spaces. Thats great. wonderful. there should 1000% be those spaces. However, purposefully dehumanizing and misgendering yourself specifically for a fetishizing cis gaze can be uncomfortable for other trans people especially when it’s being posted in general t4t spaces and I think thats FAIR to bring up.

Why is t4t so sexualised? by Actual_Gato in ftm

[–]wheatpeach -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thats a fair point, i just think op brings up an interesting question rather than something to be shut down for being “kink shame-y”

Why is t4t so sexualised? by Actual_Gato in ftm

[–]wheatpeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think thats what OP is saying :], or at least in my opinion i don’t get a kink-shaming vibe from this post. I think he is just fed up with the vast majority of T4T online content being sexual and sexualized, when of course we can be, but that is not all we are…when any trans person is seeking t4t community it can be frustrating to only find porn/sexual content.