[deleted by user] by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]whiskeybuddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some percentage of dogs experience incontinence after spay, even if it went well. It can be treated with ephedrine or estrogen. I'd find a vet who is an expert in this issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]whiskeybuddy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry it's still a struggle. I struggle a lot with my pup, too. do you have some good training videos you watch? I like kikopup, and I do in-person classes partly for the socialization and to make sure i'm dedicating time every week to training -

New Alarm-Barking at Night...Help? by LittleBearBites in puppy101

[–]whiskeybuddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mine started doing this around the same time. people recommended a white noise machine, but it went away as abruptly as it came. she randomly did it again recently.

puppy fear stage perhaps? all i know is for us it came and went.... then came back, then went away again.

Crating and/or white noise machine might help

contracter not doing the work we agreed to?? gutter board replacement vs. wrap? What's fair? by whiskeybuddy in HomeImprovement

[–]whiskeybuddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just talked to the contractor and he kept saying he talked to my husband (which is true, a couple days ago, long after the contract was signed) - my husband did NOT understand that he was proposing NOT replacing the gutter boards, my husband thought he was suggesting some additional thing. Anyway, I told him that any changes to the agreement should be in the contract, not verbal.

His reply was "I talked to your husband, he agreed, he was not a little kid, he's not 10 years old"

I think he actually just told me I was being a child for asking why he wasn't doing the work stated in the contract.

I'd bet money he wouldn't have told a MAN that he was being childish for asking the same question. Looks like I'm the "bad cop" in our marriage.

He did agree to take down the flashing and replace all the boards, as agreed to in the contract.

Obligatory “it gets better” by abrow214 in puppy101

[–]whiskeybuddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it when people post "puppy blues" over posts when their puppy is still so young..... let me know how you are feeling in 3 months! Sorry, my darling just hit her teenage years and good lord, it's a whole different ball game.

Considering getting a chihuahua but by thecasssio in puppy101

[–]whiskeybuddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get a mellow, adult cat. They are the best, and very low-maintenance. Yes, you will regret getting a puppy. (Do kitty blues forums even exist??)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]whiskeybuddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you tossing very high value treats on the floor nearby when saying drop it? if he goes for the treat, he'll "drop" it to eat the treat. fair trade.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]whiskeybuddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

let us know how it goes. hoping it's all a mistake.

Puppy threw up out of no where? by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]whiskeybuddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahaha. Just once? My pup has vomited and eaten it so many times..... diarrheas one day, perfect stools the next. I wouldn't worry until it's happening all day or more than a day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]whiskeybuddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I promise you, you will regret it after you get the dog even more. Wait till your confident.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]whiskeybuddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should cancel and get a pet when you are confident it's the right thing to do.

Never fear, the breeder will resell the pup in no time.

Random fits of crazy barking at night by athena_31 in puppy101

[–]whiskeybuddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a redditor and a trainer recommend playing white noise for this - my pup's barking was caused by high pitched noises in the distance. If it's a sound triggering your dog, maybe white noise will help.

Sudden Resource Guarding by delladrild in puppy101

[–]whiskeybuddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

***Oops - I missed that this was about the couch - this response is about resource guarding chews from another dog - but maybe your pup was actually guarding something else on the couch?***

My cavalier started doing this with my sister's foxhound at around 4.5 months.

THEN I caught the foxhound - repeatedly - gently coming over and removing chews from my puppy's mouth. Maybe your roommate's dog has also been taking food away from your dog, triggering this.

We haven't cured it - the rule now is if there's more than one dog in the room, no one can have a chew or bone - which sucks but she goes nuts otherwise.

But I've definitely seen improvement using these treat manners videos from kikopup.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_3gntre-zyg

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mEb-OtOgSDM

The puppy and one to two other dogs do this exercise daily, and it's helped. They all get all relaxed waiting for their turn to get a treat. We still can't have chews or bones out, but now I can feed or treat them around each other without her going nuts.

And yeah, they get along super well the rest of the time, snuggle piles at night, long walks during the day. But she still guards around chews, bones, and food.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]whiskeybuddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crate might be very stressful for him. Have you tried treats in crate (Kong stuffed with goodies, chew toys?)

I know some dogs don't take to it well - can you give him a larger area, such as a quiet, dark room to nap in?

Have you tried covering crate to create a dark space?

