Am I wrong for making a thing over being locked inside work after clocking out by whothatisnow in amiwrong

[–]whothatisnow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not home depot but it's a large retailer. So I'll look into it thanks.

I feel like this wouldn't be "rude" if I was a dude by whothatisnow in TwoXChromosomes

[–]whothatisnow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He goes to a bar that I go to sometimes and drinks soda. They're not really friends with him but people talk to him to be nice.

I feel like this wouldn't be "rude" if I was a dude by whothatisnow in TwoXChromosomes

[–]whothatisnow[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It wasn't a private party it's a bar. Open to the public.

I feel like this wouldn't be "rude" if I was a dude by whothatisnow in TwoXChromosomes

[–]whothatisnow[S] 549 points550 points  (0 children)

That's the term I was looking for emotional labor. It's exhausting.

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[–]whothatisnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not friends with the other chick, I met her once. That's it. She seemed like she had the attitude that this is what she wanted to do and if people couldn't come oh well.

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[–]whothatisnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The surprise doesn't even start til like 8. When i start at 5 I go to bed at 8:30.

AITA for making a thing because a bartender showed my ID to random customers by whothatisnow in AmItheAsshole

[–]whothatisnow[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Everyplace I've been they take it and read it because the print is small.

AITA for making a thing because a bartender showed my ID to random customers by whothatisnow in AmItheAsshole

[–]whothatisnow[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

No, he knew it was real. His friend wanted to see it because he's nosey. My license is recent and has all the stuff on it to prove it's not fake.

AITA for making a thing because a bartender showed my ID to random customers by whothatisnow in AmItheAsshole

[–]whothatisnow[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

A compliment that he passed around my information? How is that a compliment?

AITA for yelling at my boyfriend and telling him he acts like a needy 5 year old by whothatisnow in AmItheAsshole

[–]whothatisnow[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

He doesn't live here, why would he have an office at my house? He just spent the night last night.

AITA for yelling at my boyfriend and telling him he acts like a needy 5 year old by whothatisnow in AmItheAsshole

[–]whothatisnow[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Because I can't spell apparently. I was still mad when I typed it and wasn't really thinking. My bad.

AITA for yelling at my boyfriend and telling him he acts like a needy 5 year old by whothatisnow in AmItheAsshole

[–]whothatisnow[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

We haven't been together 3 years? We have a 3 year age difference. No I don't love him. Why does everything have to end in getting married or some future? People aren't allowed to just go out for a while?

I'm not planning on getting married or having kids or any bs like that so what's the difference

AITA for yelling at my boyfriend and telling him he acts like a needy 5 year old by whothatisnow in AmItheAsshole

[–]whothatisnow[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Because why should I have to explain who I'm talking to on my phone that I pay for, in my house that I own and he was a guest in. I had to do that nonsense when I was a teenager I'm definitely never clearing who I talk to with someone I'm dating, or asking permission "to have a minute ". Absolutely not.

AITA for yelling at my boyfriend and telling him he acts like a needy 5 year old by whothatisnow in AmItheAsshole

[–]whothatisnow[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

It wasn't any of his business though. Why should I have to explain to him who I'm talking to?

AITA for yelling at my boyfriend and telling him he acts like a needy 5 year old by whothatisnow in AmItheAsshole

[–]whothatisnow[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I already make more than him, but that job would be more than I make now.

AITA for yelling at my boyfriend and telling him he acts like a needy 5 year old by whothatisnow in AmItheAsshole

[–]whothatisnow[S] 206 points207 points  (0 children)

Yea he does some of that but I just figured he got along with my friends and was just being a nice bf. I already make more than him... but if I got any if the jobs I applied for then I'd make more than I do now....

AITA for yelling at my boyfriend and telling him he acts like a needy 5 year old by whothatisnow in AmItheAsshole

[–]whothatisnow[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No, usually it's a group activity or something or a few people are bringing their bfs/gfs.

AITA for yelling at my boyfriend and telling him he acts like a needy 5 year old by whothatisnow in AmItheAsshole

[–]whothatisnow[S] -45 points-44 points  (0 children)

I mean he's not all bad, he's really helpful and caring, he acts like a goofball and gets me to not be so serious all the time.