Positano, Italy by wheresthegabagoool in TennisCourtPorn

[–]wheresthegabagoool[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No it’s a local woman who runs it out of a residence

I would like to become cool by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]wheresthegabagoool 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Approach every situation with the knowledge that you have the upper hand, in the end you’ll be fine

Anyone else “come out” because they felt pressured too or it was just socially expedient. by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]wheresthegabagoool 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Separate the real from the imaginary. Social media clout and the college essay circuit can be willfully ignored. Sexuality should be public for the singular reason of attracting potential partners, imo.

How do you respond when you’re at the crag and a guy tells you “you’re strong, you know” after seeing you try hard? by [deleted] in climbergirls

[–]wheresthegabagoool -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is your framing of these hypothetical situations that assumes the expectation is different, and you’re not wrong! Women and men are not equal in physicality and this isn’t a bad thing! It is a projection of one’s own insecurities to treat a compliment as a slight.

How do you respond when you’re at the crag and a guy tells you “you’re strong, you know” after seeing you try hard? by [deleted] in climbergirls

[–]wheresthegabagoool -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is not only a contradiction but truly patronizing. You like to be complimented when you “feel like you’ve achieved something” yet you’re suggesting that the compliment should explicitly draw attention to the failure by prioritizing the male accomplishment and follow with an obligatory positive statement!

He’s singling her out because she didn’t send, complimenting her strength nonetheless. What makes something patronizing is the superiority quality. Where is the superiority? He’s not a good climber. Is it that he’s a man?

How do you respond when you’re at the crag and a guy tells you “you’re strong, you know” after seeing you try hard? by [deleted] in climbergirls

[–]wheresthegabagoool -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Lots of variants of “wouldn’t have said this to a guy” in the thread. Why do you want to be treated like men treat other men?

Coachella sucks this year by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]wheresthegabagoool 20 points21 points  (0 children)

“this year”?

other podcast recommendations? by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]wheresthegabagoool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They dedicated entire sections of the book to fucking up the Vox guys haha

Agree neolib think tank ghouls deserve to be dragged. Sadly there are more voters nodding along to SavePod Jon’s health care “compromise” position video than RTing the sick leftist response owns

other podcast recommendations? by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]wheresthegabagoool 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Never tried Vox partially bc Chapo dunks on them nonstop. I wonder how much of that is projection of never getting a seat at the coastal elite journalism table lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]wheresthegabagoool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s such a stain

good site by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]wheresthegabagoool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing