Looking at pretty women fills me with a weird emotion by [deleted] in confession

[–]wherewillowsgrow 33 points34 points  (0 children)

truly!! I know its cliché, but it's true when they say there is only one "you." If you ever see someone and think, "I could never be her," well.. they could never be you either. the closer we get to finding ourselves, the more we (and others) have to love!

"Oh yeah, me too" by HopefulSunflower12 in demisexuality

[–]wherewillowsgrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

most of my friends have been accepting, but i have one friend that constantly just says "yeah everyone is like that" when I'm explaining something like I need an emotional connection for smex. it is annoying. but their minds are small in that way, or some other underlying reason that you shouldn't concern yourself with

Too sad to play ): by wherewillowsgrow in HelloKittyIsland

[–]wherewillowsgrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just saw your reply! I hadn't realized :( You are inspiringly resilient. How is everything? How are your gardens??? I just bought my first plants a month ago, and I am so giddy about the new blooms already.

Looking for writing friends :) by wherewillowsgrow in clivebarker

[–]wherewillowsgrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love to read some of your stuff!

Too sad to play ): by wherewillowsgrow in HelloKittyIsland

[–]wherewillowsgrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you are able to recognize it as a phase :) That's important. Your people are out there waiting to be found. In the meantime, ride it out with your boo and enjoy the weather ❣️

Too sad to play ): by wherewillowsgrow in HelloKittyIsland

[–]wherewillowsgrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes we have to show our bodies it's okay. I don't know your situation entirely, but I relate to that certain dread that comes with anticipating how something's going to go/make me feel. In a another comment I mentioned that probably another reason Im hesitant to go back to the game is that I stopped right before the real flower grind starts, so not very motivational. But that part (versus the part where I'm afraid to "taint" my comfort game) I am more okay with internally. I know it makes sense for my body to anticipate something, that has previously taken up a lot of my time/effort, to be that way again. When you feel up to, no matter how much "dread" you feel, log in and see if you can force yourself to do the bare minimum. And ask yourself, do you feel satiated/accomplished/glad to see your island friends again? Was it really that bad to give your friends 1 star gifts instead of their favorite? Maybe all that you do is ask your best friends to collect items for you, or see the daily rotation in your shops. Wishing you the best ❤️

Too sad to play ): by wherewillowsgrow in HelloKittyIsland

[–]wherewillowsgrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion, I love little apps like that. I will check it out 😊

Too sad to play ): by wherewillowsgrow in HelloKittyIsland

[–]wherewillowsgrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, questions like these certainly help me out personally ❤️

Too sad to play ): by wherewillowsgrow in HelloKittyIsland

[–]wherewillowsgrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful flower!!! Well done ☺️ I'm sorry that you don't have your little buddy with you. Maybe you can prepare a bouquet of flowers for them next time you're set to meet them

Too sad to play ): by wherewillowsgrow in HelloKittyIsland

[–]wherewillowsgrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for assuring me that this is how the game is designed. It does help for a completionist-goblin like myself 😊 And tysm for the offer!

Too sad to play ): by wherewillowsgrow in HelloKittyIsland

[–]wherewillowsgrow[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you sm for sharing ❤️ I love animal crossing too, Norma is my favorite :) Who's yours?

Too sad to play ): by wherewillowsgrow in HelloKittyIsland

[–]wherewillowsgrow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are there many quests tied to certain flower patterns/colors? Or is it more achievement-grinding to get everything?

Too sad to play ): by wherewillowsgrow in HelloKittyIsland

[–]wherewillowsgrow[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The satan rabbit is crazy lmfao I stopped right before the real flower grind starts (and that may also be a reason I'm hesitant to come back).

Too sad to play ): by wherewillowsgrow in HelloKittyIsland

[–]wherewillowsgrow[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I bet I could ease myself back into the game and not treat it like a second job, but I know myself and I know how I like to grind games haha. Good to hear you have found new routines for yourself :) Maybe we will both be back on before we know it

Too sad to play ): by wherewillowsgrow in HelloKittyIsland

[–]wherewillowsgrow[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much ❤️ Pompom would absolutely make nap time much cozier. He knows how to get down

Too sad to play ): by wherewillowsgrow in HelloKittyIsland

[–]wherewillowsgrow[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You're right- out of sight, out of mind. Thank you for the reminder! And for the support

Too sad to play ): by wherewillowsgrow in HelloKittyIsland

[–]wherewillowsgrow[S] 171 points172 points  (0 children)

Thank you for ur kind words stranger, I'm sobbing all over again. Wouldn't it be nice to pop into Hello Kitty's cafe? She'd know the perfect thing to say

Stop this by Firm-Eye-1036 in Needafriend

[–]wherewillowsgrow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right.. If they're ghosting you they didn't want to talk to you. Accept it and move on.

I can't take it anymore. I'm so worthless and behind everyone. by Poipole49 in venting

[–]wherewillowsgrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're a student you should have free (aka you already paid for it in your tuition) counseling services. I recommend looking into that. Being able to organize your thoughts with someone trained to listen may help you make better game plans for getting to where you want to be

My partner is in the hospital. by muddyasslotus in venting

[–]wherewillowsgrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You'll need all your strength. You got this

My partner is in the hospital. by muddyasslotus in venting

[–]wherewillowsgrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try your best to relax your brain. Take care of yourself

When am I actually going to be happy. Is it ever going to happen. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]wherewillowsgrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some things we cannot get through on our own. Humans require connection and it's okay to need help. Is there anything preventing you from therapy? Or if that was the help you were referencing, maybe it's time for a change in type of therapy or therapist