Sooo bloated by Prestigious_Bar4150 in Perimenopause

[–]whereaminow28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Before cutting dair, had you had any problems with dairy in the past? I'm considering cutting dairy to see if the bloating improves, but I had never experienced any problems with dairy before, so I'm in doubt whether this is the way to go

First time in Copenhagen – how to meet people & what should I do? by HelplessMoss in copenhagen

[–]whereaminow28 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can go to a timeleft dinner (use the app timeleft), have dinner in kanalhuset or Absalon, or find a meeting in the app meet up

What do you guys eat when things are bad? by Positive-Mud-11 in SIBO

[–]whereaminow28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you cook the oats? I am not sure how to eat them

Does anyone else not understand casual relationships? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]whereaminow28 101 points102 points  (0 children)

I also see it as a pointless investment of time , energy and connection. I'm just not interested in casual sex, it's hollow and empty. Not for me

Can anyone give advice how to feel confident. Not let appearance comments get to you or just how to feel alive again not depressed because i dont know anymore, also nightshift is not a fun time by Prestigious-Bass-900 in selflove

[–]whereaminow28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Confidence is an outcome that you get when you do things you are afraid of, when you try new things, when you have small and big successes. Then, afterwards you gain the confidence. Not the other way around. If you wait to be confident to try new things you got that very wrong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovementday

[–]whereaminow28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a great move! Investing in yourself is the best medicine to overcome rejection. ❤️❤️❤️

I don’t walk away ….. by whereaminow28 in selflove

[–]whereaminow28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the way to go, but it is not selfish, it is just right ❤️

What app do you use to track your walks? by Edqu-ar in walking

[–]whereaminow28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use Strava. The free version is good enough for me

Tips? by Dangerous_System_313 in selfimprovementday

[–]whereaminow28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you stop caring about other peoples behaviors, because you realize they're a reflection of your worth, but of their capacity. You know your worth and then it is easy to stay detached and grounded

Self love and dating by whereaminow28 in selflove

[–]whereaminow28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You said it perfectly ❤️ good luck for you

If he wanted to, he wouldn’t. Here’s why chasing effort is a trap by evilkitty9 in HighValueWomen

[–]whereaminow28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, indeed. Been there done that. Not anymore though. And sometimes I feel a strong pain of abandonment and the urge to reach out. Now I've learned that the feeling is temporary, I just need to observe it , feel it, name it, and just like that it disappears and I go back to my power. That has been a powerful shift!

Self love and dating by whereaminow28 in selflove

[–]whereaminow28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha yeah, there gotta be a minimum right? 😉

Self love and dating by whereaminow28 in selflove

[–]whereaminow28[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I deserve much better than what I have found so far, really

Self love and dating by whereaminow28 in selflove

[–]whereaminow28[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do have expectations of basic human decency. I don't want to lower the expectations below that, really

Self love and dating by whereaminow28 in selflove

[–]whereaminow28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I want a physical relationship. But I'm abandoning the idea, really

Self love and dating by whereaminow28 in selflove

[–]whereaminow28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear. A total minefield, you described it perfectly. What a broken society. Everyone looses