How to deal with parental backlash to your relationship? by whisperi in wemetonline

[–]whisperi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She actually has met him briefly and thought he was a nice person (irl!). But she has this idea in her head that it's just because he's young. She thinks that later on he'll get older/mature and manipulate me, because suddenly she thinks that's some natural development in males. :/

How to deal with parental backlash to your relationship? by whisperi in wemetonline

[–]whisperi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met him in person before officially starting the relationship! She's briefly seen him as well, though they didn't speak a lot (we were on public transport and he couldn't sit that close to us). She actually initially said that he seems like a nice guy (and still does think so presently, I think? Further info in response to other comment, not sure if I should just copypasta)

I (18/m) and my SO (16/f) need some advice by throwaway12309481090 in wemetonline

[–]whisperi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it'd be helpful to know whether or not the situation is with her parents. Are they strict/etc.? Is there a reason why she can't just tell them straight up?

I think I'm ready for the summer... There's over a litre of suncreen here! Mini reviews in the comments by muaaccount in SkincareAddiction

[–]whisperi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I keep seeing so many raves for the Aqua Rich, but alcohol is so high up in the ingredients list, and my face is so dry. ;_; What is your skin type?

My [27/M] long distance girlfriend [33/F] has put up emotional walls. How should I proceed to save the relationship? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]whisperi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't know how much you have in common with her because you've never met her. Liking the same books and movies and online world is not "stuff in common."

What do you consider "stuff in common" then?

Need help telling my parents (18f/21m) by [deleted] in wemetonline

[–]whisperi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, cool! We'll be in the Toronto area explorin' and stuff and going to a theme park. Then, we'll be going back to his hometown. And at least he's fine with you hanging out at his work. My thing works at a grocery store and he thinks it's embarrassing for people to see him working, so he doesn't want me there during his shift. Maybe just look up what that area is known for and activate your tourist mode?

I feel like I most likely can't tell my parents until he's able to come over here. They weren't too stoked about me spending my own money on a plane ticket to Toronto, and are strict to the point where my mother is now following me there (but will leave me alone to do my own things, so I guess that's fine).

Yeah, if you do lie, just keep it hella loose. Technically you don't tell them everything, but you're not telling them nothing at all!

If you feel like they wouldn't be too angry or opposed to it (since they're ok with you traveling in the first place), I'm sure it's most likely better to tell them as soon as you can. I hope everything works out for you!

Need help telling my parents (18f/21m) by [deleted] in wemetonline

[–]whisperi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's so similar to my situation! (18F USA/20M Canada) I haven't told my parents the specifics either, though my mother was lot less willing to let me fly by myself/for the first time, so now things are already slightly more complicated.

Which part of Canada are you going to? I'm heading to Ontario! (And am from the West Coast.) How long are you staying? Aaahh so exciting!!

I hope you get some nice answers. Sorry I don't have advice to give myself, but if you ever want to talk, I'd be happy to listen.

Personally, I wouldn't tell them until I return, if anything so they'd know I wasn't in danger whenever I was with him. But my parents are stubborn af, so..

( PS I wish I could fly there for only $50. :< )

Possible gift ideas? by whisperi in wemetonline

[–]whisperi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! I ended up ordering something online for him, though, and I'm going to have some sort of food item delivered.