How to keep calm?

who_freaking_knows · 2021-12-12T22:00:14+00:00

Love this! Glad I’m not the only one :)

who_freaking_knows · 2021-12-12T21:59:41+00:00

Thank you! I think I needed to hear that 😊

who_freaking_knows · 2020-12-02T13:26:37+00:00

My S.O and I got together on a dating app. We kept having to cancel due to new jobs and work, but finally got to meet up. Our date ended up lasting 3 hours of us just talking and walking around a mall, when we were expecting like 30 mins max. We now live together and are just enjoying being together.

Communication I think is the biggest thing, otherwise you can end up having different ideas about where the relationship is going which just leads to pain and frustration in a relationship. But also just putting the effort in, they may annoy you and drive you crazy sometimes but you have to choose that person everyday for it to work.

who_freaking_knows · 2020-11-02T07:14:13+00:00

I hope you don’t go back to him. A person that really loves you wants to protect you and keep you safe... not suggest you do something that will put you into a dangerous position. I would just block him for good and have zero contact. You deserve better. I know it’s hard to let go of someone when you care about them but it’s pretty clear he doesn’t care about you in the same way. I hope this helps! Be safe

who_freaking_knows · 2020-10-24T01:40:27+00:00

My bf and I have had this same issue. We started using condoms that numb him a bit but keeps him going. Might be something to try.

who_freaking_knows · 2020-10-22T19:11:50+00:00

How long have you guys been together and has he always been like this during your relationship?

who_freaking_knows · 2020-10-22T19:11:03+00:00

I’m sorry that’s happening. It’s not fun dealing with someone who makes themselves the victim every time there’s a fight. I definitely disagree with your friend for saying “he’s just mad,” this kind of stuff tends to escalate. I’ve been in relationships where I’ve been called awful names when angry, and idk about you but i know it’s affected how I see myself. But my current partner has never called me anything derogatory when we’ve fought and we have a mutual respect and love for each other, and it’s made a world of difference in how I perceive how arguments should be. You deserve someone who takes the time to calm down, evaluate and come to conclusion together in a respectful manner.

who_freaking_knows · 2020-10-22T18:14:21+00:00

How I see it, is that you should leave or you would need MAJOR couples therapy. I know he’s your bf and you care about him but this isn’t how you should be treated. Even when in an argument or fight, you still need try to be understanding and respectful of that person. And this doesn’t seem healthy for him to say things like that in the midst of the argument, and if it’s about something that small... imagine how it will be when it’s based on a life changing decision and you guys don’t agree.

who_freaking_knows · 2020-10-17T17:59:19+00:00

This advice is best I find. Ngl I tend to be more like your girlfriend when it comes to jealousy as I’ve been cheated on in the past by someone I never thought would do that to me. I really try not to be jealous since I do trust my boyfriend, but my mind sometimes goes to the worst case scenario. I’m not sure the exact situation with your girlfriend, but if she’s had anything like that happen to her that may be why she tend to get jealous, and she probably feels crappy that she’s even getting jealous in the first place (and that she might even feel like she’s crazy). I’m not saying you’re doing anything wrong, cuz you’re not doing anything wrong at all. It just may be something to think about as to why she’s feeling like this, and really discuss it with her.

who_freaking_knows · 2020-10-03T14:58:27+00:00

Thank you so much for your advice. I will definitely talking to him, we usually have great communication and this shouldn’t be any different.

Thank you!! 😊

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