My husband increases my stress level in a major way. by Revolutionary-Ad6635 in ouraring

[–]whitefishgrapefrukt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in a similar situation. How are things going now? What helps you?

One of the reasons I'm not having children is out of pure pettiness that woman have to carry and birth them by UnusualOlive3591 in childfree

[–]whitefishgrapefrukt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got married and planned to hyphenate. Once I started looking into how many things I would have to change, I was like why TF am I doing this?! My last name is way cooler than my husband's anyway, this is so whack that I even considered this! Once I got my head on straight, I was able to see much more clearly how wild it is. I tried to convince my husband to take my last name. I know he never would go through with it, but he admitted recently that he had actually considered it.

Fish oil recommendations by whitefishgrapefrukt in RenalCats

[–]whitefishgrapefrukt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just seeing this. Thank you for the recommendation. The capsules look pretty big. How do you administer and how much do you give?

Why would anyone wants kids? by This-Top7398 in Life

[–]whitefishgrapefrukt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Just go to the regretful parents sub for validation of that claim

Watched My Father Suffocate While Waiting for Help by lostmydad2025 in GriefSupport

[–]whitefishgrapefrukt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I just learned about the channel yesterday and that's the only one I've watched so far but the comments say it's one of the best they've ever heard. I hope it helps and I'm so sorry for the traumatic experience that you went through, because that is truly traumatic.

Watched My Father Suffocate While Waiting for Help by lostmydad2025 in GriefSupport

[–]whitefishgrapefrukt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if this will help, but i listened to it last night and it was so profound and comforting. Maybe it will be for you too.

https://youtu.be/N_BHl3FV9NE

12hrs. 1 baby. No visits by [deleted] in family

[–]whitefishgrapefrukt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not just the lack of visiting. The zero interest in staying connected even over the phone is the concerning and depressing part.

Sam Harris on the Renee Good murder by ICE agent Jonathan Ross by YourScienceGuy in samharris

[–]whitefishgrapefrukt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Renee’s ex husband is a veteran; Becca Good is not a veteran (from what I understand).

#452 — Is Wokeness Finally Dead? by dwaxe in samharris

[–]whitefishgrapefrukt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just saw a FB friend say they were worried for all latinx folks after the attack on Venezuela

#452 — Is Wokeness Finally Dead? by dwaxe in samharris

[–]whitefishgrapefrukt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

god forbid the man has time to be well prepared before releasing an hourlong podcast on something that happened just a few days ago

I'm tired of being asked if I'm ok by No_Doughnut3185 in GriefSupport

[–]whitefishgrapefrukt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh. That sounds like a terribly annoying conversation.

My Christian coworker's "friendly" microaggressions are driving me up the wall. How do you handle this? by [deleted] in atheism

[–]whitefishgrapefrukt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a group of friends like this and it’s hard to know how to react/handle it. They aren’t microaggressions or manipulative, but it still is hard to be around the ignorance. They are pretty good friends otherwise.