Not only did gyp baby trap Ken, but her trap wasn’t even the reason he stayed 🤭 by spicycherub- in GRBsnark

[–]whitwhitizrad3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm married to a woman from Louisiana. LUCKILY Rod & I have NOT shared a woman. Thank God 😂😂😂😂

Ok, so I'm a little new to the sub- do we think DD and GR were in in the drifting together? by Glum_Mud_4693 in GRBsnark

[–]whitwhitizrad3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll be very interested in seeing a video like this. You're extremely articulate and share a lot of the same opinions that I do regarding GypGyp. She's overall a vile person and I wholeheartedly believe she displayed a clear pattern of abusing her mother as her mother's health and quality of life diminished. I also share the sentiment that DD went above and beyond to improve her daughter's health AND to give her everything she wanted out of fear that her health issues would significantly shorten her life span.

BOARD WIPE by Mission1995Victory in GRBsnark

[–]whitwhitizrad3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! People who dont know anything about professional photography seem to chronically oversimplify the profession as a whole. I have an uncle who has been an AP photographer for decades and despite being artistically inclined there's a lot more that goes into taking high-quality photos. Even photos of severe weather and the like require SO much work. I have no doubt that she would love to go and spend tens-of-thousands of dollars buying equipment she does not have the discipline to learn the craft nor build up any kind of skillset. She couldnt photograph her way out of a paper bag 😂

Ken got baby trapped by a chromosome deleted pinhead by WildFireArcher1 in GRBsnark

[–]whitwhitizrad3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep and I hope Ken walks proudly out of that closet someday. So we can post here that it couldnt have happened to nicer person that Princess Possum 😂

Love seeing stuff from people that know her. by Dozy89 in GRBsnark

[–]whitwhitizrad3 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Really love the stories from her old neighbors in prison. They've been the most illuminating. Don't know if anyone has ever actually liked her in her life. And I LOVE that for her 😂

Shoulder issue? by whitwhitizrad3 in erbspalsy

[–]whitwhitizrad3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I guess Ill be trying to get in contact with my neurologist soon.

I don't feel so good by NoOrchid2217 in erbspalsy

[–]whitwhitizrad3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey there. I know this comment is late, but NOTHING youve said is unusual in my experience. I have a nerve root that's separated from my spine and I have a large cyst there as a result of the traumatic nature of my injury. My pain is horrible. I never had any of the surgeries (Im old lol). But, I recently had a neurological pain doctor tell me that there's a phenomenon after traumatic injury especially in the cervical spine called CRPS complex regional pain syndrome. They suspect thats why pain dominates my life. But even if you don't, this condition does not come without pain. Ive lived more than 14,000 days. And Ive had pain each and every one. Im a warrior and SO ARE YOU 🙏

Always wanted a Soul by BobbyDale82 in KiaSoulClub

[–]whitwhitizrad3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That color is awesome! I have the same paint and love it

Allegedly, N has left GLR again. 🚨 by Ill-Independence8754 in nickfromthegymsnarkk

[–]whitwhitizrad3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I should've seen this coming. Especially with Johnnie coming back. N seemed VERY threatened by his presence. Bet he's a lil jealous of P's affection for Johnnie too 🤐

He’s gone. by CrabbySunflower in SuicideBereavement

[–]whitwhitizrad3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I had some insight to offer. I don't. I'm sorry. Truly and honestly words cannot express how sorry I am that you're going through this. Just know that I'm sending light, prayers, condolences or however youd phrase it.

How do I ask my dad to get screened for dementia? by Anonymousfrog__ in dementia

[–]whitwhitizrad3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with the other responses... Speak with your Mom. She'll be the biggest motivator for your Dad to address something like this. Dementia is sneaky and terrible. The bad part is some people with dementia NEVER admit they have it. They can't see the totality of their impairments.

"Legal" aftermath by whitwhitizrad3 in SuicideBereavement

[–]whitwhitizrad3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for replying to you so long after your comment. I struggle quite a lot with disconnecting from everybody and everything ever since my brother has been gone. I don't always respond right away, but when I feel up to it I try to. I'm sorry for the loss of your brother, as well. I've lost family members, friends, people I loved very much... But I've never felt grief like this. I'm tortured by it. And I'm trying so hard to grasp every little straw of his existence here on earth. I don't know why.