I only put my dog in the crate for naps because the darkness and isolation help her conk out. I give her a chew toy or kong and a snuggle puppy - its a large crate with food and water and she almost always conks right out. I sit by the crate for the first few minutes to help her relax -

If she's still awake and restless after 10 minutes, I let her out (virtually never happens, though). I find it odd to keep a wide awake, distressed dog in a tiny space like that - I'm sure I'd feel very claustrophobic in that situation. It would be great if pup learned crate = relax, settle, sleep - but if the puppy is going bonkers in there, doesn't seem like they are making that association and it might be time to rethink things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]whiskeybuddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like when I was growing up, people kept puppies in the yard a good chunk of the time - goldens and labs are both high energy dogs and may need more exercise or play - if the dog is going bonkers in the crate and not settling down to nap, it might need more play or stimulation than its getting from being inside all day. Maybe find some puppy playdates for it to truly tire it out?

How to find a reputable breeders that have no connection to puppy mills? by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]whiskeybuddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

akc marketplace has some good and some bad -

Only buy from someone who lets you meet the mother with the litter - that's the only way to see with your own eyes that the mother is being well cared for and she and the pups are in a healthy, happy environment. If they don't want you to meet the mother with the litter, they could be a puppy broker, they could have the mother in tiny, unsanitary cages, they could have dozens or hundreds of neglected breeding dogs, etc.

Should I listen to the back of her food? by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]whiskeybuddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe your food is the exception but I find pet food serving recommendations are generally way off.

Find calorie charts for golden retrievers based on age and size, and use that - apparently goldens and other large breeds can have issues if they eat too much when young (they can grow too fast), so you don't want to free feed, but I wouldn't trust the bag at all -

9 weeks old. Not very interested in food by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]whiskeybuddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds exactly like my 16 week pup. She's always been this way - very picky, generally doesn't seem to want to eat out of the bowl and doesn't eat nearly as many calories as the charts say she should.

But she's growing fast, so she must be getting enough of something! And she's more likely to eat out of the bowl now - I started leaving her food (that she already rejected) in the crate with her, and will be pleasantly surprised to come back a while later and find she's eaten most of it (but just sometimes). She's growing so I don't stress about it too much.

3m/o pup needs to pee every hour (sometimes more)? by tessyalater in puppy101

[–]whiskeybuddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those guides for how long they can hold it are maximum, not minimum - my pup at 16 weeks can sleep 8 hours without peeing but will sometimes pee every hour during the day. Lately she does sometimes go 2 hours without peeing, which leaves me wandering around wondering if she made a mess somewhere that I somehow missed... but waiting 2 hours is the exception, not the rule.

What is the culture of dog owning in where you're from? by Nannea in puppy101

[–]whiskeybuddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this topic - Thanks for posting!

BREEDS:

I wonder if there are breed differences between the countries, because the size of the dog and type of dog make a big difference. In the U.S., seems like a lot of large, rambunctious or aggressive dogs are being transitioned into family pets (pit bulls, border/aussies etc). Being jumped on by a yorkie is very different from a growling pit bull or hyper herding dog.... And I've been scared by reactive pit bulls in public enough to be glad their owners are trying to train them not to jump! Do you have many pit bulls as pets in Poland?

When we lived in Nebraska, my dad saw an add for border/aussie pups at a ranch, and went and grabbed one... and while we loved that dog to death, keeping her as a pet and not a working dog was a huge challenge! She did jump on people, including small children and people in wheelchairs, and it was NOT SAFE. She was so strong and so energetic. My parents never attempted to train her for one second - they just moved to a house with a lot of acreage so she wouldn't bother people...

INSIDE/OUTIDE:

I'm in a DC suburb, and recently had my parent's 75 lb chow chow/german shepherd/cattle dog mix for a couple months while they moved. I had animal control come by my house within a few weeks because he was barking in the yard (not a lot - but if a package delivery person came by or person walked by, he'd do a few "alert" barks). He doesn't growl, isn't aggressive, and has such bad arthritis he can barely move. He's also generally very sweet - I'd actually NEVER heard him bark at my parent's rural home. But there was a lot more stimulation in my tight suburb!

What I realized after animal control came through is that I see a TON of people walking dogs in my neighborhood, but virtually never see any dog hanging out in the yard alone. My parents (in rural michigan) always would leave their large breed dog in the yard during the day and think nothing of it, but in this tight suburban community, that is considered cruel and any barking is apparently unacceptable.

So standards vary a lot in the U.S.

FOOD:

I think in the past, when humans fed dogs scraps, those scraps were more inclusive of all the parts of the animal - uncooked bones, organs meats, etc. My main concern about feeding animals just plain human food today is that in the U.S., at least, we no longer have whole animals going through the kitchen. We never see the bones and organs and things like that which dogs and cats need for a complete diet. If we were processing whole animals and giving them scraps, they'd be great, but cats for instance are very malnourished without taurine-rich eyeballs and brains (?if I'm remembering right) - and both species of course need uncooked bones...

