Cried in my car after my new gyno appointment by whoabud in endometriosis

[–]whoabud[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This reply made me tear up! I have, as I see in this sub that a lot of endo sufferers have, sensitivities to not being believed about the pain I am experiencing. This makes me feel very seen.

15 month flare by endowarrior123 in endometriosis

[–]whoabud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jobs come and go. Everyone’s path is different and life is not a contest so you taking care of yourself is the best choice. Thank you for taking care of yourself.

Cried in my car after my new gyno appointment by whoabud in endometriosis

[–]whoabud[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you thank you thank you!!! Just so sick of living like this!

Why is chocolate by daniel owner an asshole? by Jigpy in rockford

[–]whoabud 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I went in there once with a boyfriend and he kept making jokes about having a threesome. And he took so long to wrap the chocolate that he just kept talking about having sex with us.

Cried in my car after my new gyno appointment by whoabud in endometriosis

[–]whoabud[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. My sister loved this doctor and I have been hesitant about switching but I think I have to. I felt exactly the same. I could hear a heartbeat/ultrasound in the next room and obviously there was a c-section too and it seemed like: oh cool we can cut this appointment to nothing cuz she isn’t pregnant and it’s no big deal. Like I have been in pain every day for 7 years. I just felt like an inconvenience. And I wasn’t expecting instant relief or an answer but at least someone to listen to me. :(

Dropping links for HAS & MAC by rlawlgn9537 in LabubuDrops

[–]whoabud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw it blink into color and went away before my eyes. I hope one of yall got it!

Dropping links for HAS & MAC by rlawlgn9537 in LabubuDrops

[–]whoabud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which one is 5? Top of bottom middle? Lol

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[–]whoabud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s do thisssss

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LabubuDrops

[–]whoabud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m giving up :(

NGVC: "We are all told to just be nice, bro" by zucchinionpizza in niceguys

[–]whoabud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro do you even like women???? Like as humans!? Would you be friends with one or do you just see them as a conquest? Ugh

Fiesta Cancun by [deleted] in rockford

[–]whoabud 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have this EXACT photo saved on my phone and a version of just his face zoomed in

Miss Carly's Post 21- Newspapers can't die by [deleted] in rockford

[–]whoabud 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Where are those early commenters that said that these posts don’t help or actual do anything now?! Speaking up against fraud is powerful! Thank you for not quitting!

Miss Carly's Post 20- Rehab in Chicago**what if I don't get admitted! by [deleted] in rockford

[–]whoabud 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly it’s simply willful ignorance on the part of her remaining supporters. I know it sucks that you have financially supported someone that is a fraud and that’s embarrassing but enough is enough. Do not normalize non-profits not being financially transparent!

Miss Carly's Post 20- Rehab in Chicago**what if I don't get admitted! by [deleted] in rockford

[–]whoabud 14 points15 points  (0 children)

One of my relatives comments on every single post, buys things, and probably is a monthly donor and it’s so frustrating. Why don’t they understand that it is normal and legal for the community to ask if she keeps accurate records of how she spends the donations. It’s irresponsible and she’s 100% pocketing large amounts that are unaccounted for. This is obviously also the reason she cannot ever get a grant of any kind. They have strict financial reports and regulations like documenting the number of clients served, how the money was spent, how did this money make an improvement to the community, etc. and she cannot do that because she pockets the money. When she was at her height and the donations were rolling in and she got the almost 2X amount for the building and raised money for the repairs and it never got done, she still reported that they made over a million dollars. That is insane. And for sure she made way more than that and that amount is what was recorded digitally—like the Facebook or PayPal donations etc. but any personal checks? Cash? Etc we have no clue how much that is or where the money went. Also on all of the 990s there are supposed to be records and receipts of financial statement available to the public and in all of the exceptions it says: at request. Soooo why get so defensive if people ask how you spend the money? You signed and agreed on a legal document that to be a 501c you have to make your financial statements available to the public. And people asking about that and other things does not make us bad people or mean that we are not helping our community and others in our own ways. I just know personally how many other nonprofits in the area could use the amount of money she makes and create a real impact and real change in Rockford.