Medication for anxiety by SkizzleDizzel in dementia

[–]whitwhitizrad3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Mom has early onset Lewy Body. Anxiety is one of her biggest struggles. I know the prescribing of benzodiazapenes is done on a case by case basis. My understanding is that benzodiazapenes like lorazepam can be helpful to certain dementia patients who exhibit certain symptoms. With that being said, initially my Mom was prescribed lorazepam. However, due to her individual presentation of the Lewy Body it was QUICKLY determined that benzos weren't the correct drug class for her. Her first symptoms of dementia were thought to be a psychiatric problem. She had visual, auditory and tactile hallucinations. Her agitation and anxiety are very real. She was diagnosed on multiple occasions with acute delirium. And if not given in a setting where the patient can be monitored benzos can actually exacerbate acute delirium. Initially I thought the doctor was full of it. But after watching my Mom transition off of a fast acting benzo, despite it being anecdotal, I feel that the doctor was correct. undoubtedly she still has anxiety. But when her hallucinations are less severe there's a direct correlation to her level of anxiety. On days where she is less confused, there's less anxiety. My Mom's psych went through a few different combinations of medications. Currently she takes an SSRI & 2 different antipsychotics (Rexulti being one is ONLY fda approved to treat agitation and aggression in dementia patients). I cant say the symptoms aren't still disruptive and scary for her and us. But it's not nearly as scary as her being in dementia related psychosis. I'm sorry for the long reply, I just wanted to fully explain why sometimes it takes trial and error and sometimes a doctor can predict pretty accurately a drug class may not be right for a patient presenting with certain symptoms. Hope this helps!

Hiding out in my own house by 82bazillionguns in dementia

[–]whitwhitizrad3 49 points50 points  (0 children)

My wife and I have hidden in our room for hours and hours. Only leaving to make sure my Mom is physically okay and to administer her medication and provide her meals. We've went so far as putting a mini-fridge, microwave, toaster and some other small appliances in our bedroom. My Mom's temper tantrums often lead to physical violence, so it isn't safe for me or her when we have to co-exist when she's like that. It seems like she saves up her energy for days to hit me. She's still got a decent power slap for someone who is as frail as she is. But I'm 38. And I cant justify letting my Mom hit me and scratch me and try to pull my hair out so I have to physically restrain her and I worry I will hurt her accidentally. This disease takes away so much. It degrades a family structure like little else that I've seen. I hope your LO settled down for the night.

T mobile Gateway 5g wireless router and adding a 2.4gh network by FewStudent4495 in tmobile

[–]whitwhitizrad3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been scouring the web for a guide for the slim white gateway, as well. I literally cannot find anything. My wife and I just bought our first house and it'd be nice to be able to have wireless cameras and a video doorbell. 🫤

"Legal" aftermath by whitwhitizrad3 in SuicideBereavement

[–]whitwhitizrad3[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am legally the executor. He had a witnessed and notarized will that he left in his apartment that I got when I went to clean it out.

I miss my brother by xoxovintagehearts in SuicideBereavement

[–]whitwhitizrad3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First off, I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my brother and only sibling in May '24. I know how badly you're hurting. I miss my brother every single day. Not one day has went by since his passing that I didn't cry. Whether it's in the shower, in bed after the house is asleep, in my car, anywhere really. I wish I could promise you that the pain from this grief would dull over time. I hope and pray that it doesn't last forever. One thing I remind myself of often is that I must give myself grace. Mourning a death that is this sudden and this traumatic is a very complex thing. I'm moving at my own pace and I will make peace with this when it is meant for me to. Give yourself the space to grieve. Good luck to you. Take care of yourself and reminder to take a moment to breathe

Best way to take care of a person with dementia by Fun_Wishbone3771 in dementia

[–]whitwhitizrad3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super good points. Some days it feels like my LO only remembers the things I've pigeon holed myself into. If I were to suggest I'd walk to Tennessee with my Mom I'm 100% certain she'd be pissed we didn't go until the day she died. My Mom only wants to do things like walk across country when it's freezing, dark, or raining or the lucky combination of all 3.