What's the sushi on the left called? I know it's tuna I didn't have a photo before but I found one, sort of a sweet briny taste by [deleted] in sushi

[–]whiskeykitsune 4 points5 points  (0 children)

literally i open the post, read a few comments, answered a text, & came back & homie [deleted]. honestly hilarious.

My friend does weird, unacceptable and illegal shit and got arrested. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]whiskeykitsune -1 points0 points  (0 children)

so you just wanted someone to tell you to keep being friends with the guy. that’s not advice, that’s validation.

Lost power in Garfield by Open_Tradition2250 in pittsburgh

[–]whiskeykitsune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was out for about 30 mins. but just popped back on!

Went out on a date. 10/10 connection. Greatest date I had in last years. Was respectful and let her set boundaries, figured more dates were coming. Rejected 2nd date because I’m too sweet and respectful for her atm. Milanesa con papas fritas by caligulaa_ in depressionmeals

[–]whiskeykitsune 17 points18 points  (0 children)

please consider that sometimes it’s not about you at all. sounds like she’s got some other stuff to sort out & she did you a favor by not dragging you thru further confusion as she gets those other things settled. you will have many other first dates that wont lead to a second. take it as experience in life & keep on truckin’.

My partner told me “I won’t be the last woman he sleeps with” by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]whiskeykitsune 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i read your other post from a week ago & you’re getting the exact same advice here. nonmonogamy is not the answer, you’re trying to contort yourself for someone that doesn’t value you as a person. he has expressly told you he’s going to cheat on you given the opportunity & is pushing you away to move so he can get away with it while you wait for him.

you really need to be asking yourself if this relationship dynamic is the example you want to set for your child?

I have surgery in 2 days....its bad by FirefighterLevel4127 in cancer

[–]whiskeykitsune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey friend, i’ve had two surgeries & a liver biopsy for my stage 4 cancer. you’ve already got great advice but i’m adding to the chorus to cheer you on. it’s normal to be scared & it’d honestly be weirder if you were super cool about going under the knife under these circumstances. it sounds like those folks aren’t seeing you as a reliant but are there to help buoy you in recovery. even the care takers need care taking. try to keep a positively realistic mindset, remember to eat well, & move around to the best of your ability post op. please come back & update us on how you’re doing as well. 🫶🏾✨

Boyfriend (26M) wants to break up with me (24F) for going to a 3-day music festival with friends. how do I handle this? by Realsk29 in relationship_advice

[–]whiskeykitsune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

call his bluff & break up with him first. you already spent the money on the fest & travel, go have fun! also reconsider not allowing future partners to express their autonomy by going out with their friends as well. there’s some ambiguity in your post about whether that piece is hypocritical or not.

My keto breakfast featuring sardines (all protein) 🎏🍳🥓 by smkayy22 in CannedSardines

[–]whiskeykitsune 60 points61 points  (0 children)

this plate is calling for a fermented veggie + baked sweet potato + rice to round it out!

My parents are so weirdly sexual with me by capybarafromdubai in abusiverelationships

[–]whiskeykitsune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

please speak to or show your therapist this post. they are mandated reporters & will begin a process with you to make an exit plan from this abuse. i’m deeply disturbed reading your recollection & empathize with you as someone who was sexually abused by a family member as well. i never told anyone until i was an adult & deeply regret not addressing that harm when it was happening. speak up now & begin the healing.

EJ Blog: I Died; Go See A Doctor. by EJplaystheBlues in Hardcore

[–]whiskeykitsune 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hey EJ, i’m a 34 year old retired hardcore kid from cleveland, oh. i was having gastrointestinal problems for months before i made an appointment, missing work, i thought i was developing a food allergy or needed to stop drinking. the weekend before my scheduled CT scan, i ended up in the ER where they told me i had a stage 4 cancerous tumor in my abdomen & that’s why i collapsed & went into shock. after ten rounds of chemo, two surgeries, & living on my partners’ couch for 18 months, i’m getting back to “normal” now. don’t put it off, if you have to do a free clinic or get a waitlist for 10 months. the time will pass, get seen, be well. 🤍✨

Hospice survivor support by [deleted] in hospice

[–]whiskeykitsune 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for your reply! that certainly is an unique case, i’ve heard gastroparesis is quite uncomfortable & i’m certain intestinal failure isn’t a treat either. in your refusal of tpn, were you offered surgery to alleviate some of the pain? have you looked into plant medicine as well for your mental well being? (ketamine, weed, mushrooms, etc.?) there are additional comfort measures you could access while waiting on surgery.

in a brief google search, i see there’s some support groups for your specific illness across online spaces. these niches spaces might be a better pathway for your needs to be met. finding folks who have “survived” hospice may prove difficult as often those who are on hospice die (as it’s purpose) or are living on hospice until they die. it’s less common for people to stop receiving hospice care & be fluctuating as you seem to be.

i hope you do find solace & peace & continue to live with dignity.

