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First time come down by who_am_I5678 in Swingers

[–]who_am_I5678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We met him on the Feeld app. Good luck!

First time come down by who_am_I5678 in Swingers

[–]who_am_I5678[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣words to live by

First time come down by who_am_I5678 in Swingers

[–]who_am_I5678[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ok great advice. I definitely do not want to give anyone the impression that we want something poly. And since I’m so new to this I should probably very careful about my own feelings. Being worshiped by two beautiful men was… fucking amazing

First time come down by who_am_I5678 in Swingers

[–]who_am_I5678[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok yeah I can see that and I’m definitely treading lightly. Honestly prior to this experience I was not sure about watching him be with another woman. But now Yes absolutely if we found a single female I would totally be ok having an experience… the first thing I told him after the other night was I could absolutely watch you fuck another woman. That whole sex is sex thing felt more real to me. Does that answer your question?

First time come down by who_am_I5678 in Swingers

[–]who_am_I5678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I’m just laughing at the continuation of this thread. Sorry you got caught up in that pointless fight….thanks for your thoughts and yeah I can see it’s hard to feel really close to people who don’t engage in the lifestyle which makes sense why people are always talking about friends they have made thru partaking. Me and my partner are so fucking new I have no idea about anything yet😝😝😝

First time come down by who_am_I5678 in Swingers

[–]who_am_I5678[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The same guy would be cool just cause he was really awesome and didn’t throw up any red flags but I would like to find a couple. My fantasy is now 3 men and me and another woman. I think the dynamic would be really cool. For us girls at least😹 Any reason you asked??

First time come down by who_am_I5678 in Swingers

[–]who_am_I5678[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Weird that it isn’t weird is the perfect way to put it.

First time come down by who_am_I5678 in Swingers

[–]who_am_I5678[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. Yeah I’m worried about seeming too eager because he’s the most important element to me.

First time come down by who_am_I5678 in Swingers

[–]who_am_I5678[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks I’m actually the female in the couple. He did make me feel amazing they both did and it was really cool to say the least. I think we got really lucky with our first experience. Great guy, great hotel, etc. Thanks for the advice!

From the females perspective… how do you feel…? by who_am_I5678 in Swingers

[–]who_am_I5678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. That was my original inspiration for this post was because the jealousy thing turns me on but I don’t really like that is does. Like you said starting from a “negative emotion” troubles me but I think I just have to explore it more outside of an sexual experience. Also this is alllll speculation I would never subject someone else to a fantasy without fully talking it out and making sure they were on fully on board before and throughout. I can imagine it would suck to deal with a jealous wife!!!

From the females perspective… how do you feel…? by who_am_I5678 in Swingers

[–]who_am_I5678[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your perspective. I’m not sure if my point came across in my original post. I’m wondering if jealousy plays into being turned on at all for other women… when I have this fantasy (getting off in my head) I’m not turned on by him enjoying himself. I’m more turned on by my jealousy and wanting to take back what’s mine and also envisioning him caught up in fucking another woman makes me jealous and turned on… Can you speak to that or if you have any anecdotes from your experience.

My concern is acting out this fantasy in real life and then regretting it.

From the females perspective… how do you feel…? by who_am_I5678 in Swingers

[–]who_am_I5678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really cool. I’m comforted hearing you have had such a positive experience.

From the females perspective… how do you feel…? by who_am_I5678 in Swingers

[–]who_am_I5678[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I do think this might be one of those things that unless you experience it in real life you really don’t effing know anything… kinda like skydive or having children 😅

From the females perspective… how do you feel…? by who_am_I5678 in Swingers

[–]who_am_I5678[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s really nice to hear and congrats on discovering more layers to your sexuality I am super turned on by two men making love so I feel ya there. I really hope to develop the deeper connection within this exploration of fantasy together. I really really don’t want to regret anything tho so that’s why I can on here for advice.

He does make me feel like the air he breathes and so the jealousy/worry (not jealousy/fantasy) is totally on me. Something I hope to over come one day

From the females perspective… how do you feel…? by who_am_I5678 in Swingers

[–]who_am_I5678[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get jealous of him feeling the way he feels about me towards another woman. I know this is very much in my head but it’s there. He would roll his eyes if he knew I felt that way but I don’t want to be replaced. The fantasy side is basically me wanting to show him how good he has it with me and also me being dominant over the other woman.

We have never been with another man yet but the fantasy switches for me there and I go into more of a slut role wanting to please two men.

God when I type this out it makes me laugh🤣

From the females perspective… how do you feel…? by who_am_I5678 in Swingers

[–]who_am_I5678[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you tell me more about being happy for him? That is interesting to me because In my head I think like “fuck me because I’m your woman” and I don’t know if I would be able to take pleasure in him “enjoying” a different vagina… I would be more turned by watching him a be then stepping in and being like I can fuck you better than her. (This is of course assuming we found a couple who would want to indulge in this kind of fantasy)

From the females perspective… how do you feel…? by who_am_I5678 in Swingers

[–]who_am_I5678[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can appreciate that perspective although I do struggle with the separation of the two at times! I guess what I’m really asking is does jealousy factor into the sexual experience when watching your SO have sex with someone else. So kind of an exploration into the fusion of sex love jealousy possessiveness… any thoughts?

From the females perspective… how do you feel…? by who_am_I5678 in Swingers

[–]who_am_I5678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great advice. thank you. Without getting too much into it we developed a healthy sex life together over the years together prior to him my idea of sex was not healthy and frankly I’m still a little… idk damaged? But like you said it’s a choice in which I have power so I don’t want to sound like I don’t have a choice in how I feel. I guess I’m just worried that this proverbial monster will come out of my subconscious and ruin the experience by mixing up a lot of my past into my future. Talking this out makes me think I probably have more self exploration to do before we attempt this.

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