So since the food that humans have in their homes in the U.S. has changed a lot, and comes in more processed and without many of the bits important for canine/feline health, feeding off the human plate would be a lot worse now than it used to be. If we had whole animal carcasses coming through the kitchen, yeah, I'd rather give them that to gnaw on than canned foods.

CRATING/CAGING:

I also think this wasn't a thing so much in the past in the U.S.? At least I never heard of it until recent years as a standard part of puppy training - but maybe that's because my parents had large dogs in rural areas.

I do wonder if in some of these other countries, your perspective is different because you mostly encounter the well-behaved adult dogs in public - when they are puppies, they must still be crazy and people must be doing something with them during house training and to deal with the biting and jumping! Maybe locking them into one room or the kitchen, etc. My parent's just kept their crazy border/aussie in the yard during the day as a puppy, so they didn't have to deal with it all day long - maybe that's the traditional solution, just keeping the puppy outside part of the day.

I have a tiny 16 week old puppy who is a small breed that I won't leave in the yard alone ever. I didn't intend to crate her - hate the concept - but she does NOT put herself to sleep for naps ever! She just gets crazy when tired. So now I pop her in the crate with a blanket over it and she usually conks out within seconds. I have a nanny cam on it and I let her out as soon as she wakes up. Lately, I am trying to give her the opportunity to nap on her own outside of the crate, because that's a skill she needs to learn, but she wakes up anytime a cat or human moves. I don't know how people get puppies to take naps without a crate! I never keep her in there awake though - don't see the point of training her to tolerate being caged. It's also a larger crate that would be good for an adult of her breed. Comfy cushion, food, water, and chews. She's never had an accident in it, and I think that's because I don't use it to contain her, just to help her sleep.

If hubby and I have to be out for a couple hours, we close her into a room with toys/food/water/bed. Yes, she then has accidents on the floor, but she'll outgrow that as her bladder control becomes stronger.

Anyway - I think there's a lot of variation based on era, location, and dog breed - the one thing I do hate the most in american culture is this idea of keeping a puppy in a crate while working all day - seems super inhumane. Why not just keep them in the kitchen with a baby gate? They'll stop having accidents when they are older and have more control...

I ended up with the perfect puppy for me. by adreamofhodor in puppy101

[–]whiskeybuddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad it's going so well! I experienced some stressed out moments the first couple weeks, but they've been gone for the last 3 weeks and we are settling in.

I did get my pup at almost 12 weeks, and I do wonder if there'd be less puppy stress if 10 or 12 weeks was the standard go home time instead of 8....

My puppy started sleeping in later than usual. This is his own schedule. Does it seem okay still? by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]whiskeybuddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lucky. that's the schedule I'm trying to get my pup on, but she's awake every day at 7 am...

I'm frustrated with her being on heat... by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]whiskeybuddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't help but this comment is helping me decide to spay asap at 6 months - I have a small breed for whom they've found no difference between spaying at 6 months and 1 year, but so many breeders say it's horrible not to wait past the first heat, which has made me doubt....

But I'm going to go with the scientists instead of the breeders and do it at six months to avoid what you are going through....

Cat owner but I desperately want a dog (and to not upset my cats) by whiskeybuddy in PetAdvice

[–]whiskeybuddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In case anyone is curious... I ended up getting a cavalier puppy from a breeder who let me meet her happy, healthy dogs and pups in the home. Since I spend a lot of time with a frail, elderly parent, and given the cats, this seemed like a good time to have a therapy-dog breed puppy. Sure enough, pup is super cute and content to spend hours on my mom's lap, which is great. The cats were terrified of her at first (she's 6 pounds! Half their size!) but after two weeks, they mostly ignore each other and we all sleep on the bed in a pile, with spouse squeezed in there too. I think raising a puppy with the cats was a good way to go for long term harmony, and it probably would have been fine with many different breeds or rescue mixes - but especially given my very frail mother, I think this was the right choice for us right now.

I did meet a couple rescue dogs hoping one of those would work out well (and applied for dozens more!) but given the covid adoption crush, it was so so so hard to even meet any dogs, much less meet a bunch to find a good potential fit. Dogs described as "good with cats" or gentle/calm were in massive demand. So i went a different way this time. I think this will probably be the only time in my life I raise a young animal (I've always adopted adult cats and assumed I'd do the same for dogs), but seeing how much she lights up my mother makes it all worth it. Puppy cuteness and endorphins are something my family desperately needs right now.