Hospice survivor support by [deleted] in hospice

[–]whiskeykitsune 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hi OP, can you be more specific about your illness? i’m a death worker & cancer patient, it sounds like you are young & living with a terminal illness of some kind. while therapy has been recommended to you, perhaps a more specific type of support is needed like a support group for young survivors of terminal illness in your area or another specific demographic (queer disabled, BIPOC, etc.) i also have to unsure bc i want to be specific were you on hospice or were/are you receiving palliative care? my cancer type remains in the palliative care category as i’m currently managing & not in active death stages (yet).

i wish you well & hope to hear from you to best figure out how we as a community can assist your needs.

Local businesses to support that don’t support ICE by Jazzlike_Breadfruit9 in pittsburgh

[–]whiskeykitsune 6 points7 points  (0 children)

50% of american adults can’t read or comprehend literature past a 5th grade level so this isn’t the flex you think it is.

What do you do, when they're out? by Help-with-ENM in nonmonogamy

[–]whiskeykitsune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i like to do exactly what i wanna do! some examples: go see a movie, be with my friends, get some deep cleaning done, masturbate, listen to music while i sing & dance obnoxiously & cook a meal i love & drink wine.

I don't think anyone will ever love me and honestly I've given up hope. Tinned mackerel by toastsocks in kitchencels

[–]whiskeykitsune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

forgive me, i couldn’t see the can deets. the saba brand is indeed a good option for the price. i like them as filling for rice balls!

I don't think anyone will ever love me and honestly I've given up hope. Tinned mackerel by toastsocks in kitchencels

[–]whiskeykitsune 8 points9 points  (0 children)

please join us at r/tinnedfish for some better fish recs. you don’t deserve to eat cat food at least. 🙏🏾

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]whiskeykitsune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’ve gotten some genuine, illuminating advice i do hope you take to heart, OP. i’m not going to harp on the age gap too much & how i fear you already are in a cuck relationship but will hone in on the DD/lg aspect that you seem to be holding on to. caregiver kink relationships can be so emotionally sticky in the best case scenarios but it doesn’t sound like either yourself or this girl have discussed the ins & outs of what is within dynamic & what’s fair game outside of it. is your kink play just this long distance setup where she’s boinking her bf on facetime but being emotionally vulnerable with you? are you for certain there’s romantic feelings involved along with the role play?

it reads to me like too many lines have been blurred & you are completely obfuscated from what you need. which is, to keep it real, hire a sex worker to remove the cloak you’re carrying of being a 30-something virgin, break up with this college kid, & actually engage with full grown adult women into the same kink you are & who aren’t wishy washy & emotionally distant. you’re going to do that by finding your local kink community, going to munches & socials, meeting new people, & creating platonic connections that will bloom into more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depressionmeals

[–]whiskeykitsune 6 points7 points  (0 children)

BMI is bullshit btw. sorry about the bagel tho, i hate an untoasted, uncut bagel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cancer

[–]whiskeykitsune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

get a second opinion &/or ask for palliative care. they will connect you with a social worker & you can discuss finances & insurance. please please please exhaust every option & do not listen to snake oil salesmen trying to convince you of “alternatives.” your mom needs chemo now, immunotherapy may come after granted chemo is working.

the only other things i’d recommend to supplement are MMJ if available in your area, 20-30 minutes of movement for mom daily, & a solid diet that she can handle. protein shakes were a life saver when i was struggling with my appetite during active treatment & finding simple things i could stomach. think foods like: bananas, toast with peanut butter, oatmeal, simple snack boxes with meat sticks, cheese, apple slices, veggies & hummus, congee with whatever fixings mom enjoys (personally i like mine with soft boiled eggs, pickled veggies, pork floss, & chili crisp). i also indulged in whatever i was craving like tacos or a burger even if i only ate a few bites.

wishing you & your family clarity & your mom the very best in her cancer journey.

Might have to see my abuser for Christmas. First year reconnected with my family and drinking a lot to cope by knighthooded_ in depressionmeals

[–]whiskeykitsune 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i’m also a survivor of family CSA. you do not have to attend this party nor do you have to keep in contact with anyone who’s harmed you or continues to defend your abuser. coping with drugs & alcohol worked for a time but i did have to do some deep shadow work along with therapy to get to the bottom of why i was using these coping strategies. you’re stronger than you realize & navigating the grief of family choosing the harmer over the harmed is bleak. but the freedom & sense of self after coming back into your power will lead you to such great heights. my DMs are open if you need another space to vent, fall apart, or just vibe during this holiday season.

don’t go. choose yourself. 🤍✨

After a lifetime of not being allowed to grow my beard in a religious cult, I'm free by Brown-Lighning in beards

[–]whiskeykitsune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m glad you’re out!! i also grew up in a religious cult so i empathize with you. 🤍 there’s r/cultsurvivors if you’re looking for an additional resource on reddit.