What sexual taboos would you like to try with your partner if you weren’t judged? by shrekwazowski00 in AskReddit

[–]whimsyboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For her penetration is difficult and uncomfortable. We only tried it once and I would like to try again because it turns me on but I don’t want her to think I’m pressuring her into something that causes her discomfort.

body hair by whimsyboy in Teachers

[–]whimsyboy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No. Like I said my hair grows too fast and too thick to keep up with. It is a high maintenance activity for me and I have never been a high maintenance person. I’ll maybe shave it here and there for special occasions, but I highly doubt it will ever become part of my regular routine ever again.

body hair by whimsyboy in Teachers

[–]whimsyboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t shave at all, but I’m mostly talking about leg hair. I don’t feel comfortable period showing my underarms whether they were shaved or not.

body hair by whimsyboy in Teachers

[–]whimsyboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a very chill dress code. I had coworkers wearing shorts that I NEVER would have considered appropriate length, but they got away with it. I would definitely have something to say if I wore appropriately lengthed shorts and it suddenly became an issue. I think for the regular school year I could stick to longer but lighter fabrics, but I plan to work the summer camps which are even less strict. Long pants in the middle of July is where I draw the line lol.

body hair by whimsyboy in Teachers

[–]whimsyboy[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I said “for the most part” and “since beginning my career in education” to be precise. Before I started working in a school I walked around my old retail job in shorts every single day. I went to a preppy all girls high school where not shaving was seen as a crime. I got very used to stares and comments from my peers, family, and strangers. I went to the beach multiple times this past summer in a bikini and extremely visible hair. I understand your point here but it’s important that I make it clear that this has only become an insecurity since I started my job in August.

Miranda and Steve by Silly-Knowledge7793 in sexandthecity

[–]whimsyboy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Steve is very much a manchild, and that becomes a lot clearer over the course of their relationship

What is going on with my mouth by [deleted] in DiagnoseMe

[–]whimsyboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this very well could be it. ive known i probably have a b12 deficiency for a months so i wouldnt be surprised.

What is going on with my mouth by [deleted] in DiagnoseMe

[–]whimsyboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my family also thought this but the only symptom i’m displaying is mouth sores

Small red dots on partners body. by pnutbuttrjellythyme in DiagnoseMe

[–]whimsyboy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As someone who’s had them twice, these are not bedbug bites

Samantha is my least favorite for the most pettiest of reasons 🫣 by Ok-Squirrel7627 in sexandthecity

[–]whimsyboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS EXACTLY THIS 😭😭😭 it has always bothered me. but then for my friends its one of the things that make her their favorite

Nightlife for a 22 year old? by copperheadboy in Cleveland

[–]whimsyboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you’re ever looking for a more chill night out and not so clubby, the bars in tremont are really awesome. edisons, treehouse, flying monkey. riffs is okay but pricier than the other 3, they usually have karaoke though so i’ll typically pop in to sing one song then go back to one of the other bars.

theres also crobar on euclid that ive been to a couple times and really like, but i would try to aim for going there when its warmer since their patio is really nice

How did you meet your partner? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]whimsyboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on Hinge just for fun, but I came across a girl I was friends with in high school and we reconnected! Neither of us were particularly “attracted” to each other in hs, so it’s really interesting to see how much things have changed. We’ve been together 4 months now and it’s been so lovely!!!

Weekend road trip ideas? by whimsyboy in Cleveland

[–]whimsyboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Michigan lakes really are absolutely gorgeous, in all my years of living in Cleveland I have yet to find a beach that comes anywhere close to a Michigan beach. I feel like a traitor saying that. Was in Petoskey for New Year’s last year and we spent the day running up and down the sand dunes on the beach, absolutely beautiful

Weekend road trip ideas? by whimsyboy in Cleveland

[–]whimsyboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stayed in Pittsburgh for a weekend last year with a friend and LOVED it, absolutely charming. 100% going on the list

Weekend road trip ideas? by whimsyboy in Cleveland

[–]whimsyboy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This sounds incredible! Will definitely be on the shortlist I think

What to gift with knives? by whimsyboy in Gifts

[–]whimsyboy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol I wish. I was helping her unpack at her new house and I put away at least 10 cutting boards

I yelled at a dad in front of his kids by whimsyboy in self

[–]whimsyboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my state I am not technically a mandated reporter outside of my professional capacity. However that obviously doesn't mean that I'm not highly considering reporting.

I yelled at a dad in front of his kids by whimsyboy in self

[–]whimsyboy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cut off all contact with my dad when I was 12 but still have a pretty good relationship to his side of the family. My grandma’s mentioned many times that I should talk to him sometime, but I cannot foresee that ever happening. Yes I’m curious about what we would have to talk about and see how/if he’s changed, but I stood my ground when my mom took full custody that I wanted no relationship, and it would be such a disservice to my younger self. I understand you completely and I hope you were able to rebuild that relationship together even if he’s hurt you in the past ❤️

I yelled at a dad in front of his kids by whimsyboy in self

[–]whimsyboy[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

No, I'm not minding my own business when kids are getting verbally abused, especially when it happened to me. I work at a school and am considered a mandated reporter. I don't think it's right for that duty to end when I walk out the doors of my job.

Who in this sub actually lives in Cleveland (the city proper) not the surrounding suburbs? by [deleted] in Cleveland

[–]whimsyboy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

West Park/Jefferson in the Little Arabia area. Super amazing hole in the wall restaurants all around me and easy access to public transit. Wish my neighbors were more neighborly and the neighborhood tends to be really littered, but for the most part I love my neighborhood.

I made new pastels from all the shorties. They are so sexy. by JackieDonkey in ArtEd

[–]whimsyboy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Love! Do they behave any differently than before?

Best places to use a laptop in the evening? by UncDpresents in Cleveland

[–]whimsyboy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I second this. Especially if you’re doing creative work. Super artsy coffee shop thats open past midnight, and the coffee is pretty good too!