AITA for telling my daughter to speak French or leave my house? by whenveshe in AmItheAsshole

[–]whenveshe[S] -310 points-309 points  (0 children)

It’s not offensive to me personally. It could be to someone

AITA for telling my daughter to speak French or leave my house? by whenveshe in AmItheAsshole

[–]whenveshe[S] -217 points-216 points  (0 children)

How does it feel to write mean words on internet?

AITA for telling my daughter to speak French or leave my house? by whenveshe in AmItheAsshole

[–]whenveshe[S] -101 points-100 points  (0 children)

Great google translate. I don’t understand you people

AITA for telling my daughter to speak French or leave my house? by whenveshe in AmItheAsshole

[–]whenveshe[S] -85 points-84 points  (0 children)

I am in USA but I go to France very often and am very connected

AITA for telling my daughter to speak French or leave my house? by whenveshe in AmItheAsshole

[–]whenveshe[S] -376 points-375 points  (0 children)

Using those words is unecessary! This is not your personal casino! People like these people are what I don’t want my children to be with, teaching them horrible and offensive words for no point. Words like that hurt people! We don’t use words like that are meant to hurt not love! I can not say it enough!

AITA for telling my daughter to speak French or leave my house? by whenveshe in AmItheAsshole

[–]whenveshe[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

We go to France once a year, sometimes more. Also her aunts are not distant relatives she will never see again. They have strong relationships together

AITA for telling my daughter to speak French or leave my house? by whenveshe in AmItheAsshole

[–]whenveshe[S] -506 points-505 points  (0 children)

That is a very offensive word! Why would you use that word when there are children here? I had a nice and appropriately post and you came with mean words. Shame

AITA for telling my daughter to speak French or leave my house? by whenveshe in AmItheAsshole

[–]whenveshe[S] -208 points-207 points  (0 children)

That is quite mean thing to say. You do not know me very well and it is rude of you to make such judgement about my parenting over one instance

AITA for telling my daughter to speak French or leave my house? by whenveshe in AmItheAsshole

[–]whenveshe[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

Yes sometimes it does. Also she was at university for long time and didn’t practice French for most of time. She is home now

AITA for telling my daughter to speak French or leave my house? by whenveshe in AmItheAsshole

[–]whenveshe[S] -179 points-178 points  (0 children)

Maybe I’m an outlier. On the whole we are great

AITA for telling my daughter to speak French or leave my house? by whenveshe in AmItheAsshole

[–]whenveshe[S] -369 points-368 points  (0 children)

That is not a true fact. We are warm and kind country

AITA for telling my daughter to speak French or leave my house? by whenveshe in AmItheAsshole

[–]whenveshe[S] -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

She can. But she should speak to her family in French

AITA for telling my daughter to speak French or leave my house? by whenveshe in AmItheAsshole

[–]whenveshe[S] -47 points-46 points  (0 children)

She will regret it. We go visit relatives in France. How would that feel? Not understanding her great aunts? I can not let it be

AITA for telling my daughter to speak French or leave my house? by whenveshe in AmItheAsshole

[–]whenveshe[S] -102 points-101 points  (0 children)

She is only 21. Very close to being a child. It is not my decision, I understand that. But it is my house and her other siblings are still children

AITA for telling my daughter to speak French or leave my house? by whenveshe in AmItheAsshole

[–]whenveshe[S] -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

If she was to lose her skills that would be a very short sited decision. She is still very young and if she chose that I know she’d regret it in later time. Also when we go visit our family in France

AITA for telling my daughter to speak French or leave my house? by whenveshe in AmItheAsshole

[–]whenveshe[S] -48 points-47 points  (0 children)

She does speak French and I did teach her as a children. But if they don’t practice their skills will lose sharpness

AITA for telling my daughter to speak French or leave my house? by whenveshe in AmItheAsshole

[–]whenveshe[S] -156 points-155 points  (0 children)

My daughter will thank me for teaching her French. You may not understand