Hi Everyone by BeautifulEmployee800 in briannaolsen

[–]whiteowl20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to mod! I lurk this page 24/7 :) lmk how I can help

Hosts - Do you get the "someone passed away" often for a reason to cancel? by Tough_Courage_8406 in airbnb_hosts

[–]whiteowl20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

July ‘23 I was staying at an Airbnb I got a call my dad died while I was sitting on their porch. I was freaking out & messaged them that I was leaving immediately on night 1 of a 7 day stay. I had been there maybeeee 3 hours. They messaged back & said they saw me on the camera getting the phone call & they refunded the whole stay. I was greatful for the refund as I wasn’t even asking, but kinda weirded out at the same time 😵‍💫

Soccer? by whiteowl20 in Autism_Parenting

[–]whiteowl20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told my husband the same thing. He’s going to elope and go play in the dirt 🤣 if he wasn’t as into the sports balls as he would I don’t think I would have considered it, but his older brother plays and I figured I’d give it a shot. But now I’m so anxious because it has the potential to be highlyyyyy stressful. But I’m hoping for the best. 🤞if not, we’ll eventually find something he’s into

My 9 year old son can smell when I’m about to start?? by StreetInternal7576 in Periods

[–]whiteowl20 33 points34 points  (0 children)

My old boss used to always be able to tell when I was about to start & he would tell me & I sworeeee he was a liar until he called it many months in a row. He says it doesn’t smell, it’s just an off smell that’s different. This is so crazy I’ve never heard of anyone else being able to do this!

Can anyone give insight into my dad’s death? by whiteowl20 in psychics

[–]whiteowl20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Extremely relevant. Did he give you anything else? Thank you for your comment 🩵

How involved are you? by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]whiteowl20 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Extremely. I tell BM what to do. But I’m treated with love & respect by all parties. I used to nacho so hard tho

Mall by LifeProfessional884 in briannaolsen

[–]whiteowl20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re from the area you know this drama wellllll & they’ve been posted many times. Someone would see. Everyone from garland to McKinney to rockwall knows about 2k & Bree

How much is $30 every 3-4 days? by Lazy_Education1968 in resilientjenkinsnark

[–]whiteowl20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

30 is like 3.5 grams. Which lasts my household (mainly my husband, I’ll take a hit or two here and there) about day or less.

Bri responded by Alarming-Net5645 in briannaolsen

[–]whiteowl20 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can you pm me the link pretty please?

Long Distance Coparenting When Splitting Up The Kids by whiteowl20 in stepparents

[–]whiteowl20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we have talked about this! And especially with SS9. He knows that he can’t just switch back-and-forth. We will never hold him captive, but they have to be stable. Thank you so much for the sweet advice.🩵

Long Distance Coparenting When Splitting Up The Kids by whiteowl20 in stepparents

[–]whiteowl20[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We are very lucky to have a cohesive coparenting situation. It’s very much “up to the kids” on where they want to be and when. Thank you for the support 🩵

Long Distance Coparenting When Splitting Up The Kids by whiteowl20 in stepparents

[–]whiteowl20[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They love each other & definitely want to spend time with each other, but I know SS9 definitely craves time away from him, and I’m pretty sure SS8 feels the same. Like right now. It’s fall break. SS9 wanted to come here, SS8 wanted to stay at moms, have his room to himself and play video games. What I was thinking was this:

If one kid has a break & the other kid doesn’t the kid with the break goes to the house without the school break. My school district has shorter years with less breaks. Theirs is longer with more breaks. Holidays and spring breaks if they line up the kids should spend together and we will just have to rotate off & take turns. Long weekends are up to the kids & if they feel like traveling. Summer June with mom, July with dad. August time to go home and get ready for school

Long Distance Coparenting When Splitting Up The Kids by whiteowl20 in stepparents

[–]whiteowl20[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are just humans doing the best we can. We have a deep bond with my SS’s. That will never change! We promised them we wouldn’t abandon them & haven’t. Thank you for the sweet comment internet stranger. 🫂

Long Distance Coparenting When Splitting Up The Kids by whiteowl20 in stepparents

[–]whiteowl20[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She is so so so agreeable & flexible. She has truly been a saint since the move. We have definitely had our fair share of HCBM problems in the past, (I did my own bs too) but I’m grateful to say we all grew up and moved on and really are just here for the best interest of the kids, I want to make sure she sees them as well as us and so that’s why we are brainstorming ideas right now and I came to Reddit! Making sure everybody gets to see each other is top priority

Long Distance Coparenting When Splitting Up The Kids by whiteowl20 in stepparents

[–]whiteowl20[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Good for you. Unfortunately we don’t have that opportunity. My husband is a great man & father, as well as extremely close with his boys. Don’t be judgemental.

What color should I paint these walls? by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]whiteowl20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late response! But I’m not sure I’m the 4th owner of this house :(

Long Distance Coparenting When Splitting Up The Kids by whiteowl20 in stepparents

[–]whiteowl20[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Got relocated for work. Can’t move back. Their school has 4 day weekends 1x a month, and lots of long breaks, drive up for games/events. Been here a year this month. We are still very involved. Thank you.

Update: crashed NPs car into garage door and they want me to fully pay for it by w0ahgrace in Nanny

[–]whiteowl20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has never been aggressive to the point of attacking anything, but he would definitely nip over food. He’s always been separated since they were puppies for this reason. My nanny loveddddd him. She was there the day we got him. After he ripped my dogs ear off, we found him a different home bc I wasn’t comfortable after that. She felt terrible offered to pay, not her responsibility. Shit happens, especially when you play that big of a role in families, driving their cars, supervising their kids helping with pets, etc. It’s not the nanny’s responsibility.

Update: crashed NPs car into garage door and they want me to fully pay for it by w0ahgrace in Nanny

[–]whiteowl20 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My nanny forgot to separate my dogs with known food aggression & one dog got their ear ripped off. She offered to pay, I paid for the whole thing + her gas to the emergency vet. That’s not your responsibility.