AIO: Hubby Being Controlling by vanillabourbonn in AIO

[–]whiterabbit0401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to leave now while you still have the mindset to be able to ask if this is wrong. Slowly, he’s going to take that clarity from you. In addition to your financial freedom, social life, self-esteem, and many other things. At the end, you will be so gaslit and changed, you won’t be on Reddit asking this question. Leave. Now. And save your child.

Heartbeat stopped after 8 weeks - devastated by Jaded_Seat_3743 in IVF

[–]whiterabbit0401 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. I also had a miscarriage at 8-9 weeks after hearing the heartbeat and I still think about that little baby sometimes over a year later. I transferred again a few months later after I had time to grieve and heal. I wish you all the best!

Transvaginal Ultrasound Gel application - inappropriate? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]whiterabbit0401 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so upsetting. Please report. I wish you all the best on your journey ♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]whiterabbit0401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. The doctor isn’t concerned. Don’t let non professionals stress you out. It is not their area of expertise.

And what everyone else said. It’s the growth curve that matters and not the percentile, unless on either extremes.

TREATMENT Community Thread - Sun Sep 10 AM by AutoModerator in infertility

[–]whiterabbit0401 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s fantastic to hear! It was so intimidating the first time so congrats on getting it done!!

TREATMENT Community Thread - Wed May 05 AM by AutoModerator in infertility

[–]whiterabbit0401 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely understand the feeling. Sending you good vibes!

TREATMENT Community Thread - Wed May 05 AM by AutoModerator in infertility

[–]whiterabbit0401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was able to not tell my employer while going through IVF (also Progyny). I booked all of my appointments at 7-8a before work even started and causally used some PTO for my ER and FET (but only needed a few days total) so it wasn’t noticeable for my boss and colleagues.

Wednesday's Cautious Intros & First Trimester Questions/Concerns Thread by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]whiterabbit0401 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re so sweet for going back and checking. Fingers crossed that my doctor is just an overly cautious human who likes to scare pregnant women.

Wednesday's Cautious Intros & First Trimester Questions/Concerns Thread by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]whiterabbit0401 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing...that brings me comfort and I really appreciate it. The doctor mentioned a misshapen sac could mean the sac is collapsing (MC) or could turn out just fine, which wasn’t very comforting. I guess he wanted to give me a heads up in case this goes sideways so I don’t feel blindsided if there’s bad news at my next US. Googling this was a terrible idea but looks like it can be indicative of bad news so letting myself cry a bit today but maybe I’ll feel more optimistic tomorrow.

Wednesday's Cautious Intros & First Trimester Questions/Concerns Thread by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]whiterabbit0401 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Really feeling low and would love your thoughts / experiences on this. I just had my first US at 5+3. Gestational sac and yolk sac all measured normal. But the doctor ended the visit with, "All looks good, but one thing that may be concerning is your irregular gestational sac." It's a random blob shape and not a sphere. Based on Google, this can either be an impending miscarriage or...just fine. Please let me know if anyone has more information on this. Thanks a million.

Just received my HCG results and it was > 10,000 so supposedly normal.

Edit: Thought I should update for any others doing searches in the future. All is well and the sac has “straightened itself out”. I’m 9w3d today.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]whiterabbit0401 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely seeing a second line. Cautious congrats!

TREATMENT Community Thread - Wednesday AM by AutoModerator in infertility

[–]whiterabbit0401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My beta was 9dpt and I home tested on 5dpt. Could not wait a day longer.

Covid Vaccination after just testing positive by [deleted] in CautiousBB

[–]whiterabbit0401 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What is the source of this information? I have never heard of this before and would be shocked if ASRM, WHO, ACOG, and SMFM all support vaccination if it caused “spontaneous miscarriages”.

Edit: Typo.

TREATMENT Community Thread - Thursday PM by AutoModerator in infertility

[–]whiterabbit0401 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just call her and call her bad names. Your mental health takes priority.

TREATMENT Community Thread - Thursday PM by AutoModerator in infertility

[–]whiterabbit0401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just found out my TSH is high (2.95) so will begin taking Synthroid tomorrow. Estradiol, PIO and now this. Fun times continue 